Message: Step By Step Guide to Getting Partner Into Anal
Anonymous: Can you give me a step by step guide to help get my partner into anal. We have all the toys and I’ve tried getting her to wear them but she’s very vanilla
There’s no one-size-fits-all answer.
In general, start small and focus on her pleasure and enjoyment of it, without rushing things. Try rimming her, and massaging her anus externally with a lubricated finger. If she enjoys these things, incorporate them into your regular and frequent routine together. Over time, move on to fingering her ass too, both on its own and during other stimulation she enjoys. Work up slowly from there, with fingers and the toys you’ve gotten, until she can comfortably fit something penis-sized, and enjoys the sensation.
Always keep communicating, express to her how much you love her ass and how sexy it is and how much you like playing with it and pleasuring it and how you want to focus on her enjoying it too, and if you stick with what she enjoys and keep gradually expanding that, I’m sure you’ll be able to get to where she’s eager to not only keep doing it, she’ll probably want to have anal sex with you as well.
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