justfor-daddy: So all my materials and everything came in today so daddy and I are moving my chastity up to tonight.

I figured the sooner the better even if it does cut another day out of my time left with my pussy. I’m ready to begin the process and waiting kills me!

I’m definitely going to make my pussy look perfect before we start tonight so I’ll take some pics and gifs. We’re scheduled at 9pm my time tonight so I have five hours, more like 3 once I get home from work. Talk about a weird day…thinking you have another 24 hours but then deciding to go into chastity a few hours after you get home?

But like I’ve said, I’m ready. I wouldn’t be anymore ready tomorrow. Part of me is scared of course, it’s a big change, but I am so ready to grow closer with daddy.

I just know I’ll feel a sense of loss once I start edging for daddy before chastity. It’s going to hit it’s the last time I’m going to play with my pussy without being locked up. On special occasions daddy may allow me to play with it again, but it will be for his pleasure of course and not mine. So tonight will be the last time I play with my pussy and cum.

I’m going to try to think moreso that daddy has let me play with my pussy the past few days, is letting me cum tonight, and I’ll be able to edge for him in the future. Not that I’m losing access to my pussy, or I’ll never feel a vaginal or clitoral orgasm again. I’m honestly a really lucky buttslut. Anal is still something I can enjoy and play with even if my training is mandatory, it’s still pleasure I can seek out on my own. Well, for now.

I was thinking on Monday I would rather just be locked up right then and there instead of having to wait, but damn, I’m glad I had some time with my pussy, just me touching it and cumming, not edging for daddy or anything. I would be lying if I said I’m not nervous about tonight. If I’m not going to have second thoughts as I lay with my legs spread, ready to climax for my final orgasm. But I’m going to have some really good memories, knowing that I had some of the strongest orgasms of my life the past couple of days. I’m moving on to a new chapter in my sex life.

I’ll post some pics of me testing the lighting in my room and some more rambles before my night begins I’m sure.

I might have to reread this entry before I enter chastity…right now I feel really confident and happy about it. But I’m sure right before 9 I’m going to be nervous as hell.

It’s been a great summer and now many months since I first came to you.

No, we are not anal only yet, but I can see it as possible one day. It could happen any day or be a few years off but I feel very positive about our chances.

But when I compare where we were to where we are now, I wouldn’t have believed the progress if you had asked me at the start of the year.

Sure I’d prefer not to be doing her pussy at all, but for all the anal we have now it’s a small price to pay, so the advice I’d continue to give all your followers here is to BE PATIENT. Give her time and space to find her own preferences and she will.

Sex continues to be fantastic and I believe she loves all the anal fun we have as much as I do. Like I said before I don’t make any demands so she’s much more willing and as a benefit always relaxed about it. I can’t stress how much difference that’s making to her enjoyment, comfort and how long or often we have sex.

She’s still hanging on to some vaginal out of habit I guess and I’m ok with that. I know everybody is different but this has worked for us. Some might be uncomfortable even with minimal vaginal but I think it’s important to keep in mind the long term goal.

I’ll continue to submit more in the future so you know where we are at.

Thank you for following up, that’s great to hear! Maybe during one of the upcoming anal only challenge months—No Pussy November or Anal Only April—you could see if she’d be willing to try exploring just anal for a month and see how she feels about vaginal after that. Many who try anal only for a month or two lose any hesitations they had about the idea before that and want to commit to it full time after.

Anonymous: It would be my dream to do only anal with my (soon to be) wife. We’ve been together 6 years and I feel like I’m done with vag sex. We do have anal and it’s perfect, but I’d be much happier with 100% anal and I know she could too. What I can’t get over is she enjoys it but even when I try suggesting a trial period (as you recommend) she says that people aren’t meant to do anal all the time. I’m stuck and out of ideas. What can I do or say to change her mind so she sees this as a good thing?

Talk with her more about it. Ask her why she thinks people aren’t meant to do anal all the time. Presumably she either gets sore afterwards due to the infrequency of the anal she receives, or she’s worried about various myths and misconceptions that spread fear of injury or long term damage from frequent anal sex.

If she gets sore, doing it more often will help with that, as will more warmup and butt plug wear before sex and on days you don’t do anal.

If she’s worried about damage or injury, that has more to do with not being warmed up enough or not using proper technique. Experienced people can have anal sex every day for all their life and never have any health issues as a result.

There are couples out there who have been anal only together for decades and there’s no issue. It’s very much possible, and I would argue people are meant to do anal all the time, because it’s so much more natural and pleasurable for everyone.

Feel free to follow up once you have more of an understanding of her hesitations to the idea.

Anonymous: I’m Shaggin Ass in Chicago. I didn’t put it in the post, as I didn’t want to gross people out. My wife and I had anal sex at about 9:30 in the evening and she went into labor about midnight. When my wife was in labor a few hours later, she pushed and my cum from the previous evening came squirting out of her ass. The nurse told her not to be embarrassed, it was normal and it was just some anal mucus. Little did she know. She didn’t notice my hard on either.

Even with it being your cum and not anal mucous, it’s nothing to be embarrassed about—making love and cumming in her ass before her pussy gets used for the last time for its natural function of giving birth seems an appropriate gesture before moving on in your new fully anal only life together, especially since I’m sure you didn’t have the energy to do it as much for a while after that.

euphoriasslove: I want to be anal only. I orgasm so much harder. But my significant other doesn’t enjoy anal as much as pussy. What do I do? Cheat on him?

I don’t and won’t advocate cheating. That’s not fair to anyone. If you’re unhappy in a relationship, respect him enough to be up front and end it before having sex with anyone else.

Before doing that, there are other things you can try. You could compromise and have all your own masturbation/play be strictly anal only and not use your pussy or clit for anything except with him.

You can talk with him and try to figure out why he thinks he likes pussy more. A lot of guys say they do, but it’s rooted in a societal concept that men are supposed to prefer pussy and think of it as a woman’s primary sex organ, rather than a true superiority over anal. If anal regularly requires waiting for cleaning or lots of warmup, some impatient men can find it less exciting than vaginal, because less preparation is needed there. Regularly being prepared for anal at a moment’s notice through regular plug wear or play can make anal and the anal only lifestyle more appealing to such men.

You can ask him if he’ll try going anal only with you for a month and give it a chance on its own merits rather than his preconceived notions about it.

Anonymous: Do you encourage pegging any of the sort

It’s not typically the focus of my blog, but everyone is welcome in the anal only lifestyle, and men can certainly enjoy receiving anal as well as women. If it’s something you enjoy, go for it!

bublgum-bitch: umm i want my pussy to be ignored and to be only fucked in the ass and kept on edge without cumming at all times ????

Anonymous: The anal only lifestyle very much interests me, as a man far more attracted to women’s asses than their pussies. I simply see no need for the pussy to be the primary hole when anal is better for both partners, almost always. My question is how to find anal only partners in real life, without seeming like a total creep

Right on, sounds like you’ve definitely got it figured out in terms of knowing what you like and need. As for finding partners, it depends on whether you’re looking for a long-term partner or just hooking up. If the latter, be extremely up front about it. If the former, get to know someone you hit it off well with and then once sex comes up in conversation and you’re starting to get to the point where it’s something you’re going to do soon, bring up that you’re anal only and are looking for an anal only relationship. If this is something you need to be happy, best to filter for it from a pretty early stage in the relationship. Be honest and open about it and talk about why you want it, that you want her to enjoy it as well, and that you’re willing to put in the time and effort to ensure that’s the case if she’s willing to try it. Not everyone will be into it, but that’s okay.

Anonymous: I’ve been anal only for two weeks and I love it. My pussy is constantly dripping but it’s getting hard to ignore it, how can I keep myself from touching?

Whenever you feel the urge to play with your pussy or clit, rub and finger your ass instead, or squeeze a plug in your ass, or ride a dildo. Take that arousal and redirect it to your ass. The more you do that, the more you’ll start feeling that arousal anally.

You can also experiment with numbing creams like Orajel to make your clit lose sensation temporarily and see if that helps in times of difficulty resisting.

Also remember that clit stimulation isn’t explicitly disallowed by the anal only lifestyle. If you truly can’t resist it anymore, you can always give yourself an orgasm during anal masturbation or sex to reset a bit if you feel the need to, then dive right back in and try to go longer the next time. So long as you don’t involve vaginal penetration, you’re still anal only.

Anonymous: What are the benefits of going anal only? I’m interested, but I wanna know more to see if it’s really for me!

Increased pleasure, increased arousal, increased sexiness, and increased intimacy. It’s also natural birth control.

Why not give it a try for a few months and find out for yourself how you like it? If you’re having a good time after a several month trial period, commit to it then longer term.