jacobjacob2012: Is it dangerous to leave something up my ass of it has no base ???
Yes, it can be. Objects inserted into the rectum have a tendency to get “sucked” deeper inside due to muscle action, and to avoid getting anything lost inside, you should always use something with a base if you’re going to leave it inside.
Anonymous: Would it be dangerous in anyway to sleep plugged?
begginglittleslut: My initial thought is no as long as it’s clean and everything, but I’m actually not sure. I’ve done it before and haven’t had any problems. Maybe @analsexonly would have a better idea though 🙂
The only potential danger would come from a plug with too small a base. If that is not an issue, go for it. If you aren’t used to long term plug wear yet, you may find that it becomes uncomfortable during the night. If this happens, just remove it and try again another time.
I can’t believe it, but a couple of weeks ago while I was fucking my wife, I said I would give her $100.00 for shopping if she sucked my dick right then. I’d jokingly asked her in the past (and offered her more, mind you). This time she just said, “If you really want to do that, you don’t have to give me anything.”
We were on the side of the bed, with me standing, and her in the missionary position, while I held her legs with her knees at her chest, for deeper penetration. Just like that it happened. I removed my cock from her ass and she turned sideways on the bed to suck my cock. I fully expected her to inspect it first or give it a sniff. No, she just went down on it and sucked it with enthusiasm. She was surprised when I pulled my cock out of her mouth. She asked what was wrong. I told her nothing, but that I wanted to do it again. We went back and fourth five times before I came in her mouth.
Anonymous: What are your thoughts on double anal? It’s been coming up more and more lately in pornography.
Double anal is much more of an advanced act than regular anal for most people, and it’s something that many people won’t be interested in. But it’s certainly something that’s possible for most anyone to learn to do safely if they’re interested in trying it.
For example, if someone wants to be anal only but also enjoys double penetration and misses the practicality of vaginal penetration for that purpose, it’s a way for them to continue enjoying a form of double penetration while remaining strictly anal only. Women who regularly do double anal often say that they find it a lot more pleasurable than vaginal + anal forms of double anal, too.
There are also women out there in relationships with multiple men, and double anal can be a form of mutual intimacy between them all at the same time. With practice, it can even become a regular thing, with at least one women in such an arrangement reporting that she and her boyfriends did double anal almost exclusively, three to five times a week on average.
Double anal can be worked up to in the same as training yourself for regular anal sex: gradual increases in size, practice with large toys, introducing a second dildo into the mix while masturbating, and getting to the point where with a little warmup you can slide two cocks into your ass together with no pain.
I have no doubt that as anal and the anal only lifestyle continue to get more popular, more people in polyamorous relationships or who enjoy sex with multiple partners will start adopting double anal as a regular practice, or even just a special treat.
An excellent new post from luvmywifesass’s legendary Anal Only blog.
From a comment I recently received:
“I admit I’ve never tried anal but I’m curious enough to give it a try one day when I meet the right woman. Now, what I want to know is why you’d use anal as a substitute all the time? Wouldn’t that get boring? I don’t see the big attraction?”
I’ve never understood comments like this. The anus is tighter, smoother, and has the ability to move in ways the vagina can’t come close to, giving it the ability to stimulate a man’s cock far better than the vagina. It’s a natural form of birth control that, when practiced correctly, is virtually 100% effective.
Anal sex has all of this, and more, over the vagina, as I’ve documented in other posts. Still, you never hear anyone say, “Vaginal? Wouldn’t that get boring all the time?”
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Step1 – Decide to commit to it. Don’t wonder why, just do it. Helps if someone is pushing you to do it, but I’m sure you can try it on your own.
Step2 – Deny all vaginal stimulation.
Step3 – Start with a plug in while you masturbate, repeat daily for a week. Every time you climax repeat loudly: “Oh god, I love it when you fuck my ass.”
Step4 – Increase the time wearing the plug in public by 15 minutes a day, every time you tighten your ass on the plug out in the world you’re training yourself, enjoy it. Tighten your ass every time you see a cute guy. Tighten it twice if you get eye contact. Get to wear you can enjoy it out in the world for at least two hours a day. Keep using the plug in public through the rest of the plan.
Step5 – Replace the plug with a dildo in your ass while you continue to masturbate daily. At first don’t move the dildo at all, just climax on it while you touch your clit and cry out as before.
Step6 – Begin moving the dildo while you masturbate. Use tons of lube. Keep touching your clit till you climax.
Step7 – Repeat Step6 many many many times.
Step8 – Begin decreasing the clit stimulation every time you get close to climaxing. Keep repeating: “Oh god, I love it when you fuck my ass.” Get yourself right to the edge and then stop with your fingers, push yourself over the edge with the dildo.
Step9 – Repeat Step8 until the fingers become secondary to the orgasm.
Step10 – Don’t forget to keep wearing the plug daily, the stronger your muscles are and the more control you have, the more likely you’ll be able to climax from anal only.
Good luck!
Anonymous: why not just fuck a guy if ass only
Because people are more than just their sex organs and it’s entirely possible to have an attraction to women without an attraction to or preference for vaginal sex.
misslutification: To become an anal slut you need to be dedicated.
You need to truly desire being an anal only slut.
Stop watching any porn that would make your other holes more appealing then your ass.
In other words… only watch anal porn.
When blogging only blog anal porn.
Find hypnosis videos aiming towards anal.
When you become horny instead of touching your clit. Try touching your asshole or your asshole and clit.
Completely ignore the fact that you have a pussy other than monthly periods and peeing.
Anonymous: Hi, just wanted to thank you. Your blog inspired me to try anal, and after a few weeks of me fingering my asshole to your blog my boyfriend bought me a plug. After another week of stretching my ass we tried anal for the first time last night. By far the best sex I’ve ever had and it never would have happened without you, so thank you (from me and him)! I’m looking forward to hopefully having a wonderful anal-only future!
Congratulations to you both and I’m glad to have been an inspiration for such an enjoyable experience for the both of you! Good luck and keep enjoying it!
Anonymous: Hey. I’m a girl and I’m not really interested in going anal only. I actually do enjoy vaginal/clitoral masturbation. However, I would say that the orgasm (Clitoral orgasm) is heightened dramatically by anal stimulation. I’d have to say clitoral + anal = bliss. I prefer it over clitoral alone. What are your thoughts on that?
Clitoral + anal tends to be the most pleasurable combination involving the clitoris for most women. I highly recommend it, especially when someone is first experimenting with anal, but it’s great for anyone and everyone. Many people combine clitoral stimulation with anal penetration and consider themselves anal only, for what it’s worth. Clitoral denial is an additional step beyond that which some people experiment with, but it certainly isn’t an essential step to being in the “anal only club”, as it were.
If you have no interest in being anal only, then don’t be. You can totally enjoy vaginal sex as well as anal. Do what you enjoy. If you do enjoy anal, though, and find anal + clit stim the most pleasurable sexual experience, I do suggest experimenting with a month or more of anal only just to give it a shot. Even if it isn’t something you want to do all the time, it can be fun to do every now and then for a while.