sarlic91: Hey there, I’m starting to live the anal only lifestyle with my girl, but there’s a thing that troubles me. We both want to keep everything as(s) clean as possible, but I read on several sources that a repeated use of anal douches will damage the intestinal flora. Can you suggest a way to clean her gut on a regular basis (we have sex a few times a day) and also keep her health in mind? Thanks ahead ?

We discussed this in the Anal Only Lifestyle Discord already, but I’ll sum up my answer here as well for a general audience.

Essentially, if you stick to a small amount of water at a time, and just flush out the rectum, release the water, wait a moment, and repeat, until all the water comes out clean, there should be no significant impact to the balance of her intestinal flora deeper in the colon or to her digestive processes.

amaizegman: My FWB and I had been anal-only for some time. I wrote before how she sucked my finger right out of her ass. The last time we were doing it in a spooning position after at least an hour of ass worship, spanking and anal sex in several positions. When she came the third time she panted “I am so hungry for your milk.” I pulled out and expected to just beat myself off over her face. I closed my eyes when I got close, and suddenly I felt the warmth of her lips around my glans. I ever came so hard.

A great illustration of how anal orgasms for a lot of women (not all, but it seems to be the majority in my experience) amplify and further boost arousal rather than wiping it out. It sounds like her orgasms built her arousal to the point that she was eager to suck your cock straight out of her ass without thinking about it first. Now that she’s done it and seen that it’s something hot to do for both of you, and not something gross or disgusting, I wouldn’t be surprised if it becomes more frequent and not just something done in the heat of the moment.

Anonymous: I don’t want to sound dramatic and it probably sounds that way, but going anal only may literally saved our marriage. For us vaginal has been uncomfortable and stressful, especially since for medical reasons I’m kind of limited in what birth control I can use. I had only had bad experiences with anal before and only heard bad things, but I decided to power through it for the sake of intimacy, found better resources (and this blog), and since we started Nov we’re closer than we’ve been in years.

I’m glad to hear that! It doesn’t sound dramatic at all, perhaps because you’re not the first couple I’ve heard something similar from. Anal can be a fantastic alternative when vaginal is painful or uncomfortable for any number of reasons. I’m glad it’s working out well for the both of you and I’m sure that as you continue to do it more, it will just keep getting better.

Anonymous: Thank you for showing me only anal I have been only anal for about 3 months now and my whole body has changed. When having sex before my nipples were never sensitive or hard, now even thinking about anal my nipples stand up right and are just begging to be played with. My pussy is so useless now my clit doesn’t even get touched all I care about is my nipples and ass

You’re very welcome. I’m glad you were able to discover it and how much you love it, and that this blog and its surrounding community introduced you and so many other people to it. It’s something I’ll miss the most once this blog goes away, the interactions with everyone, and the resulting relative lack of exposure that will come from losing a platform with 150,000 followers and millions more potential Tumblr users who might catch a reblogged post and say “hey, anal only, what’s that? that sounds interesting” and awaken a whole part of their sexuality they had no idea existed.

Thanks so much for sharing and for trying out anal only for yourself. With any luck we’ll find a platform where we can continue this blog and continue introducing more people to the lifestyle.

The idea that anal sex always hurts is a common myth, not unlike the idea that vaginal intercourse always hurts the first time. Neither of these is true.

The truth is that if you’re doing it right, no sex should ever hurt unless you want it to. By doing it “right,” I don’t just mean the right technique. Doing it right also means paying attention to your body and knowing how to respond when you notice a change in how sexual stimulation is feeling.

If you’re feeling unwanted pain or discomfort, it’s a good sign that you need to slow down, stop or switch up what you’re doing.

As for anal sex, it’s true that a lot of people do experience some pain or discomfort the first time they have it or the first time they have it with a new partner. That’s mostly due, however, to a lack of communication, cooperation and often not enough lubrication. It isn’t because there is something inherent to anal sex that means it has to hurt.

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goodlilsubbygirl: What’s your thoughts on going anal only?

bisexualattentionwhore: I’ve been anal only all this month and decided to go through November and it’s amazing. Having my ass filled is my favorite. Sometimes i have such strong urges to fuck my pussy though.., Any suggestions on what to do in December?

goodlilsubbygirl: I’ve been anal only since June, and I’ve been anal only before too. There’s a couple things I’ve done.

First I cut out all pussy touching completely. Touching it just made me want it more, and that wasn’t working. So none of that. This also forces me to play with my ass more, which helped me figure out all the different ways it can give me pleasure. Superior pleasure ?

Next I started wearing butt plugs in public all the time. This constantly kept me thinking about anal and that I’m teasing myself in the one way I can give myself pleasure. Wearing mini skirts put me in a slutty mindset and also kept me playful and thinking about who might see that plug. Really did a lot for me ?

Last I started to do more ass to mouth. This one really got me to love anal like I do. It’s so dirty and degrading but that in itself turns me on, and honestly I don’t taste that bad and I just want more ??‍♀️? this had me thinking about anal all the time and I kinda stopped thinking about my pussy that much

Honestly anal feels hundreds of times better than pussy for me. So that and doing all this really did it for me! If you have any more questions you can message me! Or we can keep replying here for everyone to see ?????❤️

Tumblr has a major porn problem – bots, spam and, most seriously, images of child abuse.

But for those that use its site legally, the decision to ban adult content across its entire network is seen as a reluctance to tackle the issues properly.

Tumblr has decided to give up, rather than do as other sites have done and invest in measures to handle illegal content, while allowing sexual expression.

“There are no shortage of sites on the internet that feature adult content,” said Jeff D’Onofrio, the site’s chief executive, in explaining the decision.

He’s right, of course. There’s a lot of porn out there. But Tumblr has long offered something different, and important.

Founded 11 years ago, Tumblr is a platform where users can publish text, images and videos quickly, as well as share and comment on other submissions. The site’s popularity peaked in 2014. Yet as its use dwindled, its reputation as an alternative corner of the internet grew, not least as a place to find unique adult material.

Unlike typical pornography sites, which overwhelmingly cater to men, and serve an often narrow definition of what is attractive, Tumblr has been a home for something else – content tailored at vibrant LGBT communities, or for those with tastes you might not necessarily share with all your friends.

If society deems it acceptable for any porn to be on the internet, then that acceptance must surely be inclusive. Unlike most of those other sites Mr D’Onofrio speaks of, Tumblr has been a space where different body types are sexually celebrated, not degraded.

In 2015, Cosmopolitan described Tumblr as a place where women “can explore their sexuality with the support of women without judgement or fear”.

It argued that Tumblr’s design seemed to cater to different physical need: offering a slow, building stream of visual and emotional content – rather than the instant video gratification of sites designed with hurried male audiences in mind, fast-forward button and all.

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Tumblr has been a safe and reliable place to look at pornographic images for more than a decade whether those images were drawings, GIFs, photographs, or short videos. But that’s changing in two weeks. The platform’s CEO announced in a lengthy Tumblr post on Monday that the service plans to ban all adult content. There will be some exceptions, like for art with nudity, but for the most part, the days are numbered for existing Tumblr posts featuring nudity or other pornographic content. The policy comes two weeks after Tumblr was kicked off the Apple App Store because some child pornography reportedly slipped through its filters. It’s unclear if Tumblr didn’t respond to just these reports of child porn fast enough, or if this is a long-standing problem.

It’s certainly true that Tumblr, which now is owned by Verizon, needs to work vigilantly and hire people to make sure that its services aren’t used to abuse minors and traffic in child pornography. Pedophilic material is something that all live-to-post services need to seriously contend with and actively engage in rooting out, whether they are Facebook, YouTube, Twitter’s Periscope—where I found last year that apparent pedophiles were frequently preying on young users—or Tumblr. But the platform’s fix is the equivalent of hammering a nail with a skyscraper, only to have it slip through an open window. It’s an overreaching solution that won’t protect children who are victims of child pornography, seekers of which will all but certainly find another place to go.

What banning “adult content” will do, however, is eradicate one of the few mainstream, safe, and non-taboo places where people could participate in communities that openly congregate around sex and sexuality. Sex is great, and it’s no wonder that people like to consume sexual images—much of the internet is dedicated to this. Knowing that one could roll onto Tumblr, a very popular social media site, find a blog dedicated to whatever flavor of porn one likes, and look at images that turn one on, made the whole ordeal of seeking sexual imagery less daunting, demeaning, and dangerous.

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Anonymous: Shouldn’t Anal Only Lifestyle actually be fine? Since the new restrictions don’t apply to text.

It might be, and we’ll see what happens when the day comes, but I’m inclined to move everything off Tumblr and stop supporting the platform entirely at this point.

There’s so much misinformation about anal sex that one of the biggest obstacles to enjoying your first anal sex experience is everything you’ve heard about it before you have it.

Let’s start with one thing that is true:  anal sex isn’t a necessary part of anyone’s sex life.  You can have an amazing sexual life without ever exploring anal sex.  The one and only reason to try anal sex is because you want to.

Of course you can’t know for sure if you’ll like it without trying it.  But if you’re only considering it because your partner really wants you to or because everyone you know seems to be having it, then don’t bother.

I would soften that last statement somewhat—there’s nothing wrong with trying it because other people you know are doing it or have encouraged you to try it too, so long as you don’t feel pressured to do it against your will and are yourself curious about it as well.

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