alwaysanalblog: “The anus is part of both the male and female sexual system. The external anal sphincter is one of the most sensitive parts of the human body, with one of the densest concentrations of nerve endings.”

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Anonymous: It’s weird how some feminists claim that anal is some sort of horrible experience for women, while those same people defend gay rights and gay marriage. Why would anal be perfectly fine and healthy or even romantic when it’s between men, and some terrible thing when it involves a woman? Anal seems even more logical to me for straight women since women are biologically “designed” to take pleasure from penetration, much more so than men.

There are a lot of myths surrounding anal sex out there which many people still believe, regardless of their political views, gender, or sexuality, so if someone believes anal is a painful or degrading experience, it’s not surprising they would object to it in a variety of ways. There are also many who think that men can enjoy it while women can’t because men have a prostate, when in reality it can be enjoyed equally by men and women both. Most negative views of anal come from those who either haven’t tried it themselves or are looking through the lens of only negative experiences with inexperienced partners.

My goal is to show that anal is a universally good thing and that everyone can enjoy its superior pleasures, but they have to want to. It shouldn’t be forced onto anyone, or be some sort of unwanted obligation.

alwaysanalblog:

“A lot of tension gets stored in the ass—physically and energetically.By opening up the area, we are forcing ourselves to relax and to let go deep within ourselves. Gently prying, relaxing and penetration can be just what we need to access the inaccessible.You are practicing the art of letting go.Being penetrated, in an area as sensitive as the ass, incrementally opens you. On all levels of your being. It teaches you how to relax and surrender. And fall into the unknown.

Anal play can be practiced in men and women. Both sexes can have anally-induced orgasms.

Some women climax even harder through anal sex than through vaginal.

Very few people ever talk about why: it’s cathartic and transformative.”

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alwaysanalblog: “But then something happened in my early thirties. Perhaps it was the confidence that came with age and sexual experience, but I found myself having anal sex with someone I was dating and loving it. Really loving it.”

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fuckaliciousnes: ‪Soooooi actually like ass to mouth. A lot. Do others like doing it too? Or is it just a fantasy for most people?‬

The original version of this post on Tumblr received the following responses.

naughtyballerina1821: I love it?

muybridge-likes-rope: Absolute favorite. With the occasional deep throat….. bliss

Anonymous: I wanted to know what you thought of using anal sex for birth control? I’ve tried several different birth control products. They all seem to have such negative side effects. My fiance and I have anal sex a couple times a week. We normally start with vaginal sex and finish anal. Of course, I know that we can only have anal sex if it was our method for birth control. Lately we have been trying to just do anal. It’s been better than I thought it would be. Do you have any suggestions for us

It’s a highly effective approach for many people, though not 100% effective. Some care does need to be taken to avoid semen leaking out into your vagina after sex, but otherwise it works quite well for many, and there are plenty of people who have discovered the benefits of going anal only not only for birth control but for pleasure, intimacy and more as well.

I’d suggest sticking with anal only for a few months and after you’ve done so successfully and think that it’s something you can do indefinitely, stop your other birth control routines and commit to anal only permanently at that point.

Hi, it’s the girl you tagged 20180705 again. Nearly one month after my latest ask, I thought it was time to give you some feedback. We’re still anal only, my boyfriend is very happy, and he’s getting me more involved into the lifestyle: he gifted me some backless panties and a jewel butt plug to wear, and sometimes he talks about us getting tattoos. Our sex life really changed: before it was mostly routine with mediocre length, now it’s much more frequent and either longer or much shorter.

Actually, he does a lot of quickies now, which he never did before: mostly before we have to go outside or before friends come over, he directly fucks my ass with both of us barely undressed and little foreplay, then plugs me. It doesn’t affect the frequency of longer sessions, so I don’t mind and it actually turns me on. In fact, my view on sex has changed completely: before, it was just something that happened once in a while, and I otherwise didn’t think about it all that much.

Now, I’m sort of obsessed with it. Wearing very often the butt plug and backless panties play a role, of course, but sex is always on my mind anyway. It probably changes how I behave and dress: at work or with friends, I get a lot of “you’re very sexy today” that I didn’t get before. I guess it’s all related to the fact I just can’t cum anally yet: at every intercourse, I feel I’m very very close, but it just never happens. The strangest thing is, I’m not frustrated any more, I’m sort of hooked.

It’s like I’m flooded with hormones that make me horny, and I became addicted to the sensation itself. It’s weird and I don’t know if I make myself clear. I thought a lot about what you said, that there’s nothing wrong with submission so long as it’s my choice, and that acting like my boyfriend wants me to act “retrains” my brain and what I enjoy, to eventually cause pleasure and a refocus on other areas.

You’re basically one of the only persons I talk to about this, since I wanted my boyfriend to be 100% comfortable with it and think I was 100% OK with being anal only, without any doubt. My gay friend talked about what I said to him to his husband, who apparently talked about it to my boyfriend: we spent an evening at their place, and to my surprise the subject naturally came during conversation, and was talked about all evening in embarrassing details.

I was sort of mortified (and my friend too, since we’re both the “receivers”), but my boyfriend seemed to really love openly talking about it, and it was sort of fun and instructive. I admit it also turned me on to some extent.

I guess my main problem is the sensation of losing control, and not knowing where this is all heading. I don’t know if I can keep up with not orgasming at all, but I really dislike the idea of using clitoris stimulation in his presence, and I don’t want to come in secret.

Thanks for the update! It sounds like you’ve really settled into the anal only lifestyle very well as well as successfully incorporated clitoral and orgasm denial into your personal routine.

While it can certainly be a challenge at first for most people to start orgasm denial, because orgasms are a very powerful addiction, it’s not at all uncommon for people to discover with time just how much they enjoy an ongoing state of arousal and its associated pleasures far more than the short burst of pleasure from an orgasm.

That said, there’s nothing wrong with orgasms either for those who enjoy and want them, and with more time you may discover the ability to orgasm from anal as well.

Anonymous: do you have any tips for somebody who wants to try anal for the first time (by themself)? I’ve been curious about it but have been too nervous to find some info about it ;;

I do! That advice, in short summary form, is: start small, go slow, use lube, and practice frequently.

Start by just massaging the outside of your asshole with a lubricated finger, running it in circles around and across. As you start to relax and get into how it feels, slide a finger inside. If something hurts, go back a step and try again in a few minutes, repeating as needed until you can do it without it hurting. Once one finger feels great and you’re ready to move in, try adding a second finger. Keep repeating this process of slow increases in size up to 3 or 4 fingers, then get a butt plug and dildo or two to try with too. Always use lube.

Simply doing this on occasion, however, won’t really help in the long term. If after the first time or two you enjoy how it feels and want more, I’d suggest making it a regular part of your masturbation routine, which both helps really start to unlock the pleasure of anal, and helps with anal training so you can advance to bigger and better things going forward.

tenderlyfoulphantom: In the experience of the woman on this blog, how long did it take to learn how to climax from a cock in the ass?

I’ll defer to the individual women of the AO community to share their own experiences, but in summary: everyone’s different, and some orgasm the first time they have anal sex while others never do and need additional stimulation to reach orgasm in combination with anal, and everywhere in between.

amaizegman: For almost twenty years I have been with women who love anal sex, but it was only very recent that I found a woman who was anal only. And then another. Were they always around but just didn’t want to admit it, has something changed that made women more aware of anal pleasure?

There have always been people who preferred anal sex, and people who only did anal, however people are a lot more open about it, and people in general have become a lot more exposed to anal sex and pleasure as well as to the anal only lifestyle, so interest and numbers have spiked significantly in recent years. The more people try it for themselves and then talk about it with others, the more it will continue to grow, because there’s nothing like anal sex and going anal only lets you focus on the best all the time.