This was originally a reblog of a post containing a gif that no longer exists with a fictional scenario captioned below. The original post from Tumblr no longer exists, but the caption and response below remain valid. 

analsexonly: She was raised by ignorant parents who taught her that her asshole was a dirty and disgusting place that shouldn’t be touched or explored and that anal sex was terrible and painful and something no normal person would want. Ironically, that made her rebel and try it anyway, and that’s how she learned that she really preferred it to having her pussy fucked.

girlslikedeepanaltoo: Usually it’s not really parents that give this stigma. It’s our society as a whole. It’s guys just trying to stick it in us when we’re younger, the lack of preparing, the fact that it’s dirty or taboo. It’s other girls telling us we’re a whore for wanting it in our ass. It’s this idea that a girl is a whore if she wants sex AT ALL or in anything that isn’t straight up vanilla missionary for the purposes of childbearing.

Which is a bullshit double standard. We might not have a prostate, but anal is still fucking awesome.

This is one whore that says bend me over and just like this and slide your cock right up my ass. Please and thank you.

I’ll get off my soapbox now.

miss-van-der-rohe: To each their own, but why limit yourself to one way to have sex? It’s the flipside of having vaginal sex only without even trying anal ever. And from what I see you’re actually turned OFF by female genitals, which is an issue in itself; it’s like those women who claim to be attracted to men but are disgusted by their penises and never want to look at one – you think that’s healthy?

Great question. Ultimately, I think people should do what appeals to them. People who enjoy vaginal sex should have vaginal sex. People who enjoy both anal and vaginal sex should have both. And people who prefer anal should have anal. I’m not turned off by female genitals so much as attracted to the female anus even more. In fact, I find a lot of vulvas quite beautiful, but the overall experience with anal sex is more enjoyable all around.

There are many different reasons people choose to go anal only. In some cases it is a bit of a fetishization of limitation, e.g. vaginal chastity while replacing it completely with the anus as a sex organ. That turns some people on—men and women both. But for others—again, men and women both—vaginal sex just doesn’t do anything for them. It doesn’t feel as good or doesn’t make them cum easily or at all, while anal does. If you can’t cum from vaginal sex but you can from anal, or if anal routinely leads to much better orgasms, it’s no surprise that you would prefer anal.

dr-yueh: I’ve spent some time today reading all the submission/post/stories on this blog today. You have to read them all to get the bigger picture, as each individual doesn’t show what’s really going on. Just on the number we’ve seen so far, I’d say there is now huge interest in anal and anal-only. What’s more the stories validate the indications that just as many women as men want anal sex. It must help that now people have examples to follow of happy working anal-only relationships.

Anonymous: I would like to tell my story as few have contributed their experiences. I am married and my wife and I have been having anal sex for nearly 20 years. Now in the last 3 years it has been anal only. We didn’t “decide” it just happened that we stopped vaginal one day and never resumed. Strange that she “pretends” to like vaginal more yet has never asked once. All the same she now has great orgasms, likes to be rimmed etc. I have no interest in her vagina, never did so couldn’t be happier.

Finally, I turned over on my stomach on the bed and he slid his dick into my asshole. At first he only slid the head in. Then he slid in about another inch. The third time, he slid the rest of his cock deep inside me, but he didn’t pound. He just held it there for a little while. He was so afraid of hurting me that I had to move back and forth on his dick and beg him to start sliding in and out of me! But it wasn’t painful for me at all!! At first, it was slightly uncomfortable, kinda like wearing a tampon was for the first time. But it didn’t hurt anywhere near as bad as when I lost my vaginal virginity. So I guess I got all nervous for nothing!

Source.

For those wanting to try anal sex but don’t know the best way to get started, try this guide at lovehoney.co.uk

by following the five easy steps below your first approach to anal sex can be one of the most fulfilling sexual experiences you’ve ever had.

They break it down into 5 steps to help make that first time more pleasurable and successful, because the first time is key to creating the right positive impression of anal sex; done right and both will want to repeat it.

As the article says:

Some people don’t experience an orgasm when trying anal sex for the first time, but the more you and your lover try anal sex the better it will get.

A discussion at goodinbed.com starts with a person asking why people want anal sex, what is the point of it, and expressing the mistaken view that women will only have anal sex when coerced by men.

Among the responses one woman says:

I am a woman who has recently discovered a liking with anal sex.

I had tried it with lovers in the past and it always seemed terrible. But there is something about it that seems more of an intimate experience than just vaginal sex.

In my opinion, woman are afraid of anal sex for quite a few different reasons that I have discussed with multiple people.
1. Anal Sex is for gay men only.
2. Its wrong because the Bible says it is.
3. I’m scared its going to hurt.
4. “Exit Only”.
5. They are content with what they are doing, and are afraid of trying new things.

dr-yueh: Sorry for another comment in your inbox – this is a bit of an obsession of mine 🙂 I can’t help but notice how “anal only” which has been under the radar for years (obviously people did it just kept quiet) but now appears to be getting more attention all of a sudden. I see more opening up about it on the internet in the last few years than ever. And more are curious to learn more or try. Obviously places like this blog do help.

There have been discussions about it for some time, but they’ve been scattered across the internet rather than on sites specific to the subject. The few other sites that exist for this purpose tend to be more about certain people’s personal experiences—which is great, but I think a site approaching it more neutrally attracts more discussion and sharing of many different people’s experiences instead.

The journey to the anal only lifestyle often starts out with anal masturbation, which leads to a natural desire to want to experiment with anal sex as well. Also, women who prefer anal stimulation, or who would be anal only otherwise if they were in a relationship, often masturbate anally.

At edenfantasys.com a woman asks if any other woman masturbate anally, without any vaginal or clitoral stimulation.

One woman says:

I could cum from anal masturbation only but Id much rather have all three (clit, g-spot and anal orgasm) so no I don’t ever do anal masturbation ONLY, but it normally is included in what Im doing.

Another says:

I have and I do. I find anal stimulation to be extremely pleasurable, and honestly, some of my best masturbation orgasms are from anal masturbation.

A third says:

I have never O’d from masturbating anally alone. With clitoral stimulation and a toy or vibrator in my behind, yes. I can O from anal sex without massaging my clit if the guy I’m with is way above average in width and length but I know there’s a whole mental taboo thing thats going on with that that helps to send me over bliss’s edge.

So there we have differing responses, but all point to how common anal masturbation is and how great the possibilities for pleasure from anal stimulation are, whether with from a penis or solo.

superprettypinkus: What I’ve learned is that introducing anal sex into the mix changes everything. Of the 10 men I’ve known 8 were interested and once they had tried it most would probably have been happy with that only. It’s Pandora’s box, in a good way for the most part. As for myself, not quite ready for that exclusivity but I’m usually amenable to my partners interests. When I was younger, I didn’t like anal nearly so much, but as time passes I find my sexual center of gravity shifting. Allison.