Anonymous: I just discovered the unique feeling of an asshole around my wrist, while my fingers were exploring the depths of the tube of lust, anal fisting is the ultimate hedonism my girlfriend told me when she finally could speak

Sounds like a good time for the both of you! Thanks for sharing.

Anonymous: Do you think it’s genuinely better for every woman to be anal only?

Yes. But I’m biased.

Based on my personal preferences and experiences, I think anal is far superior to vaginal and being anal only amplifies that superiority even further by focusing on it exclusively and allowing its true potential to unfold without distraction. I’ve spoken extensively about the benefits and advantages of being anal only.

Ultimately, though, it’s up to each person to decide. I’ll advocate for it and share my reasoning for why people should try it, but from there it’s up to each of you to decide whether you like the idea and want to pursue it yourself, whether you like it but just want it to stay a fantasy, or whether you think it’s utterly silly and want nothing to do with it.

Anonymous: I see many hypno-trainer videos and audios for sissies and cucks, but nothing for females interested in being converted into anal only. Do you know of any material of this kind? Thanks!

I don’t, unfortunately. There’s a strong lack of such material, and I strongly encourage its creation. If you find some (or make some) please share it.

Anonymous: Hey Lady P, thanks for sharing your asstastic blog and your wisdom. Im a straight guy and kinda embarassed with my anal preference with women. Not many Ive met are curious about that experience. Any advice on how to find chick partners with similiar kinks?

ladypapillonxxx: Thank you, don’t be embarrassed! I know that it can be hard to find girls into anal, but once you do, she’ll probably be really into it. I feel like you’re either realllly into or reallly not. Wish I knew the answer! I would like to find one myself.

There’s absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about preferring anal sex, and you’re absolutely not alone in that preference. Don’t give up, there are absolutely women out there in the same situation and looking for the same thing.

Anonymous: I’m a virgin never had a dildo/dick up my pussy. But have put anal plugs on.

Even better, then, you can focus on training and using your ass exclusively without needing to overcome any other distractions! Keep enjoying and exploring the pleasure your ass can give you and it will reward you tenfold.

Anonymous: Just bought myself 5 anal plugs and I’m obsessed! Came as soon as I put one in.

Thanks for sharing! It looks like it didn’t take very long at all for you to discover just how much better your ass is, did it? Stick with it and you’ll want to be anal only for good before you know it.

Anonymous: You keep saying AO is not a forever thing for you, but you’re doing it. I just feel like you’re not respecting the lifestyle. I’ve been AO for 2 years and I will never go back. You’re not committed to the lifestyle if you keep saying you’re only doing it for a short while..

ilikeitintheass: Ok. First of all, congratulations on being AO for 2 years. Good for you. Honestly I think that’s a huge achievement and I can’t imagine doing this for 2 years.

Second of all, I think that being anal only is a hugely personal thing. It takes its toll on any person and surely, everyone that chooses it has their own reasons, limitations, ideas, expectations, etc.

I’ve always said, from the beginning that I don’t know if I can keep doing it. I love anal. I love getting my ass fucked. I love stuffing it with things. I also love my clit and my pussy and having orgasms using my clit and my pussy. I miss it sometimes. One day I’m gonna have sex with two men and get both my pussy and ass fucked at the same time. One day soon based on some recent conversations with friends in fact.

So I don’t appreciate being told that I’m not respecting the lifestyle. Everyone has their own way of doing it. I think I’ve done quite well with it. I choose to keep doing it every day. I will continue to choose it until I don’t want to choose it anymore. Am not gonna lie or pretend otherwise.

And I’d hardly call nearly 7 months of being Anal Only a short while.

While I didn’t coin the term anal only or start the first discussion of the concept online, I did create the first AO Tumblr blog, coined the term “anal only lifestyle”, and created and grew the associated communities. So I think I have a pretty good say as to what anal only and the anal only lifestyle means.

And I say that it’s a highly personal definition each person gets to apply to themselves however it fits for them. For some people, anal only is something to try for a few weeks or months at a time and nothing more. For others, it’s a lifetime commitment. And an entire spectrum in between. Some who start in the first category may gradually shift towards wanting it more permanently over time, while others who start out wanting it permanently may later change and move away from it. People change.

Everyone is welcome in the anal only community, and I really dislike seeing someone who identifies as AO attacking someone else for “not being AO enough”. It’s fantastic that the anon loves AO enough they’re committed to being that way permanently, but that’s a personal choice, and you can’t force that on other people or disparage them for not making that same commitment.

Anonymous: There is something so perfect about anal. The fact that anyone in the whole world can be fucked in the ass without exception just makes it the ideal place to fuck. I’ve been anal only do a year now and I can’t stop seeing extra upsides.

It’s the perfect hole for sex, optimized for pleasure rather than reproduction. Why bother with something lesser?

kitti3-prize: What’s your beat advice for moving up to the next size plug? I can’t seem to get past the widest part but the smaller one slides in easily. This is for Serious anal training. I can already take cock without much prep. The widest part is 2.3 inches

Keep trying, sometimes a new toy can take a while to get in for the first time. Try getting it in, push up to the edge of discomfort (but not into pain) and hold there a moment, then back off and try again. In between every few cycles of that, switch to the smaller plug (or different toy if you have something between both sizes) and slide it in and out a few times, then go back to the bigger one. Repeat as needed. You’ll get there eventually, but don’t push it too fast. If it doesn’t seem like you’ll get it in today, for example, don’t force it, put in your smaller plug again and try again tomorrow.

Good luck and enjoy your new toys!

Anonymous: Why in this your misoginy school only women have to give up her core of womanhood that is her clit, the ultimate sex organ of nature, but men can keep using their penis?!! Why the restriction in genitalia is just to women?!! What a fucking sick idea of yours.. My God.

analonlyschool: Thank you for your message. In your hurry to direct your outrage towards me, you may have failed to notice that within the fictional scenario of this blog, the Anal Only School is a learning establishment that women choose to enroll in and can leave at any time if they find that it is not for them. A complete focus on anal sex is the advertised and stated intent of the Anal Only School, so everyone involved knows what they’re getting themselves into.

As for the reason why clitoral denial is encouraged within the Anal Only School: because there is greater pleasure for women to be had without direct clitoral stimulation, an increase in arousal, and other sexual benefits. Anal only orgasms, which stimulate among other things, the internal parts of the clitoris that surround the rectum, can be more intense and pleasurable without the negative side effects of clitoral orgasms that lead to post-orgasm mood changes and loss of arousal.

Why would you deny women greater pleasure by insisting on clitoral stimulation above all else?