xxplicitsd: Yea… I’m definitely an anal slut. All I’ve been wanting lately is anal ?? who gives a fuck about my pussy right? Not when the ass is tighter and more pleasurable.

ass-for-use: I had the most glorious ass fucking today.

I met up with a friend for lunch, we got on the subject of sex and we discussed how his girlfriend wouldn’t “allow” anal. I got kind of riled up. He treats her great, buys her whatever she wants, and she can’t spread her tight ass for him??

Stuck up bitch. I’m so over girls who think they’re too good to get their asses and throats fucked.

Anyway. I told him how I decided to go anal only, anal & oral. He was amazed. He knew I liked it but was floored that a woman would want to teach herself to ignore her pussy and be an anal slut. But I do. Ha. Should have seen it coming but I ended up bent over the back of his car, parked behind an old abandoned big-lots.

But fuck it was hot. No kissing, no teasing, just straight ass fucking. He pulled over, ordered me out of the car, drug me by my hair and pushed me over the trunk. Panties torn aside, ordered to spread my cheeks, he spit and then dove in.

It hurt, but I’m a slut for painal. He didn’t let me clean up, my ass was leaking cum all over my dress the whole way home. UGH! How is this real life?
Can I please get my ass fucked like this again tonight????

I recently tried anal with my gf, who never did it before. Since that first time we have had a whole month with only one occasion of vaginal sex, and that was followed by anal. She appears to really crave it, and it was all on her initiative. One time she took me in her ass three times on the same day.

I always thought this was the stuff of fantasy, but I might have found a natural-born anal girl.

Congratulations! It’s true, some girls just prefer anal.

doc201220 asked what to do when partner comes fast when having anal sex and you recommend edging. I chose another way  🙂

I used to have the same problem, but now I can come and come and come all the time while being fucked anally. Now I often come from the first thrust, I just love that feeling of being penetrated. That would be sad if fucking then had to stop before it really even started, but now that my orgasm doesn’t end the fucking I can have my first thrust orgasms. And how did I get here? The key is not to stop after orgasm. Well stop in the meaning of stop thrusting, but not to stop completely. The thing is to keep the still penis inside, and you’ll get used to the feeling that there will be something in your ass after orgasm. You keep it there as long as you can, first it will be really short and you just want to get rid of the penis, but with practice the time you can have him inside post orgasm will grow, and eventually when you can tolerate the still penis he can start moving again. And with the moving there is also the same, at first you can take only a little bit of moving and then have to stop, but the way I am now, there is no refractory period, my partner can just keep pumping. Oh writing this makes me so horny ?

So, it was a long process, years ago I actually had to run to toilet immediately after orgasm (most of the times there was just an urge to go, no real need). But you can postpone that feeling little by little, and then eventually, probably after months of taking it a little bit further each time, first still then moving, you can eventually just keep going 🙂

So besides orgasm postponing there is also this multiple orgasms way of doing this 🙂

Everyone’s different in this regard, but many women actually have an easier time with multiple orgasms and less of a refractory period and loss of arousal after an anal orgasm compared to clitoral orgasms. That’s not universally true, however, and some just totally shut down all arousal even after an anal orgasm.

Anonymous: We’ve been anal only since early in our relationship. 3 months of true passion, but recently I’ve stopped giving her pussy any attention. No rubbing, no oral. However, I do warm her up with the rest of her body, head to toe. It’s so funny watching her pussy get wet & ready for cock that it’s never going to get! But now she’s really begging for some pussy attention. So I thought about it, and I made her promise her ass to me but she is free to give her pussy to other women only.

I usually advocate methods to move away from dependence on vaginal and clitoral stimulation rather than shifting it to use by other people. It does seem to work for some people, and if it works for you, that’s fine, but a lot of the benefits of being anal only get lost for her if she’s still using her pussy, just not with you.

Anonymous: I just got my chastity piercing, but I only got one set in the center, how many sets do you think are normal to properly close off my vagina? I was thinking two or three more sets

First, congratulations on taking that step! That’s wonderful, and I’m sure you are and will be pleased with it.

The number of piercings used do seem to vary quite a bit by personal choice and aesthetic preference. If you want it to seriously keep out anything, you would want more, but if it’s just a decorative and symbolic piercing, then whatever looks best to you. I seem to most commonly see between 4 and 6.

For more information about the anal only lifestyle, clitoral denial, and vaginal chastity, visit our Anal Sex Advice & Guide to the Anal Only Lifestyle page, which goes into detail about a variety of topics.

Anonymous: I really love the idea of having my pussy and clit blocked off so I can’t touch them even if I wanted to, but I’m not ready to commit to piercings and I don’t find chastity belts sexy at all. Are there any other good alternatives?

Vaginal chastity in combination with the anal only lifestyle is a popular desire (though certainly not necessary if someone doesn’t want it for themselves). It’s totally understandable that you want to explore the idea without committing to something permanent (or expensive), however!

Types of Temporary Vaginal Chastity

Tape is a popular and easy option for quick short-term chastity that covers your pussy and clit and makes them inaccessible. Duct tape and medical tape are the best options here, but even they won’t last too long, as your sweat and vaginal fluids will loosen it over time. All you need to do is carry a roll with out and apply more as needed, however.

Clamps of various forms can be effective in the very short term, while masturbating or having sex. Clothespins and chip clips are easily accessible, but you can’t control their clamping strength. Other clamps, especially those specifically for use on skin, like nipple and clit clamps, may have adjustments so it doesn’t squeeze too tightly.

Numbing creams and gels like Orajel can temporarily eliminate any sensations from your clit or pussy. You want to use a small amount, because these are anesthetic creams and you don’t want to overuse it, but it’s generally safe in small doses. Get advice from a doctor if you have any concerns about their safety or potential reactions or interactions for yourself.

Some use superglue or similar medical grade or body-safe glues, including eyelash glue, as temporary chastity. It can be safe to do, but you should test it in one small spot first, leave gaps between glued sections in order to allow urination, and be sure not to get any glue on your urethra. Glues break down fairly quickly with contact with sweat, urine and vaginal fluids.

Sometimes Mental Enforcement of Chastity is Best

Ultimately, though, these are all temporary and some may prove more trouble than they’re worth to use regularly. It’s worth giving at least some a try, though, if you’re interested. Longer term, you may just find it more effective to achieve a goal of vaginal and clitoral denial through self control and practice.

Or, if you decide you want permanent closure of your vagina, chastity piercings can be effective for that for some people. You’d want to meet with a professional piercer and walk through the steps involved for that.