Message: Fiancé Avoids Requests For Anal
Anonymous: I’m a huge fan of being fucked in my ass but my fiancé is either hesitant or just avoids my requests for anal sex. Got any tips on how I can entice him to stick his glorious 9″ inside my ass? I’d love to go ass only!
You’ll need to talk to him and see why he is resistant to anal. Outside the “anal only” sphere where everyone loves anal and it’s hard to imagine people who don’t, some men are turned off by the idea, thinking it’s dirty or weird or “gay”. Try to see if he’ll at least try it a few times to see what he thinks about it after, and if he likes it then try to do it with some regularity to begin. But if he’s hesitant still, try instead to incorporate some anal play into your sex life, even if that’s just wearing a butt plug during sex with him.
Most likely, if just the idea of anal sex on its own is currently unappealing to him, the idea of anal only is best avoided until a potential future point when he actually really likes anal and might be open to the idea.
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