Message: How Deep?
Anonymous: How Deep?? I watch videos with super long dildos that don’t seem to have any problem getting past the colon. When my wife pegs me, I can only take 6″ before it hurts to much to go deeper. Can you injure yourself going deeper? She can take all of me about 7″ but its uncomfortable when all the way in. I can take a large butt plug so girth is not an issue. What advice do you have for us. We both want to have deeper anal play. We LOVE your blog!! You have inspired us to go AO and we love it.
For the majority of people, anal sex takes place within the rectum. To go deeper than the rectum requires going past a bend into the sigmoid colon. Trying to push something straight or rigid past that point will result in pain and could cause injury if not properly prepared for it.
To do deeper play, use a long and flexible dildo. The 18″ double-ended dildos are a good option for this. It shouldn’t be terribly thick to begin with. Slide it in as deep as it comfortably will go, and then try adjusting its angle and rotating it gently while applying pressure—not enough for it to hurt, but enough to feel the pressure. Eventually you should feel it pop through the bend. With practice, you can do this to straighten out that bend temporarily through warming up with a smaller and more flexible dildo and then work up to something bigger and/or more stiff.
As with any new anal frontier, go slow, take your time, listen to your body, avoid anything that hurts significantly, and stop and take a break for a day or two if you experience any signs of injury.
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