My husband really wants to have anal sex and thankfully it’s my favorite fantasy. His cock is pretty big so we need a little more than a quick fingering for my ass to stretch enough for him. I recently bought a butt plug that I wear when he’s at work and I want to introduce it into our routine sex. We’ve talked about it a little bit but it’s hard in the heat of the moment to stop and chat.

Do I just hand it to him? Should I skip it in before he comes home as a surprise?

What would be sexy but also not scare him?

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So an interesting situation has arisen and to be frank I could not be happier

My wife has pretty much told anyone that will listen her love for anal sex and our decision to withdraw from any vaginal sex what so ever. Reception is generally mixed but often curious.

Anyhow, a friend she has going back many years recently confessed that she masturbates almost exclusively anally and dreams of anal sex but her husband is frankly turned off by the thought of it. My wife then somehow has suggested to her that I take care of that desire for her. Fast forward two weeks and apparently one night she gets absolutely drunk with her husband and tells him of this plan. Turns out that HIs secret desire is to be cuckolded and given that is all she wants; getting anal from another man would be his absolute dream.

So now with that very unlikely turn of events has found myself not only with my anal only wife but another woman in our bedroom who wants nothing more than anal only

It’s been two weeks now with this new arrangement and I don’t think I’ve been so excited in forever.

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Vildan: I am a hemorrhoid patient, would it prevent me from having anal sex?

Not necessarily, it depends on the nature of the hemorrhoids and the advice of your doctor. I am not a medical professional, and always recommend consulting with a doctor first when you have questions of this nature, but I will share that other people with hemorrhoids have reported that careful anal play and even anal sex can help them by keeping their anal muscles more stretched and relaxed and elastic, which reduces strain on the area and minimizes the risk of irritating the hemorrhoids.

You want to take care with your anal training and sex and really be gentle and careful to avoid that irritation, but it’s likely that you can enjoy anal if it’s what you want.

Hello from Sweden, everyone!

I’m a middle aged woman living in a D/s relationship since many years. My husband is my Master and he’s in charge of most parts of my life – of which sex is one.

I found AOL on Tumblr a long time ago and immediately became interested in this lifestyle. My husband hasn’t been willing to give up my pussy though. Until a month ago, that is. Suddenly he declared that my pussy and clit was now off limits! Quite unexpected to me.

Since then we only have anal and oral sex. We both love it!

I’m here now to learn more about training my ass in all aspects. I’d like to stretch it in order to manage somewhat larger toys as well as increase my stamina so to speak. I’d like to be able to wear butplugs for a longer time (hours). I easily get sore. We have to be quite gentle all the time and I dream about being able to receive harder pounding once in a while.

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Anonymous: My experiences might be a little different, but in my personal experience, I got so much hate from most women for preferring anal as my own choice while most men either don’t care or don’t judge girls who prefer anal or are anal-only. It’s sad that they think girls like me love anal for male approval when it’s not the case. Anal sex is slowly becoming accepted by people who have positive and proper anal experience, even if it’s not for everyone, and that’s okay. Unfortunately, there are still people holding themselves back with anal myths and taboos that prevented them for wanting to give anal sex a try. Even on Twitter, I, a female, felt uncomfortable due to tons of hateful speech about non-vaginal sex.

The wise lesson says that vaginal sex is for getting babies, however, anal sex is for good and strong never-ending pleasure. Idk if there are girls that have the same thoughts as me, but I would love to talk about my love for anal in safe space without getting backlash.

I’m sorry to hear that you’ve had negative interactions with other women about anal sex. I think that sort of reaction usually comes out of myths, as you noted, which are generally driven by bad experiences they have had or heard about from friends. Sometimes it becomes almost a meme where it gets passed around from friend to friend without anyone knowing where it even originated or how it started, but keeping people from trying anal for themselves as a result. There’s where more people being open and positive about anal and how good it actually is for them, and why, helps to slowly combat that problem and starts to create a positive meme about anal and puts the idea of it being a good, enjoyable, pleasurable thing into the social consciousness.

As far as a safe space for anal positivity and discussion, this community is certainly intended for that purpose—between the forum, the Discord server, and this blog, you are likely to interact with a lot of people who share an interest in and love of anal sex. If you aren’t already a member, I’d encourage joining in and talking with other people in the community.

A Quora user asks that question and gets the following response:

Different, generally, because women can orgasm from friction in the anus itself

and men generally only from prostate stimulation from inside the rectum.

Generally women prefer anal sex to vaginal sex because of this, because the vagina does not contain genital corpuscles but the inner anus does.

A woman can orgasm from stimulation of her clitoris, inner anus (anal sex) or even nipples, as all three contain genital corpuscles necessary to a female orgasm.

Matthew Deagle, Quora

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Now that we’re several months into the new year and new decade, it’s time to check in and see how things are going with everyone! If you’ve made this commitment, whether you’ve stuck with it, had struggles, or gone on and off, let us know how things have gone!

If this is your first time hearing about Anal Only 2020, or if you haven’t started yet but would like to take part, do it! You can go anal only at any time, and don’t let getting a later start keep you from going for it!

Though many haven’t been sharing publicly, many women and couples have been taking part in Anal Only 2020, including several who decided to stop using their pussy in December or January, and often their clit as well, and are currently planning to stay that way for the entire year, with the goal for many to keep going indefinitely if they make it through the year. One woman who has already been anal only for several years made her No Pussy November challenge last year to go double anal only, then enjoyed it so much that she stayed that way to the end of the year, and then made it her 2020 challenge to stay double anal only through this year and beyond—that means she never has less than two guys in her ass at the same time! Double anal is a part of other women’s goals as well, some to start doing it for the first time, and others to do it more often.

Whatever your experience, goals or interest, we’d like to hear about it, so please share!