analk1ng: I find it interesting that different people are coming forward saying how that anal not only is a natural thing to do, or want to do, but actually looks and feels more natural than vaginal which has always been more or less in line with my thoughts on the subject. I look forward to more discussion on this topic. Could it be just the lack or platform for “anal only” meant these feelings just haven’t been shared previously?

I really think that’s the case. It can be hard to admit things if you aren’t aware that other people share your opinion. A lot of people think they’re supposed to prefer vaginal sex, because it’s “normal” and biologically intended for reproduction. But the thing is, we as a species rarely have sex for reproductive purposes, we’re doing it purely for pleasure and intimacy, so that argument in favor of vaginal sex is irrelevant and shouldn’t be used. As more people recognize this, and as more open discussion is had on the subject, in a tolerant and safe environment for people to admit their preferences, I think the truth will come out and even more people will admit their preference for anal sex.

The last 3 times we have done it i climaxed so have actually started asking for anal which he finds hilarious. As i really hated it. I’m a true convert. It feels so good we have both climaxed together which for me was incredible. He finds the climax much more intense this way.

From here.

Anonymous: I’m glad you have discussed and reported on how women have more intense orgasms from anal, but please don’t forget men. I don’t see it mentioned, and many would be interested to know, that it is also much more intense for us two. There is no competition from vaginal or oral as far as I’m concerned. For those who haven’t tried it’ll blow you away. It is both longer and stronger. I believe this may be part of the explanation for why we often get that “boredom”; with any other sex.

A very good point. Most of the content here has been focusing on women who love anal, partly because it is commonly accepted by many that men love anal while women do not. But that can actually be a bit of deceiving, and there are male misconceptions as well. Anal is definitely a tighter fit for men, and can feel more primal and natural, with a more snug fit around the penis than the vagina provides, and the combination of the texture and tightness feels better than a vagina for many men. It also looks more visually striking and appealing.

This post refers to a gif that is no longer part of this blog. It illustrated the contrast between an empty vagina and a full anus as something very visually stimulating and natural looking.

Anonymous: Wow that latest gif is hot. Not only that…but others agree that anal looks like the way sex should be between a guy and a girl – “natural” as you called it. I’ve always kept that thought to myself till now. Liking the blog so much.

That is the question asked here.

Many great replies, including this excellent advice:

I thought it felt weird at first and I was scared about but the pain, but my husband and I used a lot of lube and went slow… very slow (thank god he’d never done it before, so he was able to stay turned on and give me a chance to relax and enjoy it). Now, about half of our sexual interactions are anal… and we have sex maybe every 2 to 3 days.

Now that I’m pregnant (swollen and yeast infections… eeew!!!) anal is the only way we can both enjoy each other without hurting me.

I fight for anal, I think every female should try it, but the correct way…. it’s not a fast process, and it doesn’t feel GREAT until the female in completely comfortable with the act and her partner.

I’m not saying anal is for everyone, but a lot of girls won’t even try it, guys too… why not? If you wash your butt, there’s nothing gross about it! You don’t have to give yourself an enema beforehand, unless the object used is longer than ten inches or something.

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All the rumors are lies, made up by people who’ve never done anal, or tried dry, or only using spit. The first 5 or 6 times (or however long it takes you to get used to it), you’ll need LOTS of lube and patience, but it will pay off. Goes for guys too!!!
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And also this comment:

Oh yes! I do! I love it as often as I can get it! I can have bigger, better orgasms throught just anal sex than through anything else, which I didn’t think could be possible after the ones I get from my hubbie sucking on my clit but anal orgasms are amazing!

Be sure to read the rest for more positive experiences.

So says a woman at experienceproject.com

It’s a shame about the way the site censors certain key words, but it’s easy enough to follow nevertheless.

Many other women also confirm how much more pleasurable they have found anal to be, with one such highlight:

I think I get MORE INTENSE satisfaction now from anal than vaginal. Even though the preparation time is a minus for anal, the pleasure & satisfaction I get makes it worthwhile.

In time, she’ll learn that she doesn’t really need so much time to prepare and is usually unnecessary in any case.

Anonymous: I would like to add to what was said about porn and the shift towards anal in the other post. I think we are already at tipping point. Can’t remember the last time I ever watched a good vaginal scene or even saw one through. That’s true like you were saying for personal sexual practices. Last few women I’ve been with didn’t think it unusual when I asked if we could do anal. Maybe it’s just me but I don’t think so. This is not like the old days, people know anal is better than vaginal.

For me and other lovers of anal it’s largely the same, I think. Vaginal scenes, when encountered, just get skipped past until the next anal scene. There’s nothing in them to interest me. Even double penetration involving the vagina is of less interest to me than single or double anal.

You might be right about being at the tipping point already. It’s not uncommon for me these days to be watching a porn movie and simply not encounter any vaginal at all. And it’s glorious to see all these women going straight to anal sex and loving it.

It’s likely that many women who love or even prefer anal but still have vaginal do it out of some feeling of obligation, either because they think that it’s just something women are suppose to do therefore they keep doing it, or because they think men will want them to keep having vaginal sex along with anal. If everyone was open and honest and followed their own desires rather than societal norms, I think a lot of people would be having a lot more anal sex.

I was pretty opposed to the idea to start with. It just seemed yucky, but after a few years I started to relax. Finally I was ready to try it and I didn’t really like it at first. It was just impossible to relax enough to enjoy it, but after more practice we finally got the hang of it and it’s very enjoyable. The orgasm is more intense.

From here.

Some people claim not to like anal sex; that’s their choice, and they shouldn’t have to have anal if they don’t want to.

What they shouldn’t be doing is telling other people that they are wrong for liking or wanting to try anal sex.

A woman starts by explaining her situation:

My boyfriend has expressed how much he likes anal sex and how it has been an important part of his sex life.  The problem is, I have never liked it.  It is uncomfortable for me and I don’t feel it is necessary.  When I tell him that I don’t want to do it, he tells me that he would be gentle and do it properly where it wont be painful.  He thinks that if I just gave it a try that I would really like it.  He’s getting this idea because other women he has dated would do anal intercourse with him and liked it.

What begins is a frenzy of hatred directed at the boyfriend rather than a sensible discussion of how to help the couple or understand the boyfriend.

As a voice of sanity, this man makes a valid point:

I might sound selfish because I’m a man, and i too would like to try anal sex with my wife, and of course I’m being refused each time. The problem is that i feel this is not a choice she made on her own. The choice was already made for her and got well nutched in her brain by the exact same kind of people that answered here, so obviously she doesn’t even want to try it.
I’m saying that because, while we’re having sex, i gently lube and penetrate her anus with a finger, action that brings out moans of pleasure. When she realises that she’s enjoying it, she pulls away like burned and acts like its wrong to feel good that way.

Sadly it is in human nature to be susceptible to group-think, to bow to peer pressure. Don’t ever accept anybody else’s opinion about anal sex until you’ve tried for yourself.