Nowadays, it’s very normal for a guy to prefer a girl’s butt hole to her vagina. Us girls will just have to accept that vaginal sex is old news. My boyfriend prefers anal and we have it about every other time we have sex
begginglittleslut: One of my biggest fantasies lately revolves around my ass becoming my primary hole and I can’t stop thinking about it. And like having the only attention my cunt gets be from humping things and to lubricate things going in my ass. And ughhh I love playing with my cunt, but it’s been so gushy at the idea of being empty and useless.
whoreslave: thinking of becoming an anal only slut. any suggestions on how to do this?
Dive in. Start with something fairly easy, say a week. Resist giving in to vaginal penetration during that time, but you can still play with your clit if you need to during anal play. You should only do so during anal play, however, in order to get in the mindset of everything centering around anal penetration.
At the end of the initial trial period, reassess how you feel. If you desperately feel the urge to have vaginal penetration, go back to that for a while and then try another anal only period at some point in the future when it appeals to you again. However, if you feel like anal only is going great for you, stay with that. Many find that after they’ve gone for about a month with anal only, they don’t really miss vaginal sex and are fully satisfied with just anal—and usually have better orgasms and a more fulfilling sex life as well.
A young woman asks:
I know if you’re mature and decent you shouldnt think like this but be honest:
I never get guys liking me and its a bit of a joke with my friends, recently one guy did and my friend was saying, ‘what if he didn’t want to sex you he just wanted to bum you’ in a way that was implying that was how it is. She knows alot more guys than me so Im wondering is that a common thing?
As in even if a girl is unattractive, you would still try to have anal with her? Because when I was with him he did say something about anal
Can anyone answer her?
deep-and-lovely: I didn’t make a post before because I wasn’t sure I wanted to do this in March, but I’ve finally made up my mind, and i’m in.
I will have the assistance of naughtyowen to keep track of my progress and establish rewards/penalties for playing with my butt only, and staying away from my pussy and clit.
Why am I doing this? As a personal challenge. I don’t intend to give up my clit forever, but the idea of being anal-only excluding clit play completely is kinda hot. At least in theory :D. Also, I have read that some women can have orgasms this way, and it would be amazing if I could learn how to do that. It may not work for me, but I should try at least, right? 😛
Anonymous: I’m trying to get my wife to go anal only. Not only does it look and feel better but being effective birth control will be a good reason for her too. We are about 50/50 right now and if she agrees whats the best way to go about it? Should we work up to replacing her pussy slowy? I’ve seen you recommend weeks/months anal only at a time, but isn’t it better to have a gradual change? While I’m at it I have to say I love this blog and the sister site! Keep it up!
A gradual change is good for working up to the point where someone is open to the idea. Spending a month anal only as a trial period is a good way to dive in and for all involved to see what’s really going to be involved by doing so.
Ultimately it should be up to the both of you. If you both think that working up to it, slowly increasing the frequency of anal and decreasing vaginal over time, will work better for you, by all means give it a shot. Many people have reported success with a full anal only trial period, but it’s not guaranteed to be the best approach for everyone.
deep-and-lovely: You (or any of your followers) won’t happen to know a good kind of tape to put over the pussy while having sex? I’ve seen it in a couple of pcitures and I’d like to try it, but i’ve tried surgical tape and removing it hurts A LOT. I was wondering if there is some type of tape that doesn’t irritate the skin as much.
I’m not sure, myself. I’ve always assumed it’s some sort of cloth medical tape, just based on appearance. I also assume that it should have a fairly strong adhesive to remain attached even as it gets wet, so there may be no way to do it effectively without something that is likely to hurt when removing. I could be wrong, however, and a follower may have a better answer for you.
lubeandanal: My all time favorite porn to look at or watch is one where a woman is taking either a cock or a toy anally and she is ENJOYING it…like dripping wet pussy, smiling, moaning and actually enjoying the sensation of having her tight asshole stretched out and filled up.
Indeed, there’s nothing better than a woman who truly loves anal sex and chooses to masturbate anally for her own pleasure.