You know you found a true anal girl when …

… she will stop you after 5min of fucking her pussy to initiate 20min of anal sex.

… she gives you really sloppy blowjobs and jokes about saving lube that way.

… she passionately licks and sucks the fingers you used to open her ass up.

… she gets wet if you lick and finger her pussy but begins to soak if you do the same to her ass.

… she calls her ass the “more obedient hole”

… she begs you to spank her while you fuck her ass.

All this and more is true about my girlfriend. A really wonderful anal girl. Before her, anal sex was a thing I did with girls who were into it, but she is different. She made me totally obsessed with anal sex and her ass. It’s amazing.

Sounds like it’s time to go anal only.

Anonymous: Today, for the first time ever, I got fucked in my ass without any preparation! It was amazing! I had wondered for some time if I might have become so accustomed to receiving anal that it could be possible just to go straight to the penetration and it was! It felt so good, it felt super tight but there was no pain and in was super pleasurable. So it might be that in the future I’ll often choose not to wear a butt plug before anal sex 🙂

Congratulations! This is generally due to a combination of factors, including frequency between having sex keeping you more relaxed (you’ll still tighten up the same if you go a while without any anal penetration) and increased control of your anal muscles through practice.

mypuppycat: Dear anal only community,

I wanted to thank you for all the inspiration! With the exquisite guidance of a keen coach, I have been able to commit to the lifestyle for just over a month now and am loving it! This may seem like a small feat, but prior to the tips, stories, and salacious imagery found here, I was reluctant to succumb for more than a saucy evening.
What I have discovered is how much intensity can be added to your sex life when you name your true desires! As a person with multiple partners(some long time partners, some fresh flirtations), I have been amazed at how the idea of anal only has enticed and inspired so much more fun, passion, creativity, and deepening of both pleasure and perversion(in the excellent sense of the word.)
I have been under some pretty strict training to increase my capacity, my discipline, and my desire to be ready at any moment for the depth of pleasure that awaits. I keenly await my next challenge.
Two-hole sluts are like sex Olympians, in my books. You can’t give in to the easy pleasure or expected fantasy. You have to keep training, working, scheming…there is a real devotion to sluttery, exploration, and sexual satisfaction that I am in awe of in the members here and in myself!
And, hell, it just feels amazing, right?!?
Looking forward to any tips on sustaining in the long term.
Sincerely,
Puppycat

863719231: I keep stumbling upon guys that Just. Don’t. GET IT. I tell them I love anal, that I only want anal, and they’re like “oh, thats so sad? what about your pussy? how can i resist your pussy?” and i KNOW that if i hook up with them, they’ll try to fuck my pussy without permission. And it’s SO gross… honestly, why are they so dense?

Tell them that it’s not sad, that you love being anal only, and if they aren’t interested in respecting your needs, don’t have sex with them and find someone who will give it to your ass exclusively like you want.

Anonymous: I’m 41 years old and a mom. I’ve been an “#analonly” girl for 4 years. It started during my pregnancy when my husband and I started having anal sex more. I was 6 months pregnant he was only interested in having sex with me anally. We didn’t have sex the last 2 months of pregnancy. When Sarah was born, we started having sex again right away and again only anally. He told me the other day that he doesn’t have any interest in my “loose pussy” anymore and wants me to be oral and anal only. WWYD?

It sounds like you already are anal only and have been for some time. If it works for you and you enjoy it, stay anal only for good. It’s clearly what your husband wants, given what he’s said, but make sure it’s what you want as well.

Anonymous: I love anal so fucking much. Best orgasms ever, more like endless best orgasms ever. My boyfriend fucks my butt quite frequently. However it takes me a good hour to be totally cleaned out. It’s a huge hassle cuz I wanna get assfucked all the time. I give myself a mini enema, a non scented vaginal douche (i.e. a balloon and a nozzle). 16oz of water done multiple times within the hour and then clean. Any tips on how to clean myself out faster? SOS cuz I need anal at least once a day!!

If you have a healthy, balanced diet that contains a good amount of dietary fiber, that level of cleaning every day is probably unnecessary. Just use a small amount of warm water in a bulb and lightly flush out your rectum at most. When you use a large volume of water, you end up cleaning out a larger area than is necessary and in the process create a bigger mess that takes more time to clean. Only the rectum needs to be cleaned for most sex, and it’s generally already quite clean anyway. Many find they can just put in a plug a while before sex, take it out right before, go to the bathroom, and good to go. Add a mild rectal flush to that if you’re still concerned about residue.

Anonymous: Those ATM/ATOGM posts are really hot. Never done it in real life, but would like to. It’s nice to hear people’s experiences/perspectives. Many people find it degrading or disgusting, however, I think it’s so beautiful, like completing a full circle of anal fun. Can’t really explain it. Mesmerized by its explicitness and daring-ness.

While I suppose it could be degrading under certain circumstances, it really isn’t inherently and (in my opinion) shouldn’t be seen as such. Similarly, it could be disgusting if done when not clean, but otherwise isn’t at all. It’s intimate, beautiful, exciting and just a lot of fun. It’s an inherent and critical aspect of anal sex for some people, and I highly encourage trying it if you’re interested in it and find it appealing.

The original version of this post on Tumblr received the following response.

analsexislove: After few times done, It becames so natural… ATM its Just oral sex like any other…

Anonymous: I am trying to be an anal girl only, I would like to know how I do to practice every day without interfering in my body. I love anal and enjoyment even more without my partner, please help me!

Just start having anal every time you have sex instead of vaginal, whether that’s every day or several times a week to begin. Increase the frequency over time as you are able to do so. What sort of “interfering” are you referring to? If it makes you too sore to do it so often, do it a little less frequently and work up over time to being able to do it as frequently as you want.

Anonymous: Hello! I absolutely love your blog! My girlfriend is trans, and we’re meeting in a week, and so being a virgin, I got a dildo to see if I could stretch myself out. Unfortunately that’s when I discovered I had GPPPD (penetration hurts a lot) but I was able to use the dildo on my ass. And since we’re both into denial and she controls my orgasms, she said she may make me anal only while I’m there. Slightly terrified, but very excited!

Anal only is a wonderful solution for a lot of people who cannot or do not enjoy vaginal sex (or find it uncomfortable or even painful) for various reasons. I’m glad you were able to discover that anal is enjoyable for you, and I hope you’ll enjoy being anal only as well.

Anonymous: So I’ve been trying to get my girlfriend to do anal for the longest time, she’s loves when I eat it out and finger it and even regularly wears a buttplug, been nagging for for literally months about it… today she finally had enough and let me put it in her ass and I’ve never heard her moan so loud… after sex was over she said “holllyyyyyy shit so I regret not doing this sooner” I’m hoping this will quickly transition into an anal only relationship from here on out!

Congratulations to the both of you! Keep it up, make sure she always really enjoys it, and you’ll likely be having a lot more anal in the future.