ilikeitintheass: I’m slowly working my way back to the anal only lifestyle. My ass needs all the attention it can get

Anonymous: I don’t ever want to even try vaginal sex, I really want to keep my pussy virgin and stay anal only forever. I’ve been doing anal for like five years now and I’ve never once wanted to try it in my pussy, it just seems wrong and I’ve no interest in it. But my friends think that’s weird and that every girl needs to try using her pussy. Is it really so bad to want what I want? Why? My pussy is nothing to me, but anal is everything. I just want to live my life anal only, it makes me happy and sexy.

No, there’s nothing at all wrong with wanting that. Some will say you should try everything and see what you do and don’t like and decide from there, informed in what every option has to offer—and that’s fine, if you want to do that. But there’s a lot to be said for going anal from the start and never wasting time with your pussy—let’s face it—if you’ve been anal only for five years already and have never tried using your pussy, you’re not going to like vaginal sex and it’s not going to offer anything to compare to anal for you.

Like you said, it’s what you want, vaginal doesn’t interest you, and you find it sexier to keep your pussy virgin. I wholeheartedly agree if that’s something you want—I’ve always had a soft spot for girls who are anal only with virgin pussies they never want fucked but who are extremely enthusiastic about all sorts of anal sex and play all the time. That’s a dream girl for a lot of guys—no pussy, ever, and no vaginal habits to break on the path to anal only bliss.

If a life of pure anal only is what you want, go for it! There’s no point wasting your time on something you won’t like and will regret doing because you’ll wish you’d kept your pussy unused.

Anonymous: I’d never go anal only just to please my boyfriend. I do it because I love it. But I can’t deny I’ve given up *a lot* of clit stimulation just for him, because I know how he loves when I don’t cum. I’m lucky I can’t cum from anal!

That’s totally reasonable and fair, doing things like that for a partner aren’t for everyone, and usually I would strongly encourage doing things because you enjoy doing them. But there are those who get more enjoyment out of pleasing their partner than from the physical act itself. So if that’s the case, being anal only for a partner might be a reasonable option for that person. But doing it because you love it is great as well.

If you’re happy to give up your clit stimulation for your boyfriend, however, it seems you understand the pleasure of doing something that pleases your partner, even if it’s a different level of sacrifice.

My point, I guess, is that there’s nothing wrong with either of these approaches if they work for the people involved, and there’s also nothing wrong with only doing anal only or clit denial if it’s what you yourself enjoy.

Anonymous: I’m going anal only for my boyfriend. I don’t even like anal but I know he likes it and he would love it if we did this, so we’re gonna go for it.

I’m not going to suggest outright that you shouldn’t do this, because I know there are lots of people out there who get more enjoyment and emotional satisfaction from their partner’s enjoyment of sex than they do from the physical act itself and who prioritize this over the physical aspect.

I will, however, suggest that you take the opportunity to learn how to enjoy anal sex for yourself. You’ll have a lot of time to do so if you’re going anal only, so while you’re doing so, see what things feel better than other things and try to focus on what feels good. The more you do it, the better it will feel.

What about anal don’t you like? Does it hurt? Or just not as stimulating for you yet? If you have specific questions about making it better, feel free to ask—I’m happy to help you unlock the pleasure of anal until you’re wanting to stay anal only just as much as your boyfriend enjoys it.