Anonymous: How can I keep myself ready for anal? Sometimes my husband gets to my ass before I’m completely cleaned out. Should i just be ok with it being messy?

Sometimes anal is just a little bit messy and it’s not that big of a deal, however you can do things to minimize the chances.

If you have anal sex most or every day, try a schedule of cleaning after going to the bathroom each day rather than just before sex. It doesn’t need to be much, just a small amount of warm water to flush out the rectum (but no deeper) several times.

Wearing a butt plug regularly can help as well—it not only helps you keep more in tune with that part of your body and know how you feel, the stimulation helps clean yourself out naturally if necessary, and removing it before sex helps you verify that you’re clean.

Anonymous: Is there such a thing as too much anal? I can easily have sex 2-3 times a day. I really would call myself addicted as I feel a real ache, a longing, an emptiness when I’m not filled. Should I give in and wear my plug too?

If you’re properly trained and warmed up for it, you can have as much anal as you want. If it hurts or you start getting sore, then you might be doing it to much and should take a break for a day or two until you aren’t sore anymore. Just listen to your body. If your body needs more anal, give it more anal. If anal is starting to hurt or become uncomfortable, back off it a little bit. Try to strike that balance.

Wearing a plug can help to satisfy some of those needs while also keeping you warmed up for more frequent sex. Win win.

Anonymous: Finally got my partner to take my anal virginity, no pain since I’ve trained my ass with plug and we used lube, but way too much stimulation. I didn’t think my first time would feel all that great, especially being a girl, but it felt too good. It was like ever pleasure receptor went off in my body. I couldn’t take more than a couple of thrusts before I made him which back. Definitely will have him fuck me in the ass again!

Glad to hear that your first anal experience was not only pain-free but overwhelmingly pleasurable! Keep easing into it and you’ll no doubt be enjoying full anal sessions before you know it.

Anonymous: I fucked this chick in the ass, and I swear I was reaching her intestines. Is this possible?

It’s possible in some cases to reach the end of the rectum and the bend into the colon, yes. Some enjoy deliberately doing that for additional stimulation or to ejaculate deeper and keep it from running out after.

strokingthepetals: Well, I’d be happy to fuck your pregnant body from behind and watch your big tits sway. Might as well get in your cunt while I can, right?

dumbandpretty: Uh-uh, that’s off limits. “Exit Only.” 😉

Anonymous: Hey I told you last year about my Anal Only tattoo on my pussy and Anal Whore tattoo on my ass. Well last night I had to change in a locker room with loads of other women. So loads saw it. Some were really interested and I told them all about anal only. Others called me a slut and a whore, but to be honest that just made me even more proud of my tattoos. I’m tempted to let more people see them, definitely friends and maybe even some of my family. What do you think?

If you enjoy the idea of sharing your tattoos with others and want to do so, go for it. There’s nothing wrong with being open about your sexuality with people when it’s appropriate to do so. And if it gets other people interested in going anal only, so much the better. Talk about its benefits and how much you love being anal only and encourage them to try it for themselves if they sound interested.

mister-makes-u-squirt: What’s the best tip for me, a guy, to have in mind when he’s going to fuck a girl in the ass for the first time? Like.. I just know what to do, but what I know doesn’t work for everyone persay. Any pointers to make it an enjoyable experience for my lady friend as well? Cause I’m into it, and I wanna find someone else who is into it as much as I am.

Communicate. Everyone’s different, so make sure she knows she can talk to you and tell you what feels good and what doesn’t so you can adapt what you do for her needs.

A baseline of starting slow, with something noninvasive like rimming or gently rubbing externally, and working up to a small penetration and beyond to toys and plugs and eventually sex is a good starting point, and you can skip some of the steps or go faster if a particular person is ready for that and wants it.

Anonymous: How come anal in porn the guys only use the tip of their penis and don’t go deep? When I fuck my gf in the butt she prefers it deep and says it feels more comfortable and comes from this stimulation. When it is just the tip she says it hurts more. I imagine because of the sphincter muscles. Any thoughts?

Some women in porn are doing anal just for the money and not for the pleasure, and aren’t all that anally experienced compared to the women who do it because they love and crave it, and a shallow penetration may be all they can manage.

Some men seem to think the only appeal of anal is the tight anal sphincter and focus there rather than taking advantage of the full length of the rectum.

dumbandpretty: Starting now, 10:57AM PST, January 28, 2018, I solemnly swear to abstain from any and all orgasms, and to refrain from direct stimulation of both clit and vagina, and to rely on my ass and my ass alone for sexual gratification, until such time as you, my followers, say otherwise.

The more likes, comments, reblogs, etc, I get, the more willing I’ll be to surrender my privileges to you guys. I’m open to suggestions, though reserve the right to refuse, based on my current condition.

Anonymous: How do I go anal only when I’ve never had anything inside my ass before? I’m scared to try anal but at the same time I’m so obsessed with it

Start by putting something in your ass. Don’t start with a dick, work up to that. Put some lube on your finger and gently rub your asshole without slipping it inside, just see how nice it feels to rub the outside. When you feel like you’re ready and you really want your finger inside you, gently slide it in and start fingering yourself. If you’re careful and go slowly at first, it shouldn’t hurt. If it does, slide it back out and go back to massaging the outside again for a few minutes before trying again. Over time, you’ll want and be ready for two fingers, then three.

From there you can go to toys, plugs, and eventually dicks.

Good luck exploring anal and going anal only. You’re going to love it.