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ilikeitintheass: I’ve been meaning to post this but I got so busy..

Some of you know that I was edging for one week. And I finally had an orgasm two days ago. I love edging but I’ve never done it since i became anal only.

Somehow it made everything better. So for one whole week, I would pick a time I was free for around one hour and I would play with my ass. Only my ass no other stimulation. I’ll watch porn or browse Tumblr and finger my ass or wear a plug or fuck my ass with a toy. Every time I feel close to orgasm I stop, and then continue after a few minutes.

After 3 days I was feeling so desperate. My ass started to ache for play. I would be working going about my day and I feel this sudden urge to fuck my ass. My body needed the release and I was becoming more horny.

Finally after one whole week of edging and getting so close to orgasm I allowed myself to cum, but I prolonged it. I spent 2 hours just getting close and stopping until I couldn’t anymore. At that point I was fucking my ass with my biggest toy, I pushed it deeper inside me and it just happened I wasn’t even trying to cum, I was still going to keep edging but the orgasm rushed through my body and it was the best orgasm I have ever had since I became anal only.

I think edging my be my new best friend

ouijaboardwhoree: I just gave myself my first anal orgasm, and holy shit lol. I swear, I’m like anal obsessed. ?

Anonymous: Hi! I’ve been doing anal for 2 years now (honestly not as often as I want but I’m working on it!) and haven’t cum from anal only stimulation. I really want to, do you have any tips possibly?

ilikeitintheass: Aww am so sorry you haven’t been able to yet.

Ok, I’ll give you a few tips, try them all and see where you land. If you want to talk more, send me an ask off anon and I’ll message you to discuss.. xo

Ok, first thing, please make sure you are very clean before anal. And then grab your lube and start playing with your ass. Use your fingers. Start really slow, if you like porn watch something while you do this. Just close your eyes and enjoy the sensation. Use one or 4 fingers and keep moving them around and stretching yourself. Don’t force it just do what feels good. Rub your clit too or play with your nipples as you do that.

When you’re ready get your toy and start fucking yourself. Use lots of lube. Go slow, try to move it around, try to hit you vaginal g spot through your ass. When you find it, keep pointing at it and rub your clit till you cum.

Once you’re able to find orgasm this way, you can then try to find orgasm through just anal.
Things like edging and going anal only for a few days or a week will definitely help. When you focus on just your ass it makes it easier to orgasm like that. Edging especially, if you do that, you will be so desperate to cum, and one day you’ll be fucking your ass, not even touching your clit and you’ll cum.

This is what worked for me a few girls I know. I hope it works for you too.

Anonymous: Absolutely love wearing my plug, I just want someone to fuck me in the ass so we can start ignoring my pussy

You can start by ignoring your pussy on your own and have fun being anal only in your solo play. This is a good way to start getting into the anal only mindset even if you don’t have a partner interested in it yet. Instead of masturbating vaginally, do everything anally—either wearing a plug, fingering your ass, or using a dildo. If you need clitoral stimulation to enjoy anal, feel free to incorporate that as well, but only when something is in your ass at the same time. If you’d like to explore the idea of being anal only without clitoral stimulation, give that a try, but don’t feel obligated to exclude all clitoral stimulation unless that appeals to you or works best.

As far as getting someone to fuck you in the ass—once you feel ready, try asking. You’ll find plenty of guys will be eager to do so.

Anonymous: If you are anal-only does that mean you still edge your pussy?

ilikeitintheass: Edge my pussy? How can that be anal only? No nothing has entered my pussy in over 6 months, no finger, no toy, no cock. Absolutely nothing.
I enjoy clit stimulation with anal, but I’ve been am on clit denial for about a month now.

And this is not to say I didn’t enjoy vaginal sex or penetration. I did. I still would. I am simply trying anal only to enhance my sexual experience and try something new and different.

Anonymous: My boyfriend and I have anal sex sometimes… but he says his penis hurts after we do it. How can we stop that happening?

While this isn’t something I’ve experienced myself, and so I can’t guarantee my advice will be appropriate, here are several possible scenarios.

Are you using sufficient lubrication? Not enough lube can cause pain or discomfort to either or both partners, due to abrasion of the skin. If the skin of his penis is feeling raw afterwards, this could very likely be the issue.

If you are particularly tight, the pressure exerted on him could cause pain when you’re done and he’s no longer being squeezed as tightly. If this is the case, I would suggest doing more warmup before having sex using fingers, butt plugs and other toys, so that your anus can relax and open up a bit more in advance.

And finally, it’s possible that the position or angle could be a factor if it’s straining his penis. Experiment with some other positions and see if it works better for him.

I hope that helps, and feel free to follow up with more details about the type of pain.

theonewhoknocks6969: Does your anal only lifestyle ever cause problems with your partners?

ilikeitintheass: No it doesn’t. Usually because if they’re not ok with it, we wouldn’t be together 🙂

thechastityhousewife: So this has been a fetish of mine fot ages. I finally told my husband and he’s been enjoying it. For both of us the sex has been better since we both love anal. He still wants to make me cum from my clit and pussy though. How can I convince him to go more towards anal only?

female-orgasm-denial: So my mantra is ‘cumming is good, but not cumming is better’. I love to deny my wife, but I love making her cum too, it creates a connection between us that’s so powerful. So I’d say, talk to him about it, and suggest three things, one is that you prefer how it makes you feel about life, sex and him when you’re denied, so maybe could you limit how many times he lets you, and enjoy how horny it keeps you. Secondly, teach him about ruined orgasms, say if he does make you cum, it might be hot to ruin it, then read up on it on this blog, and practise!

Finally, once those two have bedded in, tell him more about anal only, just tell him the concept turns you on so much. Not that it’s something you want all the time but maybe could you try it for a bit and see how he likes it. Take little steps, and you’ll eventually get to where you want to be.

Anonymous: Is that all you like? Anal and getting fucked in the ass? Do you enjoy other sexual acts? It just seems rather limiting keeping to just anal.

ilikeitintheass: No one likes just one thing. I love getting deep throated. I love cum. I love men and women and I like to be sexual with them and do many things together.. I love all kinds of things not just anal.

And the idea that being anal only means i am limiting myself is absolutely ridiculous. Honestly!! What a stupid thing to say.

Anonymous: because my gf is having such a blast being an anal only girl, she’s decided to make me become anal only boy. 🙁 i hope youre pleased

Is this what you want as well? If it is and you’re both happy exploring being anal only together, then go for it.