Message: Is It Still Anal Only If I Use My Clit To Cum?
Anonymous: How can a person manage anal only if they’re not capable of having penetration-only orgasms? Is it still anal only if I use my clit to cum? Or is there any way I can “learn” to cum from anal? (P.S. I love anal and am pretty well versed in it, just can’t get off from it).
Yes, it’s still anal only if you need to combine clit stimulation with anal. I encourage going without clitoral stimulation and learning to focus just on anal pleasure, but not everyone is at that point yet, and you can absolutely still be anal only. So by all means, go anal only now, and over time work towards using your clit less and less until you don’t feel the need for it anymore.
Many people have had success learning to have anal only orgasms over time, often through a combination of clitoral denial and the resulting increase in arousal that comes from that, and a daily practice of anal masturbation and sex. Excluding clitoral stimulation for a while and becoming extremely horny as a result opens your body up more to alternate paths to orgasm, and frequent anal stimulation fills that void and can start to develop the ability to orgasm that way.
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