Anonymous: It’s good to hear you’re going to abandon your cunt for good once you’re done using it. I’m sure you’ll have all our support when that happens.

dumbandpretty: The more encouragement–like this–I get, the more likely it’ll happen.

Anonymous: My girlfriend Kristi loves anal, she never stops me from initiating anal sex. I want to approach her with the idea of anal only as a kink, but do not know how to go about it. Any suggestions?

There are multiple ways of going about it.

You could just gradually increase the frequency that you do anal until you’re pretty much doing it all the time already and then after a while say “hey, we’re already doing anal all the time, do you want to try just staying anal only?”

Or you could tell her up front that you love doing anal with her and prefer it to vaginal and that you’d like to go anal only together. Suggest trying it for a month or two to start and see how she reacts.

I must say that reading these anal only stories and advices makes me laugh and horny at the same time 🙂

I always thought myself as a big fan of anal sex but looks more like I´m no more than complete amateur what comes to butt fucking.

I even had short relationship with one of your Forum member I think he was called “no clit” or “hate vagina” or something like that and damn he was a funny guy and good in bed but he took little bit too seriously this anal only lifestyle 😀

He never allowed me to have even the smallest amount of any vaginal or clit pleasure and I was just fine with getting fucked only in the ass all the time but no clit stimulation or touching… Seriously what the hell is that?

Many guys here say that their wife or girlfriends can have orgasm from only anal sex and several women too claim that they can have orgasm by using only their asses… Really?

I´m 28 years old now and I have been having anal sex regular bases more than 10 years and just love it and specially anal orgasm are from another planet compared to pussy orgasms, but no way I can have orgasm if I can´t touch my clit.

Exactly the reason why there was no reason to continue sex relationship with someone soooo obsessed about only anal sex because it´s not fair to me that I am not allowed to have any orgasms and he could have as many as he wanted.

So my question is that are you really serious that there are so many girls able to have anal only orgasm without any clit stimulation because just about all my friends who have anal sex and I can guarantee that there´s many of them and I have never even heard that somebody can do that.

Sounds like bullshit to me…

Everyone is different. I don’t have actual statistics, but some women absolutely can orgasm from just anal, some can have a sort of ruined orgasm from it, and others need clitoral stimulation in combination to orgasm. Some who can’t do it at first can learn how to, but again everyone’s different here as well and it can take longer for some than for others to learn how, and the techniques that work to achieve it can differ from person to person. For some it’s very easy and natural, for some it’s possible but very difficult. Some women can orgasm anally but not vaginally/clitorally.

My position is that being anal only is fundamentally only about choosing to exclude vaginal intercourse. Everyone can and should have their own interpretation and implementation of the anal only lifestyle beyond that. If you need/want clitoral stimulation along with your anal, go for it! If you can orgasm from just anal and prefer doing so, do that. Do what works for you and what you enjoy.

My reason for encouraging people to experiment with clitoral denial is to try and unlock other forms of pleasure and orgasm. It’s not for everyone, and that’s okay. It’s certainly not about a denial of pleasure — which can be a kink for some and there’s nothing wrong with that either if everyone’s on board with it — but a means of trying to achieve more pleasure. If you’ve tried it and it’s not more pleasurable for you, then know that you at least tried something new.

Keep on enjoying anal the way you enjoy it. If you ever want to experiment with achieving anal only orgasms again at some point, I would suggest being open to the idea, but do it perhaps more with the mindset of doing it for your own benefit and enjoyment and exploring a different source of pleasure for yourself, rather than because someone demands it or because they want to deny you pleasure.

The original version of this post on Tumblr received the following responses.

pinkishah: Anal only is the best way

a-dead-mouse: My partner comes from anal only stimulation. She is very orgasmic though. She squirts too. Analgasms are real.

assappreciationarea: The are definitely real. I was getting fisted by this girl and i had another girl sitting on my face. And i came all over my stomach and they weren’t even touching my dick

painlove1018: So laying in bed horny as fuck. I’ve been looking at a lot of anal only pages. It got me to thinking bout going only anal far as masturbation. So I began playing with my ass and went to rub my throbbing pussy and had to stop. I got back to my ass and squirted on myself 3 times. Im up to 3 fingers and cumming more out of my ass then ever with my pussy. Anal only is turning me out.

ilikeitintheass: A girl after my own heart. I did something similar a few days ago

anal-princess-plugged: Yes indeed! I love the squirting orgasms I get from anal. Even though your pussy is drooling and throbbing, when you go to slide your fingers inside it your pussy suddenly doesn’t feel as good as it did before you touched it. Anal only masturbation is incredible.

undercover-on-the-floor: I officially solidified myself as an anal slut in my own mind last night. In an attempt to reach my edges goal last night, I decided to touch myself while sitting on my couch in the living room. I rarely ever do this because I live with an elderly family member, but she was not home last night so I felt liberated. I started my session, like I do most nowadays, by looking through gifs on Tumblr. Just a minute or so into touching myself I realized that I wanted my session to be anal only instead and that I needed to remove my hand off my aching clit. After readjusting myself on the couch I began to stroke my asshole lovingly as if were the clit I’d been rubbing just moments before. It wasn’t long before I found myself using my dripping pussy juices to slide my finger into my aching hole. As I slowly fucked myself I realized my needy hole wanted more, so gathering up a few more juices, I buried another finger deep in my ass. By this time I could tell I was getting close. My body began bucking against my hand fervently, desperately trying to get just enough stimulation on my clit from the palm of my hand in order to cum. I pulled my palm away just in time to a have a ruin so strong I almost couldn’t get my fingers out in time because my asshole was clenching on them so hard. After my ruin I set on the couch feeling my asshole tensing and releasing, begging for more contact as the feeling of my fingers slowly faded. All I could think as I sat there was how much I wished I’d had an anal plug to shove into my greedy hole so that I wouldn’t be allowed to forget being such a needy anal slut.

Anonymous: It’s normal and expected for a woman’s vagina to get blown out from giving birth. But, since that’s all it’s for, what does it matter? You still have a perfectly capable asshole and mouth to enjoy sex with. Once you’re done with your vagina, you can move on completely from it, which is incredibly freeing.

dumbandpretty: You’re right. When I feel more in the mood—or let me qualify that: when I’m in the mood and capable of enjoying sex again—I suspect I’ll be anal-only from now on. And I’m not just saying that because I want no more kids—there’s always birth control, etc, for that—but because I’m starting to feel an ideological affinity for anal-only again, as strongly as when I first came across the concept. Though really, with two little ones running around and two more on the way, I doubt we’ll have much time or energy left for sex in the foreseeable future!

Thanks for this message—I love the support—kinky things, especially encouraging me to stay bimbo or anal only, really make my day.