Message: I Don’t Like Vaginal But Feel Obligated To Let Guys Fuck Me There
Anonymous: Every time I get fucked in the pussy I dry up instantly. But when I’m getting fucked in the ass my cunt is dripping. It honestly just hurts in my pussy and I don’t like it but I always feel obligated to let guys fuck me there because of society. I always tell them I prefer it in my ass but society has made that strange. How do I make it clear to my partners that I wanna be anal only?
That’s actually not that uncommon for vaginal sex to not feel good or even hurt for women, yet for them to feel pressured to continue doing it because society treats vaginal sex as “normal” and anything else as a primary, preferred form of sex as “abnormal”. This societal pressure leads men who might physically prefer anal sex to feel they have to keep having vaginal sex with their partners as well, and leads some women who prefer the pleasures of anal sex to resist going anal only because they feel it makes them somehow less feminine to give up their vagina.
However, most men also like to see their partners in pleasure and dislike seeing them in pain. Perhaps instead of simply saying you prefer it in your ass, tell them you don’t like it in your pussy and don’t want vaginal sex because it hurts. You might still have trouble with some guys who think they can be the one who makes vaginal sex enjoyable for you (seriously, it’s not uncommon to see a woman post about disliking vaginal and loving anal and having some dumb guy chime in to say he can be the one to change her mind about that), but most guys who love anal should be fine with going anal only especially if you make it clear that your pussy just doesn’t do it for you and it’s not just that it’s not great but that it’s actively a negative for you.
Or just say “I’m anal only, I don’t have or want vaginal sex.”
You have absolutely no obligation to let guys have vaginal sex with you.
The original version of this post on Tumblr received the following responses.
armymoviemakerblog: Actually most guys who had women who wanted “anal only” would be more than please to do so, or maybe that is just me. I actually had anal before I had vaginal sex, so from this man point of view, if I found a woman who asked for anal only, and I have known some, then I would be my duty to rock that booty.
hornyallthetimeca: I’m a man and if a women asked me to only fuck her in the ass u would HAVE NO problem with that. Anal is so much better and fun it’s just better
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