I’ve been attracted to anal sex all my life. When I started watching porn, I was drawn to anal porn much more than vaginal. When fantasizing about sex, it was always anal rather than vaginal sex I wanted, but I never considered the possibility of going entirely anal only at the time.

After reading about the experiences of other people and their success with long term anal only relationships, however, the idea immediately turned me on. There is something tremendously hot about the idea of subverting the body’s “intent” and deriving all pleasure from anal penetration and completely abandoning the vagina. Effectively reprogramming the brain and shifting the pleasure center.

For many, men and women alike, anal sex provides immense pleasure and can allow women much greater orgasms than vaginal. For some women who cannot orgasm vaginally, anal provides the only way to do so.

So what about any of you? Why does the idea appeal to you, and have any of you successfully done so long term?

Anonymous: im a woman, and i have sex regularly. im wondering when other women last had vaginal sex, just to compare…

Great question. Anyone care to respond?

doublemyass: Anyone have any idea of what I should stick up my ass? I’m getting tired of how small my butt plug feels 🙁

Sounds like it’s time to upgrade to a new plug. The Tantus A-Bomb is pretty amazing but somewhat large (2 ¼” at widest, 1 ¼” at neck).

This is a sister blog to Anal Only, which is for porn following the same theme, while this is for text posts and discussion on the subject.

Are any of you out there currently engaged in an anal only relationship, or have you been in the past? If so, speak up! What have your experiences been? What do you like about going anal only? What makes you prefer anal sex over vaginal? If you don’t have anal only experience but are interested in giving up vaginal sex, your input is welcome as well. What makes you interested in the idea, and how seriously are you considering it? What things make you hesitant to do so?

It is my hope that this can grow into a platform for interesting discussion of the topic and perhaps encourage some others interested in the idea to give it a try.

Anal only!