My husband wants anal sex really bad
This has been linked to in an earlier QotD but I thought the whole story was worth coming back to. In the words of one wife [archive link]:
Anal sex is something both of us never tried before we met. Now that we’re married, my husband consistently asks me to try anal sex and I did a couple times. I even took a laxitive to prevent the unspeakable to happen. One time we tried it, he almost got all the way in but it was still a struggle. His base is too thick for me and it really hurts.
This is the story in many a marriage; a natural urge to take things to the next level and explore even greater intimacy. He’s likely to held this desire for many years but is now being open, while she in turn is understanding and is both willing and shows a real interest in experiencing the pleasure of anal sex.
But because there has been some minor difficulty she is convinced it cannot be done. Always remember, anyone is capable of anal sex, regardless of size.
Such a psychological block can be worked around. The best way to proceed is to avoid going directly for anal intercourse, but to build confidence slowly. Start out just with light caresses to the anus, and over time gradually insert fingers or small toys, for short periods only. As mentioned before, most women find anilingus immensely arousing and pleasurable, and is sure to relax and dilate the sphincter muscle.
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