Anonymous: I’m not one of the lucky ones to have only anal sex. But it is something I think about. Is it wrong (as a man) to not like vaginal sex but prefer only anal sex?

There is nothing wrong about preferring either over the other. It’s all about personal preference. Some confused, closed-minded people may say it’s wrong because they’re confused and don’t like to be faced with things that don’t conform to their understanding of The Way Things Work, but they are wrong. Desire to exclusively have anal sex with women is perfectly understandable and not gay at all (not that there’s anything wrong with being gay or bi either!), and you should not be ashamed of your preferences, even if it may be difficult to find people who understand them sometimes.

Anonymous: She knows how much I love anal. The question is how do I introduce the idea that I would prefer anal in future without hurting her getting hurt feelings? How did others start to discuss ending vaginal sex with their other half? Feeling nervous and not sure how she’ll react so mature and sensible answers please.

Why not start by suggesting a weekend of nothing but anal? Don’t necessarily mention it as part of a long term plan, just play it by ear and see what she thinks about the idea. If she’s open to it, pack that weekend with as much anal sex as you can, but also spend a lot of time focusing on her pleasure alongside the anal, making her cum as often as you can. You want to make it an amazing, unforgettable experience so that a few weeks to a month later if you suggest it again, she jumps at the opportunity.

Ultimately, the desire to go anal only has to be mutual for there to be any success. What you can do is encourage smaller sessions of anal only and focus on making anal sex even more enjoyable for her than vaginal, and see where things go from there.

Anonymous: Loving all the anal related stuff here! I’d happily give up vaginal tomorrow if I could. But what I found is some women like anal, some don’t, none want to do it all the time. Is it normal for me to want just anal instead? What do most other men feel about this?

It’s perfectly normal to just want anal, but it’s also normal to want just vaginal or to want both. Men are more vocal about a desire to go anal only, but there are women out there who would gladly do it as well. Communication and compatibility are key in establishing a successful anal only relationship.

An article about anal orgasms and how to achieve them.

This is how they describe the pleasure of the anal orgasm:

Having an orgasm through anal stimulation can be a fiesta of pleasure. Not only can blissful sensation come from stimulating the outer anus, which is full of delicious nerve endings, throbbing pleasure can come from deep penetration.

They go on to talk about the vast network of nerves shared by the anus, rectum, vagina and clitoris.

As far as the body, brain and nervous system are concerned there is no distinction between the pleasure receptors in the pelvic region.

We’ve seen this before. In fact, it’s one of the most frequent questions posed by both men and women.

Here, it is a woman called Kate who has this on her mind. Thankfully another woman has put her at ease, and assured her this is completely normal.

This is one of the primary reasons people are unable to allow themselves to enjoy anal sex as it should be. Such is the social pressure to conform many people worry about how they will be perceived by their partner, or even to have feelings of guilt or self-doubt.

It needs repeating that a desire or preference for anal sex is normal, natural and healthy. It is the denial of this that is harmful.

The anus and rectum are superbly adapted for providing sexual pleasure for both men and women. On top of this the emotional connection, trust and intimacy are unmatched. Most rational people will conclude that it is normal to prefer this over what is, after all, merely a means of reproduction.

Women love anal sex because it can feel absolutely incredible. It’s different in sensation and it doesn’t feel like anything else she may have felt before – it’s deep inside, it’s not her clitoris and is not in her vagina

Source: WHY DOES SHE LOVE ANAL SEX?

Read about this woman, with her all too frequently asked question, caused by a popular misconception:

…the question is this: will frequent anal sex ruin my muscle

Like many women she naturally wants to indulge in regular anal sex with her partner for their mutual enjoyment, but is anxious that she may be doing long term damage.

As the good doctor herself replies, this is very unlikely to happen; millions of people across the world, and throughout history have enjoyed anal sex, yet anal incontinence remains very uncommon.

It is unfortunate that this myth which does not stand up to scrutiny stands in the way of so many enjoying a life of anal sex to the full.

Be assured that you can begin practising anal only today and no harm will come of it, provided you follow the usual precautions such as use of adequate lubrication and stopping at any point you feel discomfort—anal sex done properly is about pleasure.

Follow this link to read about a man wants to know if anal sex has any advantages over vaginal sex.

He receives this helpful response:

The woman’s anus on the other hand offers a contrasting stimulation. It is extremely smooth, snug fitting and muscular. Add to these markedly increased sensations the taboo nature of the sex act and the fact that the trust and arousal needed to engage in anal sex makes this act much more significant to the man.

Feel free to contact me if you wish but there are many good reasons for women to seek anal sex as well not the least of which is safety from pregnancy and the extremely intense orgasms that result for anal penetration

The sensation of gradually being filled by the man’s penis can be very erotic. Some women may even have orgasms from anal sex alone

Source: Do women like to have anal sex?

Most people think of anal sex as something done rarely between heterosexual couples, but this couldn’t be further from the truth, as this article at askmen.com shows:

For example, in ancient Peruvian cultures, at least half of all married couples indulged in anal intercourse in their lovemaking experiences. In addition, a more recent survey of 5000 married couples in rural Brazil found that in 40% of households, anal sex is regularly included in the lovemaking experience.

Furthermore, in Rio de Janeiro, the figure is even higher at around 50%.

They also say:

anal eroticism is probably the oldest manifestation of human sexuality and a very misunderstood sexual practice.

So you can see that there is no reason why desiring an anal only lifestyle should be considered in any way unusual. Anal sex is a normal sexual practice enjoyed by millions everyday, one that many will quite rightly prefer to the exclusion of others.