analonlygirls: Going on a first date or outing with a new potential lover or fuck buddy can sometimes be intimidating for an anal only girl.  Finishing up the night out with some hot sex is always a great way to wrap things up, but you might not have the confidence to raise the issue of wanting your relationship to be anal only.  Here are some tips to help ensure that it’s your little backdoor that gets put to use, starting your new relationship out on the right track…

A. Wear a buttplug.  This alone won’t ensure that your new friend doesn’t try to fuck your pussy as well, but it will act as a good ice breaker for raising the topic of you wanting things to be anal only.

B. Put tape or a bandaid over your pussy.  Like wearing a buttplug, this will act as an icebreaker, but it also sends a strong message that your ass is your hole that’s best made for sex.

C. Lie.  Telling someone new straight up that you already are or want to learn to be an anal only girl might be something you’re not ready to announce on the first date, but a little white lie might make ensure that things end up all anal, making it easier to raise the issue next time you’re together.  One I’ve used before it to tell a guy that I’m on my period and so we can only do anal.

D. Write on your butt or lower back with a marker that you’re an anal only girl or something similar.  This is a bold way to go, but it gets the message across clearly, and if you write something there before the date, you don’t have to worry about chickening out when your skirt is hiked up and the fucking is about to start.

Anonymous: What do you think about chastity belts to enforce anal only?

I think it depends on the relationship. Some couples are turned on by the use of devices to enforce such things, while others prefer to use self control instead. Personally I can see the appeal in both:

A chastity device is complete enforcement of anal only which you can’t get around, especially if your partner is holding the key. To some, this is appealing, both because they may lack the self control to enforce what they want on themselves, and because they may be turned on by the lack of control.

Self control and a complete lack of interesting in vaginal stimulation, however, is even more appealing, because it means the woman is completely interested in anal and simply doesn’t care about her vagina at all. That’s even sexier.

I think every time I experience anal sex is better than the previous time. Feeling the head pop through my ring and then the slow push of it inside gets me so hot every time. My lover knows just how slow I need it at first. Then knows just when it’s best to speed it up. My O is so strong when he does me from behind.

And a response in the comments:

My wife agrees with you! She said she [rarely] has a vaginal g spot orgasm but anally she has it everytime. She says occassionally she can have simultaneous g spot and [clitoral] orgasms that are huge which always causes her to squirt during orgasm but it only happens during doggie style anal penetration when my balls are slapping her clit. When that happens she screams and clamps hard on me for at least a minute before flooding me and collapsing on the bed. My wife said it is the most intense orgasm she has.

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So many girls I talk to simply refuse to even try it. But you can’t knock something you don’t know anything about. I personally love it and urge women to just relax and give it a try.

My first time was in high school. My boyfriend and I were in that “experimental” phase with sex, and decided to give it a go. One time [a]nd I was hooked. From then on I’ve always wanted it, there’s nothing hotter than a man holding you down and finishing in your ass.

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Anonymous: Have any of your readers had this issue?: My girlfriend has a really tight entrance to her vagina, so penetration there is difficult and actually damn uncomfortable for both of us sometimes. Like a sharp tight rubber band. We tried anal and were both surprised: It’s still tight, yes, but in a good way and the ring slips snugly over and around the head of my penis and down the length without feeling like its going to cut it off. Anybody else with this problem I say try switching instead to anal.

It can vary from person to person, in my experience. If the woman has vaginismus, her anus may be excessively tight as a result as well. But other times she may simply have a very tight vagina without it affecting her anus and then often finds anal sex to be a much more pleasurable experience than vaginal.

Pamela Cleo-Godard, a 28-year-old office assistant from New York City, has had anal sex with only two men (one of whom is her current boyfriend), but views it like any other item on the sexual menu. “We have it whenever the mood strikes,” she says. “It just isn’t a big deal anymore. It’s like how oral sex used to be something only a certain type of girl did. Now it’s par for the course.”

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Perhaps still a ways to go before anal becomes more accepted as the primary form of sex practiced by a couple, but becoming a normal and regular part of a couple’s sex life is an important step on the way there.

“Modern men and women have gone off the beaten path by moving their entry point two inches south from that of their forefathers,” Abigail said on HuffPost Live. “Modern American couples have normalized the practice of anal sex.”

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Do you take part in the anal only lifestyle? Do you prefer anal sex over all other forms of sex, or find the idea of becoming anal only hot? Do you just want to start having anal sex and aren’t sure where to start? Submit comments and experiences or ask questions!

From user FarmerDan on the Anal Only Lifestyle forum:

I’ve always been interested in anal but for a long time didn’t want to impose my ‘perverted’ desires on my partners (although in hindsight there were clear signals that they would have liked that). That all changed a decade or so back when my lover at the time had her first ever orgasm the first time we tried anal sex. As well as being good for her physically it added an intensity to our relationship that was extraordinary.

Since then I’ve had some anal only relationships. Their eyes widen when the possibility is raised, but agreement comes quickly!