Discussion: Anal Only With My Pregnant Wife
In a followup to the previous post, where a man on reddit described the experience of having anal sex with his pregnant wife for the first time after she lost interest in and no longer enjoyed anal sex, he describes how they have continued having anal sex regularly after that and have since been effectively in an anal only relationship.
So since then it appears we are in an almost anal only relationship which was unexpected but I’m not complaining. It has become routine for me to give her an oily full body massage that ends in anal sex.
While not universally the true for everyone, it seems to be a fairly common thing for women to lose interest in vaginal during and after pregnancy, or to find it painful or uncomfortable. Some of this is just due to the effects of pregnancy on the body, but it also makes sense as a sort of regulating factor to reduce interest in reproduction, at least for a time, when that goal has already been achieved. So it makes perfect sense that a primary interest in anal can take over during this time and continue to provide opportunities for pleasure, release and intimacy. It can also provide a great opportunity to introduce people to the anal only lifestyle, as they discover during that time that the pleasure and intimacy are better through anal sex and often will decide to remain anal only, or at least keep it their primary and default form of sex, after the period of being anal only that pregnancy provides.
But I’ve come across one of those ‘first world problems’ that isn’t really a problem. Turns out my wife really likes my cock in her ass, to the point that she cums very quickly when I’m in there. Which is great except that after she cums she tenses up and stays all tensed up for ages making anal starts to hurt, meaning I don’t get to finish, well I do but usually with a handjob.
As I said it’s a silly problem ‘oh no my wife likes anal too much, oh woe is me!’
One of the times we didn’t even get to the sex before she came from a toy in her ass and a touch of her clit. That was the one time we had regular sex but not before attempting anal for a bit and deciding I could not even get in.
This, along with some additional information he provides, suggests that while she’s very much enjoying the anal, she still hasn’t fully trained for it and isn’t yet at the point where she can easily relax her anal muscles for sex. It’s something that will just keep improving with time and practice, however, as well as more anal play, rimming, and other warmup before having sex. In a comment, he mentions that they’re working on more training and delaying her clit stimulation so that she can last longer before orgasm.
After a session where they tried to do anal and he couldn’t get more than a short distance into her ass:
With the head of my cock still inside her we agreed to have a shower and just try vaginal with a condom, but then I leaned forward over her to kiss her, and that’s when it happened. Something shifted and I felt my cock slide all the way inside her in one go until my balls were touching her pussy. She let out a sound somewhere between a shock and a moan and I probably did the same. I stayed as still as I could and asked her if she was ok. She said yes but to give her a second, after which she told me to start slow. So I started fucking me wife balls deep in the ass while I bent over her. She was able to turn her head so we could make out which just made the whole thing so much more sensual.
It was deep fucking where you stay mostly inside your partner, with thrusts pushing deep inside instead of sliding all the way out and in. She was really enjoying it but hearing her get closer to cumming threw me over the edge as it tends to do, and I quickly got past the point of no return. She felt that as I swelled inside her and almost cried out as I became to big for her, but she powered through it as I shot my load deep inside her for what felt like ages. As I slowly pulled out I could tell she hadn’t cum but she said she enjoyed it, just has to get used to having me all the way inside her ass.
Here’s hoping that they stick with anal long-term, she learns how to fully adjust to it, and that they see no reason to go back to vaginal unless trying to have another child.
3 years being AO, still have the same problem. If I cum, the party is over. “Asshole closed for maintenance”.