Anonymous: To add to the history my first proper girlfriend lost her anal virginity to me (then fucked in her ass multiple times) before her vaginal so since then it’s been a running theme through life.

Sounds like a pretty good life!

Anonymous: Knew we were both into anal before getting together actually got together because we’re both even more so into just cuddling. Both still open and play with other people together and alone but unless it’s DP because the other guy absolutely wants to go in her cunt and not just her mouth, nothing goes near it. Occasionally she’ll try to touch her clit in a moment of weakness but cums instantly when I move it away or remind her verbally.

Sounds great!

Anonymous: So I’ve always done more anal than anything with every ex for various reasons, sometimes being anal only for months at a time. Recently though my newish girlfriend I’ve discovered is into anal only for all the exact same reasons as I am. The psychological effect and concept of corrupting someone to believe it’s the norm. It’s honestly been some of the best sex I’ve had and she’s constantly finding new ways to play into it all in exactly the way I’ve always fantasised. Just wanted to revel! Yay.

That’s awesome, congratulations. You’re lucky to have found each other. Did you know you were both into anal only when you met, or did you discover that about each other over time?

thisistemporary: porn is so aggravating like the asshole is RIGHT THERE and they’re fucking the stupid pussy instead 🙁

Anonymous: May I ask, what is the obsession over ladies not touching their clit? I am happy that my Mrs and I are anal only in terms of penetrative sex (and oral). I don’t deny her to touch her clit and orgasm from it, especially when I fuck her asshole. It helps her butt-cunt relax and also for her to achieve analgasms. I enjoy pleasing my lady. She deserves to feel good with all the heavy butt fucking we do.

For me, it’s a personal preference and something I very much enjoy when a woman can get all the pleasure and enjoyment she needs from anal sex and no additional stimulation. The orgasms are often better that way, too, without distracting and overpowering the pure anal orgasm building with the clitoral short circuit. It has nothing to do with denying pleasure.

However, everyone is different, and not all women can easily orgasm from anal only. For those who can’t, I would suggest working to do so, because the reward is worth it, but not everyone wants to or is able to do so, and of course they are still anal only as well, so long as they don’t include vaginal penetration. Both approaches are perfectly valid within the anal only lifestyle, but I’m going to continue advocating and encouraging at least trying clitoral denial and working towards pure anal only orgasms whenever possible because it’s what I enjoy and what I think is best. Absolutely feel free to disagree with that, though, if something else works better for you!

Anonymous: So you only have anal sex? What about when you masturbate?

ilikeitintheass: Yea, only anal sex. Sometimes with clit stimulation. When I masturbate it’s always anal stimulation and again sometimes with clit stimulation.

littlepissbaby: For me anal isn’t just about humiliation, like someone on a different site tried to say when I was talking about it. I genuinely like it better than any vaginal penetration Ive had (ie. toys and fingering). And people have told me Im not trying to like vaginal enough or that Im trying too hard and it’s like. Just let me get off by getting butt-fucked in peace I didnt ask for your advice or theories.

Also, that’s why it’s so hard to find good anal-only content on here because all of it just seems centered on the girl not liking it. the struggle.

Anonymous: Thanks for posting about Anal Only August! I showed it to my wife and she agreed we can go anal only for a month to try and hopefully longer if it works out. We’re going to also try ignoring her clit for the month. Wish us luck!

Congrats! She sounds like a keeper. I’m sure you’ll both have a great time and if other’s experiences with month-long anal only challenges are any indication, there’s a good chance you’ll both end up staying anal only full time by the end of the month.

Keep us posted!

Anonymous: What if the guy you’re with wants to fuck your pussy?

ilikeitintheass: Tough. He can go fuck someone else.

Anonymous: What are your thoughts on the use of amyl nitrites like Rush or Jungle Juice to relax your sphincters for anal sex?

Not really something I have any experience with or interest in, personally. Poppers come with health risks, and I’m a strong advocate of naturally training and learning to control and relax your anal muscles without needing to use artificial means.