Anonymous: is it normal to prefer anal over vaginal?

analscorpio: If your end game is reproduction… then no

But… if your end game is pleasure… then hell yeah 😀

Anonymous: every time I put in a plug I get too horny and need to cum immediately. I wish to wear it for longer than 10 minutes. Is there anything I could do to make it last longer?

You can try keeping it in after you cum. Some people find that uncomfortable, but see how long you can keep it in after, and try pushing it more and more each time.

You can try edging without cumming to extend the time you keep it in.

You can just not cum even though you feel like you have to.

You can fuck your ass with a dildo for a while to relieve some of the horniness, then put the plug back in.

Anonymous: I discovered about a week ago that I can have multiple anal only orgasms. I may never use my pussy again.

That’s great! I definitely recommend going fully anal only, at least for a month or two as a trial run initially, and then if you’re still loving it and satisfied with anal only at the end of that, stay that way.

ditzystella: omg omg omg… so, it’s been like 13 days since my pussy has been touched in a sexual way. all of my pleasure in these days has cum from my ass, my asshole, my tits, my nipples, my mouth, my tongue, my gagging throat, and i’m sure other stuff, but BLONDE. lol

So, tonight I was talking to @misogynystyle and as they are wont to do, Men like that can just turn me on quite a bit. He mentioned something that sort of *got* me in a very visceral way, and HERE IS THE THING!…. I actually felt the arousal IN MY ASS for the first time! I didn’t feel it in my clit or pussy lips or cunt, I felt the arousal IN MY ASS.

IN MY ASS people, In. My. Ass.

denial-lover: I’ve been such a terrible denial slut since my Master left. I’ve been cumming daily and I don’t like it. So I’m going to make a challenge:

For every note this gets it will be one day without an orgasm. If you think I should be anal only with no touching my clit at all please send me a private message. For every message I get about this post it will be no touching for one day. You can send me a message once a day if you want. I’ll keep track of it daily and update the totals.

Thanks everybody!

denial-lover: I’ve decided that if I get 180 days of denial from this post and complete those 180 days then I proved that I don’t need to cum and I will not cum anymore. Thanks to everyone who has been helping me. I’ve needed the motivation.

slutprogrammer: I gotta say….I don’t get the denial thing. Anal sex is for having *bigger* orgasms.

For many people, yes, that’s the case. But some people don’t like orgasms—that is, they may enjoy the short term pleasure of them, but find the long term pleasure and glow of a constantly aroused state to be more enjoyable and to work better for them than the crash and low feeling that can follow an orgasm. Not everyone is that way, but some people are better off not orgasming and get pleasure in different ways instead. Neither approach is universally right or wrong, and people should do what works for them. Some also find that anal orgasms can replace vaginal/clitoral orgasms as a source of great pleasure without as much of the arousal dampening effects.

ebrock1972: Have you or would you do a double or more anal?

ditzystella: Omg! Thanks for the question!!??

I am going to do an about me page today answering a lot of this, but I am more than happy to tell you that no I have never done it YES I would do double, but probably not more than double because I like how small I am and if I take three I’m worried that I won’t be able to go back down to size…

Maybe this is something I should ask @analsexonly … if i have a gangbang of three big cocks in my ass, am I going to go back down to a normal size ever again?

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Stella, the anal only bimbo slut next door ?

You aren’t going to stay loose all the time after double or triple anal, no. Instead, over time your upper limit will increase and you’ll be able to stretch open more easily to accommodate such a size, but still tightening up again when not in use. Buttholes just don’t really get permanently loose or gaping. You can enjoy two or three cocks one day and just one another day. Especially as you train and strengthen your anal muscles, that also gives you a lot more control to both relax and loosen and tighten.

fetishxcollector: You may have already answered this but do you completely ignore your pussy or do you still rub your clit it or anything like that?

ditzystella: ?? I love getting these questions!! I will be making an about me page very soon

Yes, I am 100% no vaginal contact only to wash it and keep it clean and looking pretty but no sexual contact whatsoever.

And my pussy has never felt more sexy or more feminine in my entire life!

I am always happy to take questions privately as well! ❤️❤️??????

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Stella, your neighborhood friendly anal only bimbo slut

Anonymous: I really love anal but my current daddy hates it. How can I make him fuck my ass? I’m dying to be fisted again. :'(

ditzystella: Truthfully? You’re with the wrong Daddy in my opinion if he “hates” it and you’re longing for it. So, maybe if you really want to be with him, get permission to use some toys on yourself? Are you cute? I can help! 🙂 haha

Actually I need help properly answering this, i’m not happy with my answer. @analsexonly can you please help here? Thank you!

Some people just don’t like certain sex acts and there isn’t much that’s going to change that for them, as much as we might wish there was. For example, I hate vaginal sex personally and have little to no interest in ever, ever doing it again. Nothing’s going to change my mind about that. It’s just who I am—I love anal and oral sex instead of vaginal.

However, not everyone is necessarily as set in stone about it as I am. You can talk with him and ask him what it is about anal that he doesn’t like. Is it actually the sex itself, or is it something else? Maybe he dislikes the need for prep with anal, or finds it limiting because you have to warm up to it first and he can’t go as hard or fast, or something of that nature. Some don’t like it because they feel the romance and spontaneity of sex may be reduced with something that requires more “work” before starting. These things can be mitigated if that’s his concern. Other people just don’t like the idea of it, find it gross, or don’t like how it feels. Some of those things have potential solutions, others may not. Everybody’s different, and if he’s set in his opposition to anal sex, you’ll have to decide how important it is for you to get it.

littlelovelylola: Hi! When did you become anal only? Do you fear health consequences? Very curious about trying this if I ever find a daddy…

ditzystella: Hi! I’ve only been 100% anal only for a little less than 2 weeks… no I haven’t feared any health consequences, just keeping very clean and having the best orgasms of my life with a denied, ignored pussy!

I am happy to answer more, here or privately ???

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There really aren’t any health consequences from anal sex, even anal only where you’re having anal sex multiple times a week or even daily, so long as you follow a few precautions! Always use lube, make sure you warm up as needed by starting smaller and gradually working up in size, and backing off to a slower pace or a smaller size temporarily if something starts to hurt, as well as taking a break for a day or two if you get too sore rather than just pushing through any pain. Pain usually means you’re either overdoing it or going too big too soon before you’re ready. But if you’ve got no pain and you’re loving it, it’s all good!

Anonymous: I never thought much about anal until someone put a finger in my ass. It was incredible! Now dating a guy who’s anal-exclusive and it’s the best sex I’ve had my whole life. Thank you for your educational blog to help me become his perfect butt slut!!

I’m glad you had a wonderful introduction to anal and now have a great partner to enjoy it and be anal only with, and I’m very glad for any part I and my blog may have played in helping you and anyone else achieve that! Thanks so much for the lovely message.