Anal is the new pussy
“…the entire region is interconnected by genitospinal nerves which trigger orgasm. One of them, the pelvic nerve, transmits signals from the rectum in both sexes. Anecdotal evidence show that women have have reported earth-shattering orgasms from anal sex.”
Anonymous: I agree. Anal is the ultimate sexual paradox. It’s so intimate, sensual, erotic, primal and as you said it ‘dirty’ in a good way. There’s also the element of pain and pleasure singergistically mingling and also, trust and secrecy. It’s beautiful.
princesswetkitty: don’t you just love when people talk passionately about having a dick shoved up their ass? ❤️
analarousal: Why WOULDNT you want to be fucked in the ass?
Anonymous: Hi, I was wondering if you had any recommendations for AO blogs that aren’t D/s oriented? While I totally respect everyone’s right to do whatever they want in their relationships as long as everyone’s consenting, all that stuff is a big turn off for me. Like what you said in a recent post, AO doesn’t HAVE to be about submission and women being called sluts and degraded, but I have such a hard time finding blogs that don’t include that aspect. Any recommendations?
I myself try to have a balanced mix of content, some of which is a bit more D/s oriented, and some not. Other blogs often do lean a bit more in that direction, partly just because while there’s absolutely no inherent need for the anal only lifestyle to be tied to dominance or submission, it does pair well and appeals to a lot of people who already have that interest.
It’s something that would be nice to see more of, blogs that are still strictly anal only but with captions focused on people who have gone anal only strictly out of preference and pleasure. I’d suggest starting one yourself if you can’t find more that already exist.
You can also check out our forum, which, like this blog is more oriented around real people following the lifestyle and their real experiences rather than fantasy.
Shaggin’ her ass in Chicago again,
I thought a lot about what you said about my wifes vagina having served its intended purpose and there being no need to use it again. For some reason I never thought about it from that perspective. The thought that her body may have instinctively known this was one of those mind blowing moments. That something that society looks at as unnatural is so natural that it was what her body craved.
Although we’ve never talked about any formal commitment to anal only, we have talked about how we both prefer anal sex to vaginal. This got me wondering if she’d ever desire vaginal sex again. So I told her what you said and asked her what she thought. She was almost taken aback at the thought. She totally agreed with everything you said. She even said she thought her body was made for anal sex and that her vagina had served its purpose. She affirmed she had no desire to ever have vaginal sex again.
Thank you again for all you do to educate others about anal sex.
That’s wonderful that you’re both so in tune on this and have now both figured out that you’re ready to move past vaginal for good to enjoy anal only going forward. You’ve got a lifetime to continue exploring and enjoying the benefits and nuances of the anal only lifestyle together.
Anonymous: My wife and I have been moving more into the AO territory. (We both give and receive. ?) However, occasionally we’ve noticed that our diets (and daily activities?) can affect the amount of pleasure as well as “unwanted visitors”. What are some good habits to get into food or otherwise, that you’ve noticed help with the AO lifestyle? How much prep goes into each time?
A generally balanced diet that’s relatively low fat and relatively high fiber, along with a good exercise routine, can really help establish a natural baseline for cleanliness. From there, light douching/rectal flushing with warm water as needed. Not much cleaning effort should be generally needed once you establish a good routine.
Anonymous: My girlfriend and me argue. I say anal sex is natural and she says it isn’t. Nothing new there I guess. Reading all the posts here allows me to dream of a better life and reminds me that not all women are the same.
The natural/unnatural debate can take place even between seasoned anal/anal only enthusiasts, so that’s less of an issue. I presume that she uses this argument to justify not wanting to do it, however. What is the true root of that for her? Has she tried it and not enjoyed it? Is she afraid of pain? Cleanliness? Injury? When you dig down and find the real root of the issue, you can usually find a way to work around it together.
Q: We have a great sex life and we’re totally in love! He doesn’t seem to have much of an interest in my vagina — and my vagina, in my mind, is kinda the main thing that makes me a female sexual being. He likes my breasts and loves my butt, but he (literally) never goes down on me and I get the feeling that he only fingers me because he knows I like it, not because he does. He also prefers anal sex to vaginal sex.
A: As a firm believer in the spectrum of human experience, I don’t believe that your boyfriend’s lack of interest in your vagina “makes him” gay. He can definitely identify as straight and just honestly not like your vagina that much. Or he can be attracted to you, but just not like that kind of sex.
Sounds like a normal male to me.
alwaysanalblog: “Anal sex gets a bad reputation for a few different reasons. The main reason is that anal sex is often portrayed in porn as a power-dynamic with the woman being submissive to the man’s desires.
There is so much “It hurts,” “It’s gross,” “You’re a slut,” or “I only do it to please my man” dialogue. Unfortunately, anal sex isn’t something that women openly admit to trying, never mind openly admit to enjoying.
Well, you have to forget all of that. A one-sided representation of anal sex has made its way into society and stuck. There are so many benefits of anal sex – including the possibility of intense pleasure. It is also a great way to target your G-spot (in certain positions like doggy style). The power-dynamic is not necessarily a submissive one (although if you enjoy being submissive, this can work for you). The woman is often in control. And, while you might have been told that anal sex is anti-feminist, there is nothing more feminist than taking control of your own pleasure.”
Anonymous: I recently started adding anal into my masturbation play as a means of having stronger orgasms. While I don’t know if I could ever go anal only, I’ve discovered that the right combination of edging and denial combined with generous anal play gives me just what I need for a harder, stronger, longer clitoral orgasm overall! Thanks to this blog for all the ideas and support!
Congratulations on discovering that anal is the ultimate orgasm multiplier! It’s a big part of what draws so many people to anal.
And just for what it’s worth, clitoral stimulation doesn’t mean you can’t be anal only, if that’s part of what might hold you back from considering it. Plenty of anal only women include clitoral stimulation in the mix, they just replace vaginal penetration with anal and in many cases only masturbate when also including anal penetration.