Anonymous: Tumblr just recommended your blog to me and TBH I’m digging it. I’m not in a relationship right now but damn thinking about it is turning me on. I don’t know if I could do it though, I’ve never had anything bigger than a finger in my ass.

Welcome to the anal only lifestyle (even if it’s just a fantasy or something you’re considering at this point)! Our Anal Only April challenge is going on right now, and it’s a perfect opportunity to explore it on your own terms. Even if you don’t have much experience with anal, that’s no reason not to try it if you’re turned on and intrigued by anal and the idea of going anal only.

Depending on whether you want to try it with or without clitoral stimulation, you can either start to masturbate anally only without your pussy or clit, or just without anything in your pussy. Make sure to include and focus on having something in your ass every time you masturbate, whatever you choose.

Start small, with just a finger. Lubricate it and massage around and across the outside of your asshole to begin with. Go slowly and gently, and as you feel your ass starting to relax and open up to your finger, slip it inside. Get into a routine of fingering yourself, and try different angles and depths to see what feels best. If something feels really good, try to focus on doing that.

Over time, one finger will be comfortable and easy for you. When you feel it is, try a second finger. Then, work up to a third. When you can easily and regularly use three or more fingers, you’re probably ready to buy a plug and/or a dildo to start using and maintaining both passive anal stimulation as well as advancing to more active anal masturbation with toys.

Anonymous: I’ve rarely done anal and never done anal only before but Anal Only April was too tempting to pass up, especially since the first was Easter. I brought it up to my husband ahead of time but I bought a bunny tail plug and after Easter festivities were over and the kids went to bed I surprised him with a Playboy Bunny outfit. We’re planning on the whole month but for tonight I’m happy I’m going to bed wet and with a load of cum in my plugged ass.

Sounds like a sexy way to kick off a fun challenge! Keep us updated on how it goes.

Anonymous: When I first tried sex my bf couldn’t fit into my pussy without it hurting a lot, so we didn’t really get anywhere until I told him to try my ass and that was a lot easier and what we ended up doing. We tried my pussy again a few times but it never worked so anal is what we stayed with, and all I’ve done since. So I guess I’ve always been anal only, but I didn’t know it was a thing people chose to do until I found your blog. That’s pretty cool, I think I’m going to call myself anal only now too.

That’s great, glad you were able to discover that you’re far from alone in such a scenario and that it’s actually a really positive and sought-after way to be for a lot of people. Vaginal sex just isn’t very good anyway, so you aren’t missing anything at all if you’re already anal only.

Anonymous: I admit I was really skeptical when my husband wanted us to try anal only April. I like anal and we do it a few times a month normally but I thought of him wanting to not use my pussy as a sort of rejection. He seemed eager though, and he said it was just a fun challenge and he loved my ass so much, so he convinced me to try, but thought it would be challenging and that I’d miss my pussy. Well, I can tell you, I LOVE it and we’re just a week in. I’m so horny and feel so sexy and just want more!

A lot of people reject the idea of being anal only without even trying it for themselves and seeing what it’s really all about. That’s what challenge months like Anal Only April and No Pussy November are all about: giving people the collective opportunity and inspiring them to try it without an up front long term commitment beyond the month. Because the reality is that many people, like yourself, realize it actually is something really fantastic for them and something they enjoy a lot, and maybe even something they want to continue doing.

Enjoy the rest of the month (and maybe more)!

slutty-sissy-slave-jessica: How deep can you go anal without harming anything? Considering you train depth probably. But there is certainly a limitation to it. And it’s hard to just hear on your body if you go deeper I guess.

The deeper you go, the more bends/valves there are to contend with, and you generally need thinner and highly flexible toys to safely explore deep anal. But people motivated to do so can go quite deep safely, certainly several feet or more. It requires deeper cleaning, lots of lube, soft and flexible toys, and slow and careful experimentation. Listening to your body is still very much involved.

If you aren’t familiar with LegalPorno, they produce a lot of high quality anal porn content and also have a “0% pussy” category of scenes which keep things strictly anal only, but these can be intermittent and they certainly aren’t exclusively producing anal only content at this time. LegalPorno itself is a distribution platform for several different studios run by different people, and many of these studios occasionally produce anal only content.

A member on the LegalPorno forums created a poll to gauge interest in the idea of the creation of another studio which only produces strictly anal only scenes, with all the variation that comes with anal, but with no vaginal ever in any scene they create. This would not force any other studio on LP to change their approach nor would it cause issues with fans who like the output of the existing studios, it would be something new, targeted towards those who want strictly anal porn.

Of course, this is just a hypothetical and unofficial idea at this point, conceived and suggested by a member, but if you think it’s a good idea and would like to show your support to it, stop by the LegalPorno forums and vote in the poll.

https://www.legalporno.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=96&t=17868

Anonymous: Just a reminder that anal only sex is not birth control. You can still get pregnant from anal sex, although it is rarer. Have a nice day! (:

You can’t get pregnant from anal sex, though there is the possibility of semen coming out after and running down into the vagina. Even this is rare enough to barely be a concern for many people, but with a little care after to avoid this happening, many people do in fact find it to be an effective form of birth control for them. It isn’t 100% risk free, but neither is anything else. Everyone will need to decide on their own what forms of birth control they want to use, and if they want to combine others with anal.

The original version of this post on Tumblr received the following response.

somethingobscene: Health professional here: I’ve never heard of pregnancy with anal sex, but in the rare case of recrovaginal fistula, I’d have to assume it’s possible.

Anonymous: Hello I’m a mature lady of 45 who divorced last year after 17 years of marriage and 2 children. There is now a new man in my life who has introduced me to anal sex. He prefers it and, to be honest, so do I. We have talked about the possibility of me becoming anal-only, and he has stressed to me the importance that I should no longer expect to associate pleasure with my vagina. I now have fantasies about my vagina being permanently closed. Is this the right thing to do?

Firstly, congratulations on discovering anal sex and the fact that you prefer it. I highly encourage working towards going fully anal only, which it sounds like you will probably be doing anyway based on the rest of your message.

Surgical closing of the vagina is a fairly extreme thing, and while some may oppose the idea because of the perception of overlap with Female Genital Mutilation, but when body modifications are done by adults with their full consent, I of course support one’s right to do so. In practice, however, there are some practical considerations.

When done via infibulation, everything remains intact internally but the labia are sealed together surgically, leaving just a small gap for menses and urine. The gap needs to be large enough to allow for proper flow and cleaning, or else medical issues can result. It’s not something I’m informed enough about to provide serious advice about, and I would highly suggest consulting with doctors before seriously considering it (and would also note that due to the FGM association, many doctors probably would refuse to perform such a surgery).

Vaginal obliteration is another more extreme surgical option which involves removing the entire vaginal canal up to about 1 inch depth and sewing it shut, so it remains looking intact externally but there is no actual usable vaginal hole remaining. This may be done in conjunction with a hysterectomy, or a small hole may be left at the back of the vagina if the uterus remains. This surgery is generally performed for older women who have a medical condition requiring it, and I imagine you may again have difficulty finding a doctor to perform it as a nonessential body modification.

Chastity piercings and belts, as well as other minor short term chastity options like tape, glue and clamps, are more realistic and less extreme approaches for more people, and may be something to consider at least for the time being to cater to your fantasy but without surgery and the risks involved there.

The vast majority of people who are anal only don’t involve any sort of body modification in the process, they simply stop using their vagina for sex. Some do fantasize about more (and a small number act on those fantasies) but it remains fantasy for the majority. Anal sex and enjoying it to the exclusion of vaginal sex is the key part of being anal only.

Whatever you end up doing, enjoy your exploration of anal sex and the anal only lifestyle.

Anonymous: I wore my butt plug to class for the first time today. Sitting there with it pushing against the seat while I tried to remain as attentive as possible made me sooo wet. I can’t wait to do it again. I’m thinking about wearing it in the shower and overnight tonight so I wake up a horny, dripping mess. Are there any problems with doing that? I’m fairly new to butt plugs.

Isn’t it so much fun to wear in public and feel your ass full and sensitive and occupying your attention?

There’s no problem with wearing a butt plug long term or overnight. If it starts to get really uncomfortable, you might take it out, but otherwise go for it. Sometimes, some people can’t go all the way overnight with one immediately and it can take a little practice, but try it and see how it goes!

PornHub user thiskittenbites opens up to the camera about being anal only and how much she loves it. A very enjoyable watch.

Note: while the video has no nudity and is in that sense SFW, it is hosted on PornHub, which is very much NSFW and has explicit pornography and images elsewhere on the page.

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