David: Hi, im looking to explore other types of lubes. I enjoy Albolene for jacking off but never thought it was safe for anal use. Is this true?
It’s not approved by the FDA to be marketed for anything other than topical use, and I have not heard of any studies done on its safety for internal use as a personal lubricant.
However, anecdotally, I’ve heard of and known many people who have used it extensively and all have praised it and not experienced any negative short-term results from its use.
It does contain petroleum jelly, however, so if you have any concerns about internal use of petroleum products, I would suggest looking into other options. There are so many known body-safe lubricants out there that if you have concerns about one, there are plenty of other options.
In short: I don’t know. Many people use it, but I have some concerns personally.
Now that I have your attention with that headline, let me be a bit more specific about what I mean. Obviously, the vagina and vaginal sex are a natural part of a woman’s body and of the reproductive process. While it’s not impossible to get pregnant without vaginal sex, that remains the standard process for reproduction even within most anal only relationships.
But the reality of human sexuality is that we’ve evolved past it existing primarily for reproductive purposes. Our urges aren’t just for having children, they’re for intimacy, trust and bonding with a partner, for pleasure and relaxation, for dominance and submission. Reproduction rarely, if ever, comes into it the vast majority of the time.
The vagina, however, is fundamentally optimized for reproductive purposes, and in order to use it for our non-reproductive sexual purposes we have to fight its true nature as a means of getting pregnant and giving birth, through the use of condoms—which are awkward and unenjoyable for most people, though they certainly have their place in situations with new or untested partners—or hormonal birth control—which can cause a variety of health problems for many women, though it can also very much benefit and help other women with certain conditions.
Anal sex, in contrast, is a completely non-reproductive act, and that in and of itself makes it more naturally suited to recreational sex. The fact that it’s also more intensely pleasurable, can more easily trigger orgasms for women, is more innately attractive to many men (and women too!), boosts arousal for women compared to vaginal sex and clitoral stimulation, and is commonly reported to lead to a significant increase in intimacy and trust between partners further solidifies its role as the ideal and, indeed, natural primary sex act for humans.
In a followup to the previous post, where a man on reddit described the experience of having anal sex with his pregnant wife for the first time after she lost interest in and no longer enjoyed anal sex, he describes how they have continued having anal sex regularly after that and have since been effectively in an anal only relationship.
So since then it appears we are in an almost anal only relationship which was unexpected but I’m not complaining. It has become routine for me to give her an oily full body massage that ends in anal sex.
While not universally the true for everyone, it seems to be a fairly common thing for women to lose interest in vaginal during and after pregnancy, or to find it painful or uncomfortable. Some of this is just due to the effects of pregnancy on the body, but it also makes sense as a sort of regulating factor to reduce interest in reproduction, at least for a time, when that goal has already been achieved. So it makes perfect sense that a primary interest in anal can take over during this time and continue to provide opportunities for pleasure, release and intimacy. It can also provide a great opportunity to introduce people to the anal only lifestyle, as they discover during that time that the pleasure and intimacy are better through anal sex and often will decide to remain anal only, or at least keep it their primary and default form of sex, after the period of being anal only that pregnancy provides.
But I’ve come across one of those ‘first world problems’ that isn’t really a problem. Turns out my wife really likes my cock in her ass, to the point that she cums very quickly when I’m in there. Which is great except that after she cums she tenses up and stays all tensed up for ages making anal starts to hurt, meaning I don’t get to finish, well I do but usually with a handjob.
As I said it’s a silly problem ‘oh no my wife likes anal too much, oh woe is me!’
One of the times we didn’t even get to the sex before she came from a toy in her ass and a touch of her clit. That was the one time we had regular sex but not before attempting anal for a bit and deciding I could not even get in.
This, along with some additional information he provides, suggests that while she’s very much enjoying the anal, she still hasn’t fully trained for it and isn’t yet at the point where she can easily relax her anal muscles for sex. It’s something that will just keep improving with time and practice, however, as well as more anal play, rimming, and other warmup before having sex. In a comment, he mentions that they’re working on more training and delaying her clit stimulation so that she can last longer before orgasm.
After a session where they tried to do anal and he couldn’t get more than a short distance into her ass:
With the head of my cock still inside her we agreed to have a shower and just try vaginal with a condom, but then I leaned forward over her to kiss her, and that’s when it happened. Something shifted and I felt my cock slide all the way inside her in one go until my balls were touching her pussy. She let out a sound somewhere between a shock and a moan and I probably did the same. I stayed as still as I could and asked her if she was ok. She said yes but to give her a second, after which she told me to start slow. So I started fucking me wife balls deep in the ass while I bent over her. She was able to turn her head so we could make out which just made the whole thing so much more sensual.
It was deep fucking where you stay mostly inside your partner, with thrusts pushing deep inside instead of sliding all the way out and in. She was really enjoying it but hearing her get closer to cumming threw me over the edge as it tends to do, and I quickly got past the point of no return. She felt that as I swelled inside her and almost cried out as I became to big for her, but she powered through it as I shot my load deep inside her for what felt like ages. As I slowly pulled out I could tell she hadn’t cum but she said she enjoyed it, just has to get used to having me all the way inside her ass.
Here’s hoping that they stick with anal long-term, she learns how to fully adjust to it, and that they see no reason to go back to vaginal unless trying to have another child.
A user on reddit shares an experience with his pregnant wife. After a period of introducing anal play into their sexual routine, she was enjoying it but they hadn’t gone all the way and had anal sex yet. Then after getting pregnant, she quickly lost all interest in vaginal sex:
Well eventually we got married and she got pregnant (on purpose, knocked her up first try actually but that’s a story for another time) and she was feeling pretty gross so sex wasn’t really happening and when it did she felt worse afterwards, particularly around her vagina, but hey she is growing my child so I told her I’ll survive without much sex if I have to. One night a month ago I was oiling her belly and boobs (trying to avoid stretch marks) when I decided to give her a full body oil massage. Well after like 40min of massage she was on her side with me behind her finishing up her back, thighs and butt cheeks when I decided to get a bit cheeky and massage the oil down into her crack more. I started high and worked my hand slowly down to her hole intending to give it a quick oiled rub then cuddle up to my now extremely relaxed wife. She responded much more than I was expecting though and so I kept my hand there massaging her hole even applying more oil. Then I slipped a finger inside her butt and slid the whole thing in in one go. Now I still wasn’t expecting sex, maybe a hand job after played with her ass for a bit but that was it, but she was getting really into it so I slipped a second finger in. It took a bit longer but soon enough I have two full fingers buried in her.
And that’s when I thought about it, my brain did the equation: She really wants me right now & I want her
vaginal sex makes her feel like crap
she is relaxed enough to take two full fingers in her ass, = I should fuck her ass.
Ultimately, they decide to have anal sex, he goes slow, and ends up lasting under a minute, but they both really enjoy it and it kicks off an opportunity for the both of them to enjoy sex again while she’s pregnant. For a followup post to see how things work out for the two of them, check back tomorrow.
I like anal sex. There. I said it. No, I love it. My friends think that is completely weird and gross. But dare I say I like it as much if not more than regular sex. My husband Chris though. Hates it. All my friends tell me how their husbands essentially beg them to have anal and they hate it and here I am with the husband who isn’t interested in anal at all. It’s too messy, he says. Too complicated or something. And it kind of annoys me that he won’t satisfy me in that way once in a while.
Chris is a great husband. I love the guy. And we used to have anal about twice a month when we were first together. I’ve always been a huge fan of butt play — dildos, fingers, vibrators. But I had never had anal sex until I met Chris. I always thought he was into it, too, until one day he said no to it. Then the next time, he said no again. And that trend continued. When I asked him about it he told me that he didn’t like it, that it felt too planned, too much worrying about the clean-up, mostly because he can’t come from anal, so we usually have vaginal sex after that but he has to clean his penis before we can do that.
We’ve tried starting off with vaginal but then he can’t get hard enough for what is essentially round two of anal. And I want anal! I feel like I just said anal a million times, but I’m not sure how to handle this situation and mostly I feel really alone. I can’t be the only woman out there who likes to have anal sex, can I?
I also feel like I do things I don’t particularly love to do for my husband — namely blowjobs — to make him sexually happy. Why can’t he do this for me?
This is an all-too-common complaint, sadly, and which really reveals the truth to the myth that all men want anal and all women try to resist it. The reality is that some men and women love it, and some don’t. And not everyone always ends up with a partner who shares that love, regardless of gender.
However, many of these particular complaints can be resolved. If he thinks it’s too dirty or is worried about cleanup, some dietary changes and taking care of any hygiene needs in advance of having anal sex can ensure it nearly always stays clean. (Of course, there’s always a chance it can get messy, and that’s just a risk you take with anal sex.)
The same applies to his concern for it feeling too planned. In addition to cleaning in advance of having anal sex, wearing a butt plug or masturbating anally regularly throughout the week between having sex will make the amount of preparation and warmup much less than it otherwise would be.
When one partner really wants anal and the other is hesitant, the partner who wants it should do everything they can to make things as painless as possible (both literally and metaphorically) for their partner.
His inability to orgasm from anal is a bit more uncommon, and it seems likely that it’d be the result of his mentality towards and attitude about anal sex rather than physical stimulation, since anal quite often feels far more pleasurable for men than vaginal does. If he resents doing anal, he may not be able to get in the headspace to be able to enjoy it and feel an orgasm grow. Unfortunately, if it is physical rather than mental, there isn’t enough information in this article to be able to determine the cause and offer suggestions.
I hope they were able to work through their differences surrounding and that she’s now able to enjoy the frequent anal sex she needs and deserves.
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Though anal porn is one of the most popular genres of pornography, and just keeps getting more popular with time as anal itself becomes more frequently practiced, adopted and enjoyed by people, the number of porn stars who are actively anal only themselves, whether on film or in their personal life, remains disappointingly small. There are a few, however!
Porn Stars Who Are 100% Anal Only
These actors are those few who have never done a single vaginal scene on camera and who in many cases are anal only in their own personal life as well.
AlexBreeCooper
A fan of large anal dildo play and fisting, Australian independent porn star AlexBreeCooper is strictly anal only both on and off camera and does not engage in any vaginal penetration, often telling off fans who request that she put anything in her pussy.
While she previously has had vaginal sex, she chose to stop doing it in favor of pure anal out of a genuine preference for how it feels, a dislike of vaginal, and nothing more.
With the popularization of ManyVids and OnlyFans anyone can be a porn star, and with more people producing their own high quality porn based on what they enjoy for themselves rather than just what a porn studio wants them to do, and this is leading to many more anal only porn stars.
Anal Jesse is one such rising star, and she has dozens of videos, some of them freely available, all 100% anal only without anything vaginal at all. Anal toy play, anal sex, ass to mouth, double anal, anal creampies, and more.
“I just don’t care about pussy. I think ass is fun and makes me feel happy.”
The classic and most well-known anal only porn star, Aurora Jolie (also known as Nikara) was not only strictly anal only during her porn career, she was also a complete vaginal virgin.
Initially motivated by a desire to save her virginity for a future partner, Aurora Jolie has over 100 adult film credits to her name, all of which were anal only.
In time, she did lose her vaginal virginity to a partner and went on a hiatus porn after getting pregnant. She found that she didn’t enjoy vaginal sex, however, and went back to being anal only both in her personal life and in porn. These days she can be found doing anal only cam shows, or on ManyVids. In a 2017 interview, she was asked whether she would ever do a vaginal scene and she said no:
I would rather not. It just doesn’t interest me. I prefer the anal niche.
A young Russian woman who has been filming porn for AnalVids, Carla Cage has produced a dozen scenes so far and is 100% anal only as of May 2022. While she hasn’t talked about this openly, there is speculation that she either simply prefers anal or is a vaginal virgin.
Whatever the reason for her anal only status, Carla has our strong support to avoid filming any vaginal or double penetration scenes and keeping things strictly 0% pussy.
Most well known through the Ass Teen Mouth, Try Teens, Young Throats and White Teens Black Cocks series, Jill (who goes by a variety of names) combined her youthful appearance with an obvious love for anal sex.
In her dozens of scenes throughout the years, starting at age 19, she never once had vaginal sex. Curious about this, some of her fans managed to get in contact with her and ask about it, and she confirmed that she is a real-life vaginal virgin—not for any religious reasons or because she wants to save herself for marriage, but because she loves anal sex and it turns her on and makes her happy to keep her pussy virgin and only be an anal slut. She intends to never have vaginal sex at any point in her life and always be anal only.
I was fascinated to meet the oxymoron virgin porn star. And, of course, I wanted to ask Jill the million dollar question.
I figured Jill was saving her virginity for her wedding night. Nope! Jill simply likes to be a virgin, and fully intends to remain a virgin!
There are several references to her having a double penetration scene, but this appears to actually be incorrect and it was double anal instead (though only captured in photographs, not video).
An independent porn actor who records videos with her partner and distributes them on OnlyFans, Kitty Kaya went anal only partway into her career and lives an anal only life both on- and off-camera, devoting herself to the lifestyle with no vaginal penetration allowed at all, only anal sex and masturbation.
I never engage in vaginal intercourse or penetration anymore. All sex, masturbation, and everything else under the sun, is inside my asshole. My mouth is allowed too, actually. Just nothing in my pussy.
Though now retired, Kylie Sinner’s short lived porn career spanned about a dozen films, all of which were anal only. Kylie was another vaginal virgin, this time because she had vaginismus, a condition that made her vagina too tight to penetrate without pain, so she gave up on it and did anal instead, discovering just how much she loved it. She received a lot of popular attention as an anal only vaginal virgin while she was active, but unfortunately disappeared quickly.
More recent fan encounters with her suggest that she moved away from being anal only and has unfortunately lost her vaginal virginity.
Vicky Sol
A Greek porn star who got her start in 2010 through a local porn studio, she made her debut with strict anal only. Over the course of her over-12-year career so far, Vicky’s only vaginal penetration has been in a scene with a brief moment of double penetration very early in her career, and everything since has been purely anal, double anal and triple anal. In the past four years since shifting her focus to the AnalVids studio, all but one of her scenes has been double or triple anal focused and she clearly loves the stretch that two cocks in her ass gives her without ever getting fucked in the pussy even once.
Vicky hasn’t been producing new porn recently but should be strongly encouraged to continue her anal only career and consider shifting to 100% double anal only!
These are actors who either live anal only or primarily anal only in their personal life or who have said that they’d like to go anal only in porn. The unfortunate reality is that porn actors are expected to do everything, in order to be marketable to the widest audience, so limiting yourself to just anal can be seen by porn producers as an undesirable characteristic. As anal porn continues to dominate, however, and the market for pure anal only porn becomes more apparent, there should be a growing space for anal only porn stars as well.
Lexi Grey
This actress has been tweeting regularly about preferring anal and wanting to go anal only since 2019, and as of early 2020 appears to have done so, as well as claiming that she’s going to stick with it for at least the rest of the year. If she ends up doing so and doesn’t return to vaginal in porn or in real life, she’ll get bumped up to the 100% anal only category above.
fantasizing about getting my cunt sewn up and being an anal only whore
Be sure to reach out to Lexi on Twitter and let her know your support for her adoption of the anal only lifestyle and that
Lydia Black
Lydia is a prolific anal porn star and works all over, with over 80 scenes for LegalPorno, most of them anal and double anal focused. Lydia has repeatedly talked about wanting to be anal only in porn and in real life and likely barely uses her vagina outside of porn.
My pussy is so dumb and useless I wish I could only do anal
Charlotte has a lot going for her, and excels in the hardcore anal and double anal genres. She’s filmed nearly 60 scenes for LegalPorno, and only a few of them contained any vaginal penetration, while 80% of her scenes are double anal. Her enthusiasm for anal shows both in porn, and in real life.
She’s talked about her preference for anal in a number of venues, but recently admitted on Twitter:
This Italian porn actress greatly prefers anal sex, especially on the more extreme end of the spectrum, and focuses primarily on double anal. She has repeatedly said that she does not like vaginal sex and prefers anal always. Her career so far has been almost exclusively anal, with only one or two scenes total containing any vaginal penetration at all.
When asked on Twitter what she preferred, she said:
Update: Unfortunately, since the publication of this post, Sara has shifting to mostly doing vaginal/anal double penetration scenes.
Adriana Chechik
Adriana Chechik is well known for her anal prowess, having done countless anal scenes, including several double and triple anal scenes. While not remotely anal only in porn, she does have a strong love for anal both in porn and in her personal life. Adriana has created several bikini sets with “ANAL ONLY” embroidered into them, which have featured in several of her anal scenes, and which she’s been rumored to be developing into a product for sale.
In an interview on Asa Akira’s Pornhub Podcast, Adriana revealed that she largely has anal sex at home with her boyfriend, who was notorious for only doing anal sex with women before hooking up with Adriana, and they were strictly anal only together for the first six months of their relationship.
Now sadly retired for some time, Jessie Rogers was instantly popular when she started her porn career and quickly made herself known as an enthusiastic anal performer, taking it up the ass in most scenes as well as doing a number of anal only scenes. It wasn’t just an act, however, Jessie preferred anal in her personal life and over time came to not enjoy doing vaginal scenes anymore because her enjoyment of those was an act. In the months before she retired, she was publicly discussing going anal only and refusing to do any more vaginal scenes since she simply didn’t enjoy them.
Remember when i said i only want to do on camera what i truly enjoy..well…What are your guys’ thoughts on if I ONLY did anal? I’m reallyyyy liking getting butt fucked… No more bg vaginal scenes… Or is that too weird? Lol i want some opinions hehe I feel like a weirdo this is becoming a problem when I have to do normal scenes . Well it’s not a problem, i just feel like its not feeling good anymore. Be honest cause I really feel like a weirdo I’ve never heard of a girl only enjoying anal sex… Besides me I guess lol
She received a lot of support and encouragement for this, and had she remained in the porn industry she would have become a powerful force for anal only porn and the anal only lifestyle. Alas, she retired before the end of the year.
Trinity St Clair
She isn’t strictly anal only on camera, but Trinity St Clair got to the point where she primarily did anal scenes in time, and has been anal only in her personal life. Trinity’s vagina is particularly tight (perhaps the result of vaginismus or a similar condition?) and vaginal sex is uncomfortable or even painful for her, but anal sex comes easily and she gets off on it easily, so she greatly prefers anal.
So, I am an anal girl. I prefer anal. […] I had a sex partner that was way to big and for the life of us he couldn’t get it in my vagina. And so you’re having sex and he couldn’t get it in one hole, so he kind of just slid his dick and it just kind of slid right in my ass and we just continued on. And he didn’t even realize it until we finished and he was like “Oh my god, was my dick in your ass?” and I’m like “Yeah!” and he was like “Are you okay with that?” I’m like, “Sure! It felt good.” And from then on, that’s just what happened. That’s how I continued to have sex.
Everytime a dick enters the pussy she just doesnt expand and is tighter than anything…sex with a virgin is what it is like. But hit the ass and she opens up for anyone size doesn’t matter to much. hey it doesn’t bother me I love it. I just am almost to a point of doing strictly anal scenes.
She also expressed frustration with guys both in her personal life and in porn telling her she should stop doing or wanting anal so much and should do more vaginal, saying that she preferred anal, was an anal girl, and that was that.
as everyone knows I am an ANAL lover, why because it works for me. So its getting old when people tell me stop doing anal, or why did you start with anal? Its because I love it for one and two it works better for me! I am not going to stop doing something I love especially taking it up the ass to make others happy. If you don’t like it oh well this is the one thing thats my nic! and I love! So Im not going to stop taking it up the ass and thats final my choice is made up.
She never was exclusively anal only on camera, but with her anal focus and love for double anal and other more extreme acts, she had an obvious enjoyment for taking it up the ass, and more than once expressed on camera that assholes and anal were better suited for sex than vaginas.
“God made pussies for making babies… but the ass… that’s for fucking.”
Kelly Wells
Sheena Shaw
Though her porn career is filled with vaginal sex and double penetration, Sheena has repeatedly said that she prefers anal, and said that in her personal life she’s nearly anal only and does vaginal only once a month, at most.
Kelly Divine
With her big ass, Kelly Divine has attracted many anal lovers over the years, and though she has done a fair bit of vaginal scenes, she’s expressed her strong personal preference for anal sex.
I actually try to totally avoid vag…. anal is the shit, pun totally intended lmao
Prior to getting into porn, Melanie was a vaginal virgin and did anal only for the first three years of her life as a form of birth control, and very much enjoyed it. Eventually, however, she did try vaginal sex, but found it to be boring compared to the intensity of anal pleasure, and still prefers anal.
London Keyes
London has expressed a strong preference for anal sex because she is unable to orgasm from vaginal and requires anal in order to cum. This is no doubt a major reason why she shot a number of 100% anal scenes.
Emily Willis
When interviewed by PervCity prior to an anal scene, she is asked, “So, you really like butt sex, then?” and she responds, “I do. I’m a really big fan.”
“If you could have just one, butt sex or vaginal sex, for the rest of your life…”
“Definitely butt. 100 percent.”
“Do you have better orgasms? What is it that you like better about the butt?”
“My orgasms are just so much harder.”
Anya Olsen
In a similar pre-scene interview, Anya Olsen talks about her early sexual experiences and preferences.
“I love anal. Let me tell you about anal, guys: it’s amazing. Just like life is amazing, anal is amazing. […] Girls, if you’re watching, try anal! Please! It is great, it’s amazing. Like no other orgasm. I cum so easily from anal, and it’s like the most intense orgasm ever. Like no other orgasm. I can’t get it from vaginal sex, it has to be from anal.”
Nataly Gold
When asked on Twitter about her history with anal and vaginal sex and which she preferred, she said that she had started with vaginal, but tried anal before getting into porn and always enjoyed it, and now she prefers anal in her personal life:
“Now I prefer more anal than vaginal :):):)”
A Need for More Anal Only Porn Stars
As is made evident by the above, there have really been very few anal only porn stars in history, and none of them are currently active. Many porn stars prefer anal sex, but don’t go the extra step of being exclusively anal only in porn.
There is a great demand among anal only men and women for adult content that is strictly anal only, and in some ways porn stars can act as role models for the aspiring anal only person, so there is a need for a new set of anal only porn stars to step up and start producing anal porn that never has any vaginal sex or double penetration involving the vagina.
There’s also a niche for porn that completely excludes vaginal and clitoral contact and is 100% anal only, as there are so many women in the process of going anal only who are also exploring clitoral denial and want to be inspired by the porn they watch to stick to their goals.
My wife is the type that gets very submissive when she is very horny. So one day I asked for anal and she said yes. We tried it right then and there and she orgasmed. I’m a little girthy, so I just got a little more than the head in. It was great for both, but she doesn’t seem to want to prep for it. I don’t want to hurt her so we use tons of lube, and I give her full control of depth and motion, but I eventually want go deeper. I’m just not sure its will be possible without doing typical anal prep (fingering, plugs, etc), which she isn’t too keen on. Its like she only wants it when she’s fuck-drunk.
He gets some good responses, but I’m going to give my perspective as well, as this is something I’ve occasionally encountered myself: a woman who wants anal but doesn’t want to masturbate or train for it. In a later response, he mentions that they’ve at times had vaginal sex while he fingers her ass or wears a butt plug, and she’s okay with that, but it doesn’t lead to anal sex in the moment.
That is the approach I would take going forward—combining anal play with other sexual activity she already enjoys, and through that combination helping build her desire for anal sex more frequently while also helping to train her ass to get used to more frequent penetration and use sexually. The more often she does that, the more she will open up to doing anal play as the primary act, and will be more ready for when she does want anal sex, which she’ll in turn get more comfortable with doing and want more frequently as well.
Anonymous: I appreciate you finding articles and discussions to post here and respond to from your perspective, but it is frustrating to see just how negative and ignorant people still are about anal sex!
It’s easy within our bubble of anal love and positivity to forget that a lot of people still haven’t discovered the truth about anal sex yet and not only buy into the pervasive myths that still surround anal, they continue to spread them to others despite having no experiences of their own to base them on.
Things are still improving overall, however, and there’s more easily accessible information than ever about how to enjoy anal. As more people speak positively about anal sex and the anal only lifestyle, and open up about them to friends, sharing personal experiences that supplant the impersonal myths, jokes and general negativity and encourage people to explore it for themselves. If you love anal, and you have friends that you feel comfortable talking about sex with, start talking to them about it, and if they have questions, try to be helpful and encouraging.
It’s no great secret that most men’s first reaction to seeing a vagina is aversion, innately recognizing it as something not particularly appealing or attractive, but conversely the instinct with asses and assholes is curiosity, attraction and greatly increased interest.
Traditionally, people have “gotten over” this first impression and learned to enjoy it for its other attributes, and that’s a common response when someone who has this aversion to vaginal talks with other people about it, but perhaps it’s time to reconsider that and instead embrace that natural instinct of attraction to the anus over the vagina.
Anal sex is far better suited for pleasure and intimacy than vaginal is, and is almost perfectly optimized to that purpose, while the vagina is optimized for pregnancy and giving birth. From a biological goal of reproduction, innate desires and preferences for vaginal sex made sense, but we’re now on an overpopulated planet where a growing number of people aren’t even financially stable enough to consider having children, and reproductive sex is far from the minds of most people.
Since non-reproductive goals are the primary sexual motivators for modern people, and since the only advantage vaginal sex has over anal is reproduction, it’s only natural that our preferences are shifting towards anal. Our first impressions are correct: anal is what we should be doing and vaginal should be avoided.
Assuming that enough exposure to the wonderful lifestyle was able to be presented to people (along with likely good past experimentations too) how much would you suspect the percentage of A/O relationships would go up to?
Based on how many women in my past were forever changed by their introduction to anal I honestly believe it’s about 25-50%. At least for hetero relationships. I have no numbers from memory to base a guess on for other people.
Anyways, they always seemed to protest the loudest the the idea at first and a few post enlightenment actually thanked me for not giving up (lol that’s not hard) and motivating them to take the whole cock.
It’s not such a huge step after you’re work to the joys of the asshole that A/O is a real consideration. I almost see it as valid as a sexual orientation of its own.
