blog-69: Hey how do u get a girl into anal ?

Talk to her. Say you would like to explore anal pleasure with her, but at a pace that she’s comfortable and focusing on her enjoyment of it. Read about anal training and how to enjoy anal sex together. Start by rimming her. Then rub her asshole gently without pushing inside while also stimulating her via whatever her preferred method is. Regularly combine a bit of anal stimulation with her favorite way to masturbate and cum.

Slowly start inserting a lubricated finger. Make her orgasm while you finger her ass. Get her a butt plug and have her wear it during other sexual activities. Work up in size to small dildos. Keep having her cum during anal play regularly.

When she can take a dildo around the size of your penis, and she’s ready, only then try actually having anal sex. Find a position that works for the two of you and keeps her in control of movement at first and let her slowly penetrate herself onto you. If it hurts, stop. Wait. Relax. Resume when it doesn’t hurt anymore. Repeat as necessary. Once you’re all the way in, stay there a moment, then when she’s ready she can start moving. Always pause if it hurts and let her get used to it.

But she has to want it too to get to that point. Start slow and make it about her enjoyment.

Anonymous: Almost lost my butt plug when I was playing with it. I accidentally pushed it and I felt it start to slip to far, luckily I thought quickly enough to push it out. I’m gonna have to tighten up a bit before I use one of my small ones again

Sounds like you don’t need to “tighten up”, you just need to upgrade to wearing bigger plugs or ones that are shaped better to stay in place comfortably.

Anonymous: Um hi, any advice for leakage after removing the plug? I just got a plug and I try to make sure I’m clean before I put it in and it seems sometimes after I remove it I find little bit of a leak in my panties. I love the feeling of it, but I don’t want to risk my partner seeing.

Go to the bathroom before wearing it, and if you want to clean out further, use a small enema bulb/anal douche with just a little bit of warm water several times to flush out the rectum but no deeper. Shouldn’t need anymore than that.

analonlylesbian: I’ve recently realized the fact that anal is better. It really is. It’s a whole world of pleasure, feelings, emotions, thoughts… I have no will to ever go back and now I feel sorry that I ever wasted time on anything else. But it also leaves me angry that I wasted so much time and energy before. It makes me angry that anal isn’t the default, that I feel like I know a fact that everyone should know. How should I handle that?

That’s great to hear you’ve come to that conclusion! It’s understandable you can have some regrets for time wasted on lesser things, but it’s best to just channel that into positive motivation for the future, I find. The past happened how it happened and it ultimately led you here to the point where you want a life of anal only, so it can’t be so bad.

As for anal being the default, and helping others discover its benefits and the advantages of being anal only—bring that up among friends you feel comfortable talking about sex with, post more on Tumblr and elsewhere you may make any sort of sexual posts about anal only and how good it is, and generally help to make a positive impression about anal to everyone. There are still a lot of stigmas, myths and misunderstandings surrounding anal sex in general, let alone the anal only lifestyle, and helping to educate and encourage others to discover the reality for themselves is one of the biggest factors people can use to spread the anal only lifestyle.

In just a few years, anal only has grown significantly. Imagine how much further it will grow with a steadily growing number of people talking positively about their experiences being anal only and encouraging others to try it for themselves.

Thanks so much for sharing. Now get out there and be an anal only advocate yourself!

The original version of this post on Tumblr received the following response.

female-orgasm-denial: This is like reading what I’d say if I ran an anal only blog. Love it.

No Pussy November 2017 has officially come to an end, but that doesn’t mean the fun has to be over!

If you participated this year and made it through the month and enjoyed being anal only, why not commit to staying that way indefinitely? It doesn’t have to be a permanent commitment, just keep going and see where it takes you. Most people find it just keeps getting better the more you stay anal only.

If you missed No Pussy November this year, don’t worry! Just because we celebrate this particular month more publicly, any month is a good month to try becoming anal only! If the idea interests you, get your partner on board any time of the year and declare pussy off limits for a period of time to really focus on anal and try out the anal only lifestyle. Several weeks works as a starting point for some people, but a month is usually best as a real introduction to full time anal only, and some find it takes several months to really stick. Whatever you end up doing, if you have a desire to become anal only, give it a try with a short term commitment and see how it works for you before making a long term commitment.

sherbert-sunset: Hey there, I’m trying my find my anal only slut… any advice? I know you get this a million times but I’m going to go see insane trying to find an ass to fuck…

While there are women out there who are single and anal only (or want to be) and looking for a partner who wants the same, chances of randomly encountering them are relatively low. Most anal only people become so along with a partner they already trust. Your best chance at an anal only relationship is to find a woman you like and who likes you and who is sexually open and either already enjoys anal or is open to trying it and gradually working together to get to where anal only is sustainable for the two of you. Being honest and up front about your preferences and needs for anal is often best to filter out people who it might be a total dealbreaker for.