Discussion: How Do I Make My Anus Go Back to its Normal Size After Anal Sex?
That’s the question a Quora user asks. The majority of responses give the correct answer, namely that this happens normally and naturally and that anal sex does not cause one to become permanently “loose”.
Your anus will resume its normal size after anal sex. During and immediately after anal sex, it’s normal for the anus to gape open, but it will quickly return to normal.
It’s a myth that anal sex will “ruin” your anus. I’ve been enjoying anal sex for sixteen years and my anus is as tight as it ever was. What does happen with regular anal experience is you learn to relax your anus quickly to stimulation so that penetration is quicker and easier.
I had regular anal sex with my partner for past 10 years and my anus is same size as ever. My younger sister wo wants to retain her virginity till marriage is also having anal sex with her bf on regular basis and no change in size. Yes, post sex its a bit open for an hour os si but will go back to its normal size after that.
One response suggests they experienced permanent change:
Just like yours, my anus does not really go back to its size anymore. I stopped worrying about a couple of years ago. Guys actually seem to like it now even more after it became lippy and more open.
Since all of the sex I have (including masturbation) is purely anal, it did have long term effects on my anus.
However, since they exclusively have anal sex and masturbate anally regularly, it is far more likely that they simply are more relaxed and prepared for anal sex because they are doing it frequently, and know how to relax their anal muscles easily and at-will, which can even happen subconsciously. Even people who are extremely experienced with anal need to train and warm up again if they go for a few weeks, months or longer without any anal penetration. Actual long-term looseness only happens as a result of nerve damage, which is extremely rare.
I disagree…my man pussy is huge and has gotten way bigger the last 5 years. With out having sex at any given time my hole will gape open when I just bend over. And my HUGE hole farts nonstop when I’m getting fucked.
The more someone trains and pushes their limits, the more elastic their ass is going to get. But someone who doesn’t push their limits all the time and just has sex regularly will usually find that it stays fairly elastic but tightens up pretty quickly. If you’re having sex every day, it may stay a bit looser than usual, but that’s not a bad thing at all.