Anonymous: seems like you’re starting to focus more on pleasuring your ass, have you ever stopped to plug yourself during your absense here or being heavily plug kept being part of your bimbo duties?

dumbandpretty: I wear plugs often, if not every day. They’re a fun, easy way to make your day-to-day kinky.

Anonymous: I love your blog!! I really like anal and you’ve inspired me to try going anal only too! My husband is on board (of course lol) and he says he’s going to help keep me from using my pussy. We’re going to try it for the rest of 2017 first and see after that if we want to continue. Wish us luck!

ilikeitintheass: WOW how cool is that. I am so happy to inspire you two. Good luck. Take it easy and go slow, don’t force it, and most importantly, have fun. It took me a few tries before I got to 6 months.

If you ever want to talk about it or if you have any questions, feel free to message me or send an ask. I love sharing my experience and helping those who need it. GOOD LUCK woohooo

Gas after anal sex is not a personal problem at all. https://www.google.com/search?q=anal+sex+giving+gas

It’s well documented.

Just not on this blog. Which makes me wonder if everyone here is on the giving end & don’t give a crap about whatever discomforts someone on the receiving end may be going through & any remedies for it?

Clearly, because a particular topic relating to anal sex has not been covered on this blog extensively (a blog whose topics of discussion are primarily directed by the questions people ask, and the relative lack of people asking about that should say something), that means that no one who participates in the anal only community cares about their partner. Yep, no other possible explanation there.

If someone had reached out with a sincere question about that issue, I would have responded with a sincere answer. Given your tone and hostile attitude, a snarky response was all I had.

Another thing. As a polyamorous professional FemDom I am 1 million percent sure I’ve done many more assholes than anyone here advocating for a subject they know little about has, which maybe why I’m not that excited about it.

Good for you, then. Clearly those of us who exclusively practice anal sex know nothing about it compared to you. Is there a point to this?

I know that not everyone can be trained to “cum” from Anal only. In fact very few people can.

Don’t get my wrong I wish they could. Would make play time much easier. But most people can’t. It’s arousing for them etc. But they can’t.

Just the same way some people can squirt & others can’t. Others just have to fake squirts by peeing.

You seem to just be arguing with yourself. You’ll note in my previous message where I said that some women can orgasm from anal sex naturally, some women can learn to orgasm from anal sex, and others require additional stimulation to orgasm, with the majority of anal only women using clitoral stimulation in combination with anal.

Similarly given there is evidence as old as time Women have been faking vaginal orgasms.

The fellas on here need to accept the fact their women maybe faking anal ones even more.

You seem to have a real issue with women orgasming from anal sex and are desperate to conclude that they must all be liars. (Again, even though you can orgasm from anal!)

& That variety is the spice of life & if she starts cheating on you with other men, it’ll be normal.

No one likes a one trick pony lol. Just a thought.

No one is forced to view or follow this blog. There are plenty of men, women and couples who follow it and interact with it, as well as the rest of the anal only community, and they do so because being anal only is something that they’re interested in and either are actively doing or would like to try. Clearly it has no appeal to you. So instead of trying to cause trouble and suggest that anyone who goes anal only is going to end up with a partner who cheats on them because she wants more than anal, I suggest you leave and find a more suitable activity to occupy your time.

Ps. I still think every guy who advocates Anal only should take it up the ass first. It’s 2017 “Normalize” pegging. If AO for women should be normal, it should be too for men. What’s to keep it from being normal for both?

Go ahead and create a blog of your own to advocate for that if it’s something you feel so strongly about. I’m sure you’ll get a following. But that’s not and will not be the focus of this blog. This blog is about female anal pleasure, advocating for women exploring anal stimulation more on their own terms to enjoy it for themselves rather than just for a partner, and encouraging experimentation with anal exclusivity for those who are interested.

ilikeitintheass: I have been ANAL ONLY for exactly 6 months. I can’t believe it. I do miss fingering my pusssy and getting fucked in my pussy, I’ll admit that, but not enough that I want to stop AO.

I’ve also been on clit denial for about a month. This one is harder to stay on. Sometimes I’m so close to orgasm when I’m having anal sex or assturbating, am so close, so so close, but it gets away from me and I just can’t help but reach for my clit to finish. I feel a little crazy and out of this world and that if I didn’t have an orgasm I would explode.

This is not to say that I haven’t had anal only orgasm. I have. And they are always incredible and exciting and full. But they don’t happen as often as I’d like them too. All in all, it’s been fun and sexy and exciting and I can’t wait till I can say that I’ve been doing this for a year and then two years. This is for sure a lifetime goal for me now.

Anal only all the way. ??

PS: I’m sorry I don’t respond to all messages, I get so busy and there are just so many of you. I read them all, I promise, I just can’t respond to everyone. I usually answer asks cuz this way everyone can see them. Messages, are usually for those I talk to often. Sometimes if am free and In the mood I’ll answer back. I do like to chat, when I have the time.

Also since you’re all anal experts.

Why hasn’t anyone talked about how Anal queefing after a good long hard anal pounding is much worse than pussy queefing & gives you gas for DAYS & DAYS…. something pussy queefing doesn’t do???

This sounds like a personal problem.

Because this message is long and overly complicated, I’m going to break it apart and reply to it throughout.

In all seriousness, I think all the men here on this blog advocating anal only & should be trying pegging.

& Let’s see YOU cum from anal.

Many men do enjoy receiving anal stimulation as well, including many who practice anal only. Others don’t, but enjoy giving it. As long as their partner enjoys receiving it, whether the men are willing to receive it as well is irrelevant. Can it provide a perspective that might help a man be better at anal with a partner? Perhaps. But it’s not the only way to learn how to be good at giving anal, and demanding that all men have to experience receiving anal if they want to be anal only with their partners is absurd.

I can cum from anal, it’s not a problem for me, but fact of the matter is most men & most women absolutely can’t.

I’m in BDSM scene I know people who’ve been doing anal for years & they can never cum. They need to get jerked. Sad fact is many women are really good at faking orgasms & it’s become routine with their partners irrespective of the orifice being used.

Hence I really think all men on here should get to experience this.

Some people can orgasm purely from anal sex naturally and easily. Some people can learn to do it over time. Some can’t and require additional stimulation. Some prefer orgasm denial and enjoy the constant arousal and frustration of experiencing intense anal pleasure but not orgasming. All of these people and scenarios are welcome and encouraged within the anal only lifestyle. Most anal only women I’ve known or spoken with combine clitoral stimulation with anal penetration. For them, I encourage experimenting with clitoral denial to discover whether they can orgasm from anal alone, but if they cannot, or if they are not interested, that doesn’t make them any less anal only just because clitoral stimulation is involved. Being anal only is primarily about the exclusion of vaginal intercourse, or in a stricter sense, vaginal penetration. Anything else is a supplemental element.

I peg my partner all the time. He’s a pegging champion,  most of the time I’m too scared to even use on him the monster toys he likes. But he can’t cum from it. He can’t even keep his dick hard during it.

I have to triple up on efforts to make him hard & cum, after we’ve done anything anal on HIM.

I think all men should experience this sensation. Yes it must be arousing for him but it’s NOT enough. He still needs both oral & vaginal to get all the way to orgasm.

So how can you expect women to have any anal only?

You’re taking one person’s experiences and extrapolating them to everyone. Even you admit that you can orgasm from anal on its own.

I don’t expect anything from women. I encourage people—men, women, couples, whoever—to try going anal only for themselves and discover on their own whether it’s something that they enjoy. If they don’t, hey, more power to them—they tried something new and decided it wasn’t for them. But a lot of women do enjoy being anal only. And a lot of people who submit messages to this blog already were anal only before they found it, and are happy to find a community of other anal only people they can share and interact with.

& Shitty thing is all the females who posted here, if they are female don’t seem to talk about cumming from clitoral stimulation & even better oral. It’s like they’re literally anal only.

My only guess is, they’ve been faking vaginal orgasms for so long, now they’re faking anal orgasms but they seem to enjoy it just a bit more because their partners maybe on the smaller end & feeling up the pussy was impossible.

So what gives?????

So because the experiences of women who have shared their stories here don’t align with your view of how the world works, they must all be lying and faking their orgasms? (Again, even though you can orgasm from anal.)

Some women are literally anal only. Some are anal only with clitoral stimulation. Some are anal only with cunnilingus. Some are anal only for intercourse but use dildos vaginally. Everyone has their own interpretation of anal only and adapts the concept, if it appeals to them, to work for their own needs—as they should!

Also would be interesting to know everyone’s sizes with a pic & measuring tape next to it, to see if there’s correlation between size & anal preference. BTW my current partner is over 9inches so this has nothing to do with him. I’m talking about previous partners.

I… don’t have words.

Also I don’t think he’d ever want to go anal only. He worships pussy & love FemDom.

Good for him, then? No one is obligated to be anal only. This blog exists for people who are anal only or who are curious about the idea and are curious to try it. If your partner isn’t interested, and you aren’t interested, it might not be the right blog for you.

eagle8210: We are excited to announce we are closing in on being anal only for a year. we both love it. My wife has to rub her clit during anal to cum, but that’s fine with both of us. The new kink we are doing is switching. She has really gotten into using toys on me and being my FEM-DOM. I just received new butt plug training set with med, large and it hurts just looking at it. We are looking forward to trying it out and her doing more anal training and stretching me further.

That’s great to hear you’re nearly a year into anal only and still going strong! Keep it up, keep enjoying it, and have fun with your new experimentation!

Anonymous: What made you decide to go anal only? What’s your perspective on it?

m-analqueen: To answer your question, there are many reasons, but the main ones are;
I really enjoy the feeling of having my ass filled, especially with big toys
I find that sex is more raw and passionate, and the angles tend to be better for penetration
I don’t have to worry about birth control
I practise orgasm denial and edge as often as I can, but I only allow myself to orgasm from anal as I find it way more intense, especially when I don’t waste any orgasms on my pussy!
I used to think my pussy was the centre of my sexual orientation, but it turns out it was my ass all along!

Anonymous: Do you ever have dry anal? My husband would like to try it using some saliva to ease initial entry.

While I don’t really advise actual dry anal to most people, there are certainly those who find a combination of saliva and anal mucous, the natural anal lubrication everyone has at some level but some people produce in greater quantities than other, to be perfectly suitable for them and to provide a greater sensation.

It’s not generally something I would advise to beginners with anal, but if you’re already anally experienced and would like to try it, give it a shot and see how it goes for you, but be aware of pain or growing discomfort and slow, stop, or re-lubricate as needed to avoid injury.

I introduced my wife to anal within the first year of our marriage. She liked it immediately but we used her ass only occasionally for 25 years, usually at her request, during vaginal sex.

About a year ago I decided to go anal only because I realized it excites me seeing a woman fully engaged in love making with an abandoned empty pussy. After a couple of months of anal only she complained, saying that anal should be done in combination with vaginal sex. She said she needed to feel like a “woman”. I didn’t want an argument, so a few days later I penetrated her unused vagina. She was in anguish and wouldn’t let me finish, complaining about pain for several days thereafter.

Now, when I am displeased with her I threaten to fuck her pussy again. She always straightens up and obeys me to make certain I don’t fulfill that threat.

She seldom used to climax from vaginal sex, but she has multiple orgasms from her ass fucking, every time. We have talked about never touching her vagina again but, her traditional upbringing makes her reluctant to agree to 100% abandonment of her vagina forever even though she admits there’s no particular reason to use it.

Bottom line [pun intended]? It’s my call. If I never ever touch her pussy again I have a willing wife who will take my sperm in her colon every day for the rest of our lives.

I can’t complain.

Thanks for sharing! Do you think she would have been interested in going anal only earlier in your relationship, given that she was often the one who initiated anal? Or was it your initiative that got her to transition towards being more anal centric?

It’s not uncommon for a woman to both feel a desire or urge to return to vaginal penetration after some time being anal only—and to then hate it when she tries it for a variety of reasons, either pain and discomfort from the relative lack of use, or just a dull lack of pleasure after months of far more intense anal sex. The vagina has a hard time standing up to comparison after focusing on purely anal pleasure.

If she has issues giving up all vaginal/clitoral stimulation even though she will freely admit it’s unnecessary for her, just work on getting there gradually. Keep focusing on pure anal pleasure, work with her to avoid her pussy more and more, and she’ll find herself wanting it less over time. No need to do it abruptly, and a gradual process will often strengthen her desire to avoid using it.

Glad to hear that it sounds like you’re both very much on board with being anal only for good and having a good time!