Anonymous: my boyfriend wasn’t too sure about me being anal only until he realized he could raw me whenever. now he’s obsessed with watching his cum leak out of me.

A lot of people are skeptical about the idea of anal only for a variety of reasons until they actually try it and see the benefits for themselves. And being able to cum inside every time is one of many great advantages of being anal only.

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alwaysanalblog: It is surprising how sceptical people can be about anal only. Almost as if they are looking for reasons not to. But there are so many reasons why people should, so many positive benefits, that it is hard to see why anyone would choose vaginal sex. Times change and as people discover more about something they move on -it’s called progress.

Anonymous: I did it! I made it all the way through anal only april! It was hard at first but this past week I kind of stopped missing my pussy so much and I feel like I really found the appeal of being just anal only. I don’t know for how long, but I’m going to keep going and see how things go from here. There’s a part of me that really craves staying anal only now that I’m a month into it, but I don’t think I’m to the point of fully committing to that yet. We’ll see!

Congratulations, and well done!

Everyone has a different way of becoming anal only, some knowing pretty quickly that it’s what they want and starting to identify as AO indefinitely, while others ease into it without a long term commitment, but over time find it’s how they want to stay. Do what makes you comfortable and if after a few more months of anal only you find yourself still enjoying it and having fun and wanting more, then keep doing it.

Anonymous: There are so many of them, but If you could name them, which are the 5 best butt plugs to wear all day?

Different plug shapes and sizes are ideal for different people, and different people have different abilities and needs, so making a “5 best” list for plugs that applies to everyone isn’t really possible. People can’t even agree on the best material for long term wear! Some prefer steel, some glass, some silicone. Some want something small and comfortable, others want something that still pushes their limits and stretches/trains their ass somewhat while they wear it.

I would suggest looking at the steel Njoy Pure plugs, silicone Tantus Ryder and A-Bomb (for a larger option), silicone Implicit Creations Core Plug, and some of the smaller Egg Plugs from Square Peg Toys.

Anal Only April 2018 is over! Congratulations to all those who participated! Hopefully you had a wonderful time—and if you really enjoyed yourself, why not consider keeping the anal only streak going and not returning to vaginal sex? Let us know your experiences, what you plan on doing going forward, and any questions you might have. If you didn’t have a chance to participate in Anal Only April, consider doing your own month long anal only challenge anyway—or if you want to participate in a big group event, No Pussy November will be coming up later in the year.

Thanks to your blog I had the confidence to get my fiancé to try anal sex. It took time but I never gave up seeing as it’s really no big deal now. For ages she turned me down, but I was patient and waited and didn’t push her too hard. I started by saying “if you don’t want anal sex then at least let me touch you back there” then things progressed to me licking her ass hole which she  really liked. After that she was more open to the idea saying “maybe” or “we’ll see”. Fast forward a few months and she finally gave it a try. Since then we’ve done it more and more often. She say’s that after getting used to the difference that it wasn’t anything like what she had been told or imagined and that at times it could feel pretty good! Nowhere near ready for anal only yet but hope to in the future.

Congratulations! Glad to hear my blog helped you approach her about it and that you were able to convince her to try. Keep it up, keep the focus on her pleasure and enjoyment of it, and she’ll continue wanting it more and more. Good luck and enjoy!

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Thanks for this. Already anal and vaginal are equal in her eyes. That’s a huge improvement in such a short time. It’s funny how after so long its like the damn just breaks. I try to steer things towards anal as often as I can but still without coming across as pushy. And yes, as always the focus is on her pleasure as I love seeing her cum during anal. There’s no better feeling than seeing that happen for her.

I wasn’t expecting a personal response as I know you must get hundreds of submissions so I was really excited. Don’t ever stop this blog as you are doing so much good giving top advice and encouragement, given people a real chance of having a happier and better sex life. I know its not *the* most important thing in life but it counts for a lot.

Great to hear, and I’m sure that as you continue towards it increasingly, anal will become the dominant and preferred source of pleasure for her. It can be hard to adjust to that idea at first, especially with a fast transition, but it often happens naturally over a bit more time. Keep it positive and keep encouraging her and helping her see that preference in a positive light.

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alwaysanalblog: It sounds as though he took the proper approach with his fiancé. Never push. Trying out anal should be something someone is willing to try, because they want to discover more about themselves and because they value pleasuring their partner. Moving forward slowly can be understandably frustrating for the eager partner but the results will be worth it in the long run. I believe if he carries on in the way he has begun then he could well be on his way to a happy and fulfilling anal only relationship.

I believe that as long as he keeps the focus on anal sex, and treats his woman well then he will be home and dry. @analonlylifestyle points out that it can take time to adjust, although this is usually more psychological than physical. Already her body will be responding positively to the enhanced stimulation she attains through anal sex. Her mind with it’s lifetime of assumptions and beliefs is a more delicate matter and great care should always be taken to help her through this time as she rebuilds her core ideals and self identity. It is an amazing time for her, and after she will cherish the patient and strong man who took a gentle lead in guiding her.

I sincerely wish them all the best.

Anonymous: Congrats to the anon lady yesterday. Anal every day is amazing and her husband so damn lucky!!! And I’ll bet that he really appreciates her efforts not to touch her pussy. Well done to her for making him so happy and learning for herself there is a much better way to have sex!!!

Indeed! It’s always wonderful to hear people’s anal only success stories, isn’t it?

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alwaysanalblog: A great story. I think we need as many people as possible to come forward and show that there is a better way to have sex. Bonus points for not touching the pussy! It’s hard at first I know, but well worth it in the end. And it also shows how committed the women is, which as anon points out is very much appreciated.