Month: November 2016


Message: Can Guys Orgasm From Anal Too?

Anonymous: My wife loves anal and wants me to try it too. Is it possible for guys to orgasm from anal too? if so, how?

Yes, often as a result of prostate stimulation, though there seem to be other forms of anal orgasm as well and some differentiate between an anal orgasm and a prostate orgasm. While I’d encourage you to pursue it if the two of you are interested, male anal orgasm isn’t really the focus of this blog, and I’d suggest you do some searching on Google and reading a variety of sources and tips. There are many resources out there, and there are many toys now available specifically for prostate stimulation.

Message: Sad Thinking My Pussy Will Never Taste Cock Again

reguaraI really enjoy anal sex. Not only the sex itself, but lube, fingers, plugs. I quite frequently reach orgasms with nothing but anal stimulation. Nevertheless, i find it kind of sad thinking my pussy will never taste a cock again. .

It sounds like trying anal only would be perfect for you. It doesn’t have to be a permanent commitment, and if it stops being fun for you at some point, then no one would be forcing you to continue, but more often than not people who already love anal and decide to try anal only for a few months end up wanting to stay that way, both because they still love it—maybe even more than before—and because they don’t want to quit after such a long streak of only getting fucked in the ass, which can be both rewarding and a real turn on. So it often becomes less of a feeling of sadness that your pussy won’t feel cock again and more a turn on knowing your ass will always feel cock instead.

I’d definitely suggest giving it a try for a while! No Pussy November is going on right now, and it’s the perfect opportunity to go anal only.

Back To My Pussy After Trying No Pussy November

Anonymous: i tried to do no pussy November but i just can’t, im back to my pussy ? i need to be punished

analonlyparadise: I’m sorry to hear that you tried and failed. What were your goals for No Pussy November? No vaginal penetration, total abandonment of your pussy (no clit touching etc.) or something else? Are you doing No Pussy November alone or with a partner? There is still a lot of the month left so you can definitely try again. If you feel that it was too hard to do, try lowering the bar a little bit. For example, if you were going for total abandonment of your pussy, try again but this time play with you clit if you need to but just no vaginal penetration. And let us know how it goes.

Lastly for punishment, if you are doing this with a partner have them tie you hands behind your back so you can’t touch your pussy and let them play with you ass for an hour or so. Until your cunt is a throbbing wet mess!

The only failure for No Pussy November is not participating, or giving up. Just pick up where you left off and keep going. Slipping up and using your pussy or clit again can happen when you’re just starting out, but the important thing is to stick with it anyway rather than get disappointed that you failed. The more you try, the longer you’ll be able to go. I also agree that if you were doing clitoral denial along with anal only, you might try to ease up on it a bit for now and keep using your clit, but only when there’s a plug or dildo in your ass. Alternatively, edging or ruined orgasms only from the clit play.

Message: No Pussy November Wife, Part 3

NPNWife here: Husband is in the shower. I just did ATM for the first time. I didn’t want to practice beforehand. I was worried I wouldn’t like it and would chicken out. Decided to just go for it. I didn’t tell him. Just told him to tell me when he was going to cum. I flipped around and sucked his cock straight into my throat. He screamed “holy fuck!” and started cumming almost immediately. The smell and taste, it was overwhelming. I can still taste my ass. I almost came from just how naughty it was. My pussy is sopping and my clit has been throbbing. But I’ve refused to touch and wouldn’t let him touch either. Total denial. I feel like I’m on fire all over. He asked what brought that on. I told him I wanted him to enjoy everything that had to do with anal this month. He asked if I would do ATM again. I told him for the rest of the month I would suck his dick straight from my ass whenever he wanted. “Even if it’s dirty?” I kissed the head of his cock and said yes, no matter what.

The anal only, orgasm denial, and vaginal abandonment blogs have been really helpful in helping me get into this. We’re only 4 days in, but I’m finding it incredibly hot. And I know he does to. We’re going to a party tomorrow and he told me he wants me to wear my plug with no panties and a dress and he wants to find a secluded spot at some point and fuck my ass at our friend’s house. So, wish us luck! And if anyone has any other ideas on things to do, I’d love to hear them.

I’m so glad to hear it went and is continuing to go amazingly well and that you’re so turned on by being anal only and going ass to mouth. That’s something that’s really great about No Pussy November, I think, it attracts people for a variety of reasons but ultimately turns on all sorts of people who may not have otherwise even considered the pleasures and benefits of going anal only and yet often find that they really love it by the end of the month.

Good luck and keep enjoying the amazing fun you’re having together.

Message: No Pussy November Wife, Part 2

Me Again. No Pussy November Wife (NPNW?): Will keep you updated, absolutely! He was thrilled on our anniversary night. I was wearing his favorite lingerie when he came home. Immediately started sucking his dick. Asked him if he ever heard of No Pussy November? He asked “Oh, does that mean I only get blowjobs for a month? I can dig that.” Said “Not exactly” and bent over to show him I was wearing a plug. He said “Holy shit, seriously? You’re going to let me fuck your ass?”

I said “Happy Anniversary”. I was all ready for him. He went right for it. Different than my toys, but oh god, hurt but was amazing. He started slow but got overwhelmed I think and started fucking me really hard. His hand went for my pussy, and I said “No, No pussy November. No pussy at all. Just my ass, for you, all month.” … He said “All month?” At this point, I was dripping wet. And I said “Every single day. Fuck my ass whenever you want it. I’ll keep it ready for you.”

He fucked my ass 3 times that first night. I was sooooo sore after. But the following morning, I woke him up with a blow job and took him right in my ass again to show him I was serious. He went for my clit again, out of habit I guess, and I reminded him no. But my pussy was leaking all over him while I rode him with my ass. When he went to work, I spent all day looking at your tumblr and other anal only tumblrs. Tonight, I’m going to surprise him again. I’m psyching myself up to do ATM.

What an incredible surprise and gift for him, and for you too! Does he know yet that you spent 6 months training your ass for him? He must feel on top of the world, knowing he gets to fuck your ass every day whenever he wants and doesn’t need to fuck your pussy or play with your clit. Adding ass to mouth into the mix is going to be a lot of fun, too—you can always practice with your finger or a dildo first if you haven’t already, to get more comfortable with the idea.

How has it been for you so far? It sounds like you’ve been really enjoying it too, and your pussy sure seems to have gotten really turned on by being denied—pretty common, actually. Even if you’re sore at first from the sudden ramping up of anal, the more you do it the easier it will get to do without getting as sore, of course.

It’s going to be a fantastic month of celebration for the both of you!