Anonymous: “It feels better. Anal sex has the potential to be a lot more pleasurable than vaginal, and doing it very regularly or replacing vaginal…” How would you know what could feel good or better for women or not? I just think that you’re lost in your fantasies and trying to find excuses to put it in everyone’s mind lol grow up pls, vaginal is natural. anal on female ppl are made out of porn industry aka male fantasies. ofc there might be females enjoying it but don’t generalize.

I know what feels better from experience, from partners, and from a lot of other women that I’ve talked about the subject with. Does it universally apply to everyone? Of course not, nothing does. But in my experience, done right, pretty much everyone can really enjoy anal, and anal pleasure is often better and/or more intense than vaginal.

This blog is a mix of fantasy scenarios and real-world experiences and advice. Many of the photo captions are fictional scenarios or intended to fuel fantasies for men and women both. Some are based on real scenarios. But the conversation, shared stories, and advice are real people talking about real life.

Women practicing or enjoying anal has nothing to do with porn industry fantasies, anal sex has been practiced for many thousands of years.

If you don’t enjoy anal or aren’t interested in the anal only lifestyle, this might not be the blog for you. It’s literally what the blog is for, for me to advocate my preference for anal sex and anal only, and for people who share that interest or are curious about it themselves to learn more or be inspired to try it for themselves. No one is pushing anything on anyone, people are free to follow this blog or not, to fantasize about it or not, to try it for themselves or not.

The original version of this post on Tumblr received the following responses.

mushroomanjc: Lol op is a fuckin retard

ausducatiguy: Seems like you have a genuine troll on your hands. I’ve had at least one partner who couldn’t cum any other way.

feral-baby: I was finally able to get on top of him and fuck him hard with my ass. He let me come twice and I’m still shaking. His rules as far as my clit go are only he can touch it, unless he orders me to edge. I’m still only allowed to come anally and only with his permission. I’ve never been so turned on for so many days straight. And I really love that every load goes right into me, no waste at all ☺️

feral-baby: We’ve finally decided I’m going to be anal only. For now, the only time my clit is allowed to be touched is when he’s helping me relax while getting his dick in my ass. As soon as I’m a little more loose there will be absolutely no touching my clit or my pussy. But that shouldn’t take long since I’ll be wearing my plug a lot more often and working up to wearing it full time and possibly even sizing up. This also means the only way I can orgasm is through anal. But I’m sure he’ll toy with me and refuse to let me come if I’m about to.

He’ll be leaving soon for 2 weeks and I have a feeling he’s going to plan something extra mean. I’m really looking forward to it.

thisistemporary: why bother fucking if you’re not fucking her ass?

Anonymous: As a porn actress and industry insider, let me tell you that we are actually ACTORS. Anal does NOT feel good for us women. It just gets better with lube and the proper technique so we are able to perform it in a way that it looks amazing. Get real and aknowledge our skills and effort to entertain your FANTASIES.

I’m sorry to hear that you don’t personally enjoy anal sex, but that does not mean that your experience is typical or applies to everyone. Making blanket statements like this ignores the reality that there are many, many women out there who enjoy or prefer anal sex and who choose to do it because they like how it feels and it’s what they want.

The original version of this post on Tumblr received the following responses.

cholzin: Yes depends on the Woman.

gblacky: My wife was adamantly against anal for a few years of our marriage. But, over a little time, and after discussing it and starting small, she really got into it. Starting with rubbing her asshole, then one finger, then a small plug, to now she almost demands it in her ass. Not anal only, but she’s expressed the idea being extremely hot. Anal is our “default”. She cums so hard from it, and the look on her face shows how much she loves it.

bigbuttboy4lyfe: Sounds like she probably just hasn’t had it done right. I personally love anal and I’m pretty much anal only with occasional exceptions. I don’t know how anyone can NOT love it! The best part is how anal just feels better and better to receive over time with more experience too!

padeyepete: Some women love giving blowjobs even though they receive no physical pleasure. Men receive no physical pleasure from cunnilingus. They enjoy bringing their partner extreme pleasure. It’s a mental state.

pervertedprincesspetals: This is such a lie. Anal is fucking amazing.

wowindescribable: My girl is absolutely crazy for anal. Anytime, anywhere, and most of my previous girlfriends (and wives!) loved loved loved it too. This person does not speak for ‘women’.

alwaysanalblog: Ah, the porn actress who hides behind anonymity. There are many understandable reasons for wanting to remain anonymous about this subject, but from a ‘insider’ who is not ashamed to take a cock in the ass for money?!

There is a big difference between anal sex for cash with someone you may not be attracted to, and anal as part of a loving and healthy relationship with real emotions. Perhaps she should try that, because it apparently works for many women.

Anonymous: I lost my anal virginity first and I regret ever straying. But after quite a few years mistakenly having vaginal sex, my husband has decided I’ll be strictly anal from now on. I couldn’t be more excited. But I’m really nervous I’ll become weak and touch my clit. He tends to go away for work once in awhile and we can’t afford a chastity belt. Would you happen to have any suggestions for ways he can ensure I won’t touch even while he’s gone? Your blog is very inspirational btw 🙂

I think a healthy approach is to recognize that habits can be hard to break and people slip up from time to time, and that’s a normal part of the process of reaching your goals and changing your habits. Do your best, recognize if you’re slipping towards an old habit. If you catch yourself partway through touching your clit, stop yourself. If you do end up touching your clit or using it to orgasm, own up to it, think about whether it was worth it, and dive back in to not using it going forward, trying to last longer without it the next time. If you and your husband have the sort of dynamic this would be appropriate for, you can come up with punishments that you feel are appropriate for touching your clit.

That said, there are things you can do to help. Focus on anal stimulation instead. Wear a butt plug often, use your fingers and a dildo to masturbate anally, and any time you feel the urge to touch your clit, play with your ass instead. If you get that urge while playing with your ass, play harder. Fuck a toy deeper or go to a bigger size, etc., and use it to motivate you to chase anal pleasure instead.

You can also experiment with numbing cream/gel like Orajel if you really find it hard to resist. A small amount applied to your clit will numb it for an hour or so.

Congratulations on getting back into the anal only lifestyle, it sounds like it’s exactly the right thing for the both of you!

The original poster responded:

Thank you for replying! He got a really evil smirk on his face after reading the orajel suggestion haha

alwaysanalblog: “Anal makes me feel closer to him, therefore I enjoy it more. It makes me feel like it’s the closest we could ever possibly be no matter how tight he is holding me. It’s something I can’t explain and that right there makes anal worth it because of the intimacy factor.” –Jackie, 34

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Anonymous: Female follower here, I’ve always loved butt stuff but was afraid of actually trying anal because attempts with a previous partner didn’t go well. I finally managed it about a week and a half ago for the first time and since then have 3 more times. It feels so amazing and I find myself craving it and thinking about it more than I ever have with vaginal. Thank you for helping me build up some of the courage I needed to open this amazing door for myself and my partner!

Congratulations! Now that you’ve gotten past that bad experience and discovered how good it really is and how much better it is than vaginal, it will just continue getting better and better with experience and you’ll find yourself wanting it more and more. Have fun with it!

The original version of this post on Tumblr received the following response.

alwaysanalblog: Makes you think about all those missing out on the best sex of their lives all because of one ill prepared attempt. Now she’s joined the swelling ranks who’ve found the better alternative to vaginal. And as she’s discovered, anal is very addictive!

alwaysanalblog: Most people follow the rules. Most people do what is expected of them. Social norms and a lifetime of conditioning suppress individual thought. It is a well known psychological principle that human beings will deny that they like or enjoy something if they hear everyone around them saying the same thing.

Despite all of the above I believe we are at a pivotal time in our sexual culture. The revolution of the 60′s is now far behind us, and instead we are about to embark on one that will over shadow that.

Like in Hans Christian Andersen’s story “The Emperor’s New Clothes” it has become almost impossible now to deny the reality that anal sex is preferable for both men and women, and vaginal sex retired for recreational purposes.

Bizarrely we have been told one untruth after another about the facts of anal sex, only for each to be demolished in turn.

More and more people are learning for themselves the advantages that anal sex has for orgasm, intimacy and birth control.

Get the facts. Try for yourself. Spread the word. Enjoy a happier sex life.

And above all, go anal only.

Anonymous: You’re right on the money and as usual telling it like it is — vaginal is an old habit and one that we guys need to help girls to break. And as you rightly point out and they eventually realize, anal is better for them (and us!) in every way. Too often girls get the wrong idea that we only do it for ourselves but we *WANT* them to have something better and unlock all that potential. You think we’re misunderstood? Keep up the great work.

Vaginal is something that everyone would benefit from moving past—there are lots of men who remain vaginal-centric as well and don’t give anal the chance it deserves and so don’t discover how much better anal is, or can be when done right with a partner who wants and enjoys it just as much.

Reframing it as a mutual positive for everyone, enjoyable by everyone, is important. It shouldn’t be pushed onto anyone—it should be done because it is good, feels good, and benefits everyone.