People often wonder what makes butthole pleasure so much fun.  The more you understand what it is inside a butthole, the easier it will be to access those special pressure points that will drive him or her wild.

Buttholes are surrounded by sphincter muscles and nerve endings which can send sexually stimulating signals to the brain.  Rectums are not connected to reproduction, however it is still highly sensitive to touch and can be a source of great pleasure to both participants during sex.  The anus is generally a forgotten erogenous zone which, if acknowledged, can enhance your sexual escapades with your partner.  Both men and women can enjoy anal pleasure if open-minded and willing to try new things.  But what exactly is it in your butthole that makes anal sex so enjoyable?

Anal sex feels good because there are a lot of nerve endings in and around your anus.  When these nerve endings are stimulated, signals are sent to your brain and can result in feelings of bliss and contentment as a response.  Because your butthole is relatively close to your penis or vagina, a lot of sexual nerve endings are within the same vicinity.  This is what causes anal sex to feel exceedingly good.  Butthole pleasure further enhances vaginal intercourse as well as oral sex for both men and women.  The nerves all around the buttocks are also sexually stimulating.  Squeezing the buttocks also sends erotic signals to the brain and a pleasurable sensation is ultimately produced.

For women, there is also the fact that the internal structure of the clitoris is more directly and easily stimulated via the rectum than the vagina. The g-spot is a way of stimulating the clitoris vaginally, but for many women there are even better spots anally, and this is why women can often orgasm entirely from anal sex with no other stimulation, and even with other stimulation will have far more powerful orgasms than without anal.

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A lot of people have their hang ups when it comes to anal sex because of false ideas that they hear about it.  A lot of the rumors that we hear about anal sex and why it is bad are completely untrue, or not researched thoroughly.

Common Myths about Buttholes

Buttholes are dirty.
Since we were younger we’ve been taught that buttholes are dirty and should not be tampered with.  The only concern you should have with anal sex is not to go directly from the butthole to the vagina without cleansing your penis or toy.  The butthole generally is as clean as any other part of you but has certain bacteria that should not be exposed to any other part of your body.

Butthole pleasure hurts.
At first anal sex can be painful, however it is not as painful as it may sound.  Ultimately anal sex shouldn’t be painful at all if it is done correctly.  The keys to successful butthole penetration are relaxation and lubrication.  The butthole is something that can stretch to allow the entrance of something as small as a finger to a very large penis.  It may take some time getting used to, but anal sex ultimately doesn’t hurt.

Butthole sex is dangerous to your health.
Butthole sex alone is not dangerous to your health.  Any form of sex can be dangerous to your health if not protected correctly.  Always use a lubricated condom if you do not know the sexually transmitted disease status of your partner.  After all the precautions have been acknowledged, remember that butthole pleasure has been proven to improve your overall anal health and does not cause any harm to your anus or rectum.

Sex in your butthole is not natural.
Any way you wish to perform a sexual act should feel natural to you.  If anal sex doesn’t feel natural to you, then you shouldn’t do it.  This myth is only subjective to the individual.  Butthole pleasure doesn’t have to be an unnatural act if you don’t want it to be.

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Butthole sex used to be a shunned sexual act.  Nowadays, it is embraced and sometimes even preferred to any other form of sex.

Women used to believe that it was impossible to enjoy anal sex because there was no way of reaching orgasm through butthole pleasure.  Now it has been revealed that there just as many sexual nerve endings in your butthole as there are in your vagina and it can be equally gratifying sexually.

The key to enjoying butthole pleasure is relaxation and lubrication. When about to have anal sex, it is important that both partners, especially the person on the receiving end, are as relaxed as possible.  Being tense before anal sex makes butthole penetration difficult and painful. […] Foreplay is an important part to butthole pleasure.  Be sure to do a lot of it before getting started.

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Most women have hang ups about anal sex and refuse the thought of allowing any form of penetration in their buttholes.  If you speak to most of the women who have tried butthole play, you will be surprised at how many of them enjoy it just as much as vaginal intercourse, if not more.

The most common misconception about anal sex for women is that it is only pleasurable for men.  This is utterly untrue.  As you’ve read before, the butthole contains many nerve endings that send sexually stimulating messages to the brain.

A lot of women don’t know that the G-spot is actually located in the butthole.  That is the reason why doggystyle feels so great and why most women achieve orgasm through this position.  Doggystyle makes hitting that spot become even easier.  Anal sex only enhances that sensation that you get from having sex in this position.  Butthole pleasure is a way of cutting out the middle man and going straight for the goal.

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Anonymous: I keep trying anal because I really want to like it and be like one of the beautiful ladies on here, but I never get off and it never feels good. I’ve tried with several different partners, and it’s always the same. Help!

There can be a lot of different reasons it doesn’t feel good for you, and it’s hard to pinpoint precisely without more information. You may need more lube, you may need more warmup, or you may simply need more practice. For many people, anal is a new sort of stimulation and requires developing new associations between those feelings and the idea of them being pleasurable initially. Though I am very much opposed to women ever playing with their clits and pussies once they’re more anally experienced, it can be an essential component of early anal training—make sure you always play with your clit while experimenting with anal play. It can make all the difference at first as to whether something in your butt feels good or not.

You should probably be training anally on your own initially rather than just trying to have sex. Use fingers, a dildo or a butt plug, but make anal penetration part of your standard masturbation routine. Every time you masturbate, ideally daily when possible, make sure you also have something up your ass, especially when you orgasm. It shouldn’t take long for this to be feeling good and for you to feel amplified and different orgasms thanks to the anal penetration.

Have partners finger your ass while eating your pussy or during vaginal sex. Wear a butt plug during other sex acts. Essentially, start making anal play a constant part of your sex life, always during other things that already do make you feel good. Over time, you’ll learn to enjoy the anal play on its own and it will feel good just to wear a butt plug for a while or to masturbate anally, and after this point you should begin having anal intercourse again—but for a while at least, continue rubbing or using a vibrator on your clit at the same time to aid orgasm and make sure everything feel good as you get fucked. Over time, as you enjoy it more, I suggest becoming slowly less dependent on your clit.

sillysexystupid: My butt always feels so empty after plug time is over. I’m barely on day 5 of Butt Month, but having something inside my ass feels like my new normal.

That’s the idea. Before long it may be all you want, and if you do it right, you might even learn to need something in your ass in order to cum.

Anonymous: Girlfriend is giving me anal for my birthday for the first time. We have 1 week. Tips on getting her ready so this becomes a more often thing?

Training, warmup and lube. Use lube during any sort of anal play. She should on her own, and the two of you together should start training her ass and practicing with fingers and ideally something like a butt plug as well. Rub the outside of her ass while eating her pussy, finger her ass gently during the same and during vaginal sex. Gradually work up to a second finger, then a third. If it hurts when you increase in size, go back to the smaller for a while before trying again. Pain means it’s not warmed up and relaxed enough. She should push out as if going to the bathroom during penetration to better relax.

Warm up before every session. This means start at the smallest and gradually work back up to the biggest she can take comfortably rather than just jumping to that larger size. Warming up relaxes the muscles and allows painless penetration and helps prevent injury. Definitely, definitely take as much time as she needs for warmup before attempting actual anal sex.

When you do that, she should be on top and sitting down onto your penis so she can control the depth and speed. She should slowly work her way down onto you, stopping as needed to adjust, then once you’re fully in, she should stay there for a moment until any discomfort fades before starting to move. Once she’s gotten used to it after a few minutes, you can change positions and take more control.

Anonymous: Is butt month the blushy success it seemed it would be? Has your cunt received any attention at all?

sillysexystupid: I haven’t touched my cunt at all & it’s driving me craaaaazy ._.

How likely do you think it will be that it will be extended indefinitely at the end of the month, or resumed after a short break? Because, really, once you’ve made it a month anal only, why stop? By that point many women realize that their pussy and clit aren’t necessary and they can and should just keep using their butt instead?

Anonymous: I’ve never been lucky enough to try anal, but I want to someday. I don’t know why but there’s something about it that *looks* better. That’s why I follow blogs like this one. But what I want to know is what does it really feel like and what are the major differences compared to regular sex? (I’m male)

It varies from person to person, but generally, anal is tighter and grippier than vaginal. It has more of a textured feel to it. It feels more natural and primal, though that comes from a combination of the sensation and the appearance of a tight anal ring clamped down on your penis.

You also feel much more closely connected, partly because you are. You can feel every little movement through her ass, and when she orgasms, her ass will spasm on your penis in a way you cannot miss and which is much better than an orgasm during vaginal sex.

My wife of 6 years has never been into anal, meaning not wanting to have her anus touched or penetrated. She says it kind of tickles but then always moves away. She is happy to caress my asshole and fuck me with her fingers and sometimes to rim me. But one night recently we came home after a few drinks and she ripped my clothes off and started sucking me and I wanted what I’d never really done with her, to lick her asshole. Eventually I turned her over and spread her cute little cheeks and rimmed her for what seemed like a long time. She never hesitated or pulled away or anything. Later I gently inserted my finger in her bottom too and gently finger fucked her, again no protest from her at all. We both came so hard that night. A couple weeks later I tongued her anus again, god it was wonderful, so soft and smooth, and she laid there relaxed enjoying it. No idea if we’ll have anal sex but maybe it just takes time. She doesn’t want to talk about it and maybe it all has to do with the alcohol. Needing to be a but drunk to lower the inhibitions. What do others think of our situation? Is it familiar? I would love some advice.

It’s not too uncommon for women to really enjoy anal stimulation but be afraid to admit or think it’s too gross to take the step to actually do it. Alcohol and other inhibition reducers often help get past this mindset and do what they actually do want and enjoy. Take your time with it, make sure she really enjoys whenever the two of you do get the chance to do anything anal, and she might be willing to try it without alcohol down the road, and work up towards actual anal sex. But if you really want to get there in a mature manner, she needs to be able to discuss it openly with you. If you do try to talk with her about it, make sure she knows you won’t judge her for what she does or doesn’t like, that you want to be honest with each other about what you both like or want to try, and that you’d like to keep experimenting with new things to continue discovering shared sexual interests.