Month: August 2017


Message: Trying to Train My Ass

Anonymous: Hello, I’ve been trying to train my ass… but it’s been a few months and I still don’t seem to be able to relax enough. And it worries me because my daddy has a ver large cock and I don’t want it to hurt, but I want him to fuck my ass. How can I make the pain more bearable and turn it into pleasure for the both of us?

Anal shouldn’t hurt at all, and if it does, you’re not ready just yet for the size or speed that’s causing the pain. Go back down in size to something that doesn’t hurt, and focus on that size for a while.

A lot of my posts talk about clitoral denial and not combining clitoral stimulation with anal, but that’s more of an advanced technique for most, and if anal is uncomfortable or hurts, I highly recommend combining the two as often as possible as well as trying to orgasm frequently while masturbating anally as well. You want to associate the feeling of anal stimulation with pleasure, and clit play + orgasm will help you relax better, too.

Try to increase your frequency of training, and get a few sizes of butt plugs as well if you haven’t already. A lot of the popular jeweled butt plugs are pretty, and can help up to a point, but don’t do much training of the sphincter muscles themselves, because the neck is so narrow. Try getting something with a bit thicker neck, or working up to something like that over time. Wearing them whenever you masturbate if you aren’t doing something more active like using a dildo, and even wearing them during sex or just around the house or overnight, can be really helpful in helping you relax and open up.

If you are trying to increase in size and you feel like you aren’t relaxed enough, try bearing down/pushing out gently as if going to the bathroom. Your anal muscles are naturally tight and relax when “flexed”, so that can help open you up and ease in the object you’re trying to insert without pain.

Without more specifics I can’t offer too many other suggestions, but if you have any other questions, feel free to contact with a followup. I hope this helps!

Message: Fiancé Agreed to Anal Only August!

Anonymous: Hi there, been following you for a while now, love your blog! When I started my relationship with my fiancé 5 years ago she was completely against anal. Over time and after building trust she eventually came round to the idea and we started to explore anal, playing with toys etc for a gradual build up. The first time we had anal sex it was incredible! We had it from time to time after but 2 days ago I suggested AO August and she said yes! we’ve fucked every day since, and I think she may stay 😉

That’s wonderful to hear! It sounds like she enjoys the idea a lot too. Keep her happy and satisfied throughout the month of AO, and there’s a good chance she’ll want to! You already know you want to be AO, so you should instead focus your efforts on her needs and making sure she thoroughly enjoys herself.

Message: Anal Is The Way Ahead

Hey there! Great to hear you loving an anal sex lifestyle like myself! Every woman I have introduced to anal sex through the years have really taken to it in a big way and I’m so happy with that as anal is all that I’m interested in when in the bedroom! I really can’t be with a woman that won’t do anal, it’s that simple! There is no better feeling than taking a lovely tight little virgin asshole and showing it the way of anal love! The journey from vaginal sex only to anal sex only is a real learning curve and eye opener for most women but under my guidance they learn all about it one step at a time.

Thanks for the message! Agreed absolutely, and to most who complain about being unable to find an anal only partner, this shows the truth: most are made, not discovered. There are still only a relatively small number of anal only people out there, but growing constantly, and if you are dedicated to living an anal only life, rather than trying to find someone already anal only themselves, a better option for most is to find someone who you’re really compatible with in other ways and who is sexually open-minded, and then explore the pleasures of anal and the anal only lifestyle together with them.

Message: Friends Trying Anal Only This August

Anonymous: Hi! I’ve followed you for a long time and me and my husband have been anal only 3 years now. We’ve had children, don’t want more, and both agree my pussy has served its purpose. We’re very happy and plan to stay this way for good. More recently though my friends were talking about anal, some liked it, some were scared, so I said I loved it and that we were anal only. They were all really curious so I gave them some tips and told them to try anal and AO. Two are going to try AO for August. Yay!!

That’s excellent! Thanks for sharing, especially at such an opportune time—not just because it’s Anal Only August right now and a perfect time to encourage others to go anal only for a month, but because I’ve actually been hearing from a lot of women lately about the topic of getting their friends to go AO too, often with good success.

This is something I think is really important, actually. There’s a lot of bad and wrong information out there about anal, and so many women get turned off it because of things they read or heard from friends, or because of bad experiences with inexperienced partners. So if you’re a woman who loves anal or is anal only, sharing that fact with your friends when anal comes up as a topic (or just sex in general) can really help them by balancing out that negativity that spreads out of ignorance and let them know that actually, anal feels really fucking good when done right, and that women can love it just as much, if not far more than men, and that you love it so much that you stopped using your pussy entirely for sex and have gone anal only for good.

Beyond just that, encouraging them to try—anal for those who haven’t done it before, or have had bad experiences; anal only for those who already like anal—can be really powerful. A lot of women get really curious about AO after hearing about it, but don’t always take the step to actually try it. Encourage them to do so, to spend a month AO either by themselves or with a partner, and that they can rely on you for advice and guidance and encouragement, and that they’re going to love it. Share your own experiences with it and how after the first month or two it was so good you had no desire to go back to boring vaginal sex, and the like.

Together, we can bring more people into the anal only lifestyle and help them to discover the pure pleasure that is anal only.

Also, it sounds like you and your husband have a lovely life together and were very lucky to mutually decide your pussy had no purpose anymore and should be abandoned. Thank you for sharing!

Message: I Don’t Use My Clit At All

Anonymous: To the person who asked about clit abandonment with anal only: I’m an anal only woman and I don’t use my clit at all. I went anal only five or six years ago with my boyfriend (now my husband) because it felt better and made me cum harder. I can cum from anal so he said it would be hot if we stopped using my clit too and he made me cum with my ass only. Over time I started cumming a lot harder this way, too, and it made my clit seem a lot less interesting. I honestly never want to use it now.

Thank you so much for sharing your perspective! I agree completely. It isn’t about degrading women or denying them pleasure (though denial is a fun kink to explore for a lot of people and clit denial as part of AO can be part of that for those people—but even that is rarely about denial of all pleasure). For me, and I think for most AO people who don’t use clit stimulation, it’s about increased pleasure, not using something that isn’t really that great compared to anal orgasms, avoiding distractions from the anal only orgasms they want to achieve, a desire to be strictly pure anal only, and the sublime sexiness that is a woman who can orgasm from nothing more than being fucked in the ass and who needs nothing else to make it enjoyable or orgasmic for her.

The cult of AO, A cult that preserves life

the-pleasure-of-modern-sex: I recently wrote about Japan, and a cult that worships the penis which creates life.

Now that the world has already overcrowded, and climate change threatens our planet It is time to set up a new cult that will preserve life. I call this peace and nature preserving cult, (the cult of AO) or analonly.

in the world, men often fight against each other because they want to make a woman pregnant through vagina,therefore, it can be argued that the vagina is the cause of many conflicts, both in the workplace and in the world, the solution to this problem is anal sex.

The purpose of cult is to bring together people sharing the same concerns as millions of other people in the world worried by overcrowding and climate change and wars and how can it be resolved through sexuality and especially anal sex.Which provides a natural solution to the prevention of pregnancy.

This cult has no priests or churches, because each of its practitioners is a priest and every place where it is practiced is a church. The symbol of cult is an anus, The cult sacrament is an anal sex act,
Which can be performed either between pairs or groups.

Vaginal penetration with the penis is forbidden, other forms of sexuality such as oral sex and masturbation are allowed Although it would be desirable to be part of the Analsex.

The cult also favors Taoist sex and meditation, although it is not compulsory for the cult members, but still we encourages all self-study during the analsex act

We do not condemn anyone,
Even if you are gay, heterosexual, bisexual, transsexual, you are all welcome,
To the cult of peace and love that is united, love and belief that analsex saves the world and brings peace to it.

join the AO cult ❤?✌️

Double Anal is Better than Double Penetration

analsexonly: Having your ass and pussy fucked at the same time is really overrated anyway, especially compared to being anal only. There’s always double anal if you want a similar experience, and since you’re into stretching and gaping your ass, it might be a goal to work for!

xcutieclairex: My thoughts exactly!!! ? and untill then, anal and oral at the same time will always be great!!! 😉 xXx

Anal Only August 2017 Week 1 Roundup

It’s the first weekend of Anal Only August 2017! If you are participating, now’s a good time to update everyone with how things have been going so far. Have you been having a good time? Any difficulties or challenges? Temptations to return to vaginal? Keep us informed, and we can help with advice and encouragement.

If you haven’t joined in, there’s still time—you can go anal only at any point and just extend the time so it’s still a month-long challenge for you. For more information, see the original Anal Only August post.