40 F here, new to the AO Lifestyle. I haven’t actually begun my journey as AO yet. It’s something I discovered recently while evolving in my submissive role. I just got out of a relationship with someone who loves my pussy more than anal so, it was impossible to het him to even go AO with me temporarily.
But it was because of something he did that got me into this. Basically, he has a thing against period sex, but we were still so horny when I had my period that he decided to go anal on me one morning. And from then on that’s what we did instead of PIV see during that time. What I noticed was the sexual rush I’d get from being teased. From almost getting what I really wanted – my pussy taken and the resulting big O – and getting something else instead. I cannot come from anal. I can get to a point where it almost feels like I’m climaxing but then the feeling drops. What happens is that I’m left feeling super horny because my orgasm needs weren’t fulfilled and I stay aroused for days on end. It’s crazy. I love it.
It’s now been about two months since my daddy (30m) and I (25f) became anal only. We both love it so much that about a week ago, he instructed me to create this reddit account where I could share photos, videos and stories of my ass getting used (only when he tells me to or gives me permission).
A little context: I am from an incredibly conservative/religious background, and didn’t lose my virginity until I was over 18 years old. Porn was my intro to anal, BDSM, and most other kinks in my vocabulary. By day I’m a highly successful knowledge worker—and when daddy wants me to be, a highly successful knowledge worker who’s also training her ass or taking slutty videos/photos. By night, I’m a sub who loves doing anything and everything daddy wants, whenever he wants.
We talked for several weeks before actually meeting up for drinks, and afterwards while sexting realized we were both into anal. I was an anal virgin and so a little nervous about trying it, but daddy was very convincing and knowledgeable…so we ended up having anal sex the first time we hooked up. I immediately loved it and so did daddy! I pretty quickly told him I was open to being anal-only and in the end, he only used my pussy twice in the time I’ve known him. A couple days after our last regular sex, daddy told me I was his anal-only whore, and the rest is history 🙂
Since then I’ve found out I absolutely love denying my pussy and even my clit sometimes just so daddy gets to use my fuckhole exactly how he wants. Knowing he can cum whenever he wants and wherever he wants (mostly up my ass or on my face), but I can only cum when he tells me to and when I’m also stretching my hole out, is such a turn-on. Plus it helps me remember that I’m just a toy for him to use. I love when he calls me his anal fleshlight and uses me accordingly…Sometimes he cums in my ass and then stuffs me with a plug, then makes me run errands or go on a walk with his cum inside me.
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Serve Anal Only Clients as a Sex Worker
As a sex worker, my job is primarily to cater to the fantasies of my clients. I have little control over what those are and most of the time, they already know what they want when they approach me to book an appointment.
That said, some of my clients certainly do have anal sex fetishes. And that’s fantastic! Needless to say, they are automatically bumped to the top of my list.
Unfortunately, I don’t have a large enough group of clients with an anal fetish to exclusively offer services to them while still being able to fully support myself financially.
That part is something I could probably overcome with enough time and patience. It wouldn’t be impossible to slowly build a list of steady clients who love anal sex.
But the bigger problem with that is the majority of those clients I have with an anal fetish also seem to expect vaginal sex as well. I only have two reliable clients who are truly anal only.
Alas, it would be the ultimate accomplishment if I were able to pull this off!
Have 100% Anal Only Orgasms
While each woman is different, I know I can’t be the only one who struggles to master the art of the 100% anal only orgasm.
While there is absolutely no doubt that anal sex feels far superior to vaginal in terms of pleasure, neither type of penetration has ever resulted in orgasms for me.
“I have arrived at the conclusion that the pleasure I feel from anal is more intense and far preferable to any orgasms I could have by stimulating my clit.”
Ashly
Which is actually kind of okay, I have come to realize over time.
I know some women who are anal only still include clitoral stimulation in their sex lives in order to climax, and there is nothing wrong with going that route at all!
But I happen to be in the no clit stimulation camp, which may simply mean I end up not experiencing orgasms at all.
While this might not be acceptable to all women, I have arrived at the conclusion that the pleasure I feel from anal is more intense and far preferable to any orgasms I could have by stimulating my clit.
Get My Boyfriend to Commit to Anal Only
Don’t misunderstand me here, my boyfriend loves anal sex as much as I do!
In fact, according to him, it was when I told him to put it in my ass during our very first hookup that he claims was the moment he knew he wanted to marry me someday.
All jokes aside though, we are both all about it. But to be honest, I have not brought up the idea of being strictly anal with him yet. Granted, we have only been together about six months so far.
It’s not that I’m worried he will react in a negative way, but I want to be sure that he understands where I’m coming from fully before I broach the subject.
I guess it’s just got to be the right time and setting and I need to be totally confident in how I communicate the idea to him.
I don’t imagine it will be much longer before I bring it up, so wish me luck!
Get a Vaginal Chastity Piercing
I first found out about this type of body art several years ago when I stumbled upon a couple of Tumblr blogs featuring photos of all the variations available.
While I had heard of clit piercings, I had no idea about chastity piercings or how many different styles were possible.
While imagining myself in the chair about to be pierced makes me wince a good deal at the pain involved, the main reason I haven’t taken the leap yet is that I’m pretty shy about this sort of thing with strangers.
I’m not the type of gal who would just walk into a body piercing parlor and walk right up to the desk and ask if vaginal chastity piercings are a thing they offer. I’m just not comfortable with that situation.
Personally, I’d need to do enough research privately beforehand or get a recommendation from someone I know in real life before approaching any place where I could get something like this done.
But once I have a trusted recommendation, I think I would like to get one.
Of course, this list is just the tip of the iceberg for me.
Ideally, I’d like to publish more about my love for anal sex and help to promote its acceptance as a healthy and desirable way of life to help others discover better sex sooner in life than I did!
My hope is that I can make some small contribution to normalizing the lifestyle on a greater societal level.
My boyfriend has a VERY big fetish on anal I did it with him a couple of times. But man it’s hurt so bad. My boyfriend has a very thick 8″ at first he used to break my pussy do you have any way to make it better we use a lot of water base lub. I want to please him so bad help me!!
so in this month long challenge she has mentioned on 2 occasions how she wanted to go ” traditional” thus far. So checking in with her last night asking if she wants to pause challenge since it is not something worth screwing up her enthusiasm. I thought she was fatigued. WRONG. miscommunications we need to work on .
Her explanation was that she is SCHOCKED at herself in that she has only wanted vaginal 2 times in the last 2 weeks and she is even more enthused and anxious to continue on. Case in point? this morning, 7am she rolls over and wiggles her butt onto morning wood. With only the slightest hint of coconut oil lube present. 3 min later and a nice orgasm for her and she is off to work.
Maddie: I wanted to share some exciting news! I’ve been telling my friends about how much I love anal and AO for a while and have become “that girl” that they come to and ask questions about anal when they or their boyfriends want to try it, and I’ve slowly started to talk them into trying it more often and wearing butt plugs and they’re really starting to enjoy it a lot more and it’s not just something they do for their guys now! But one has a boyfriend who really prefers anal, and they’ve been doing it a lot lately, and she actually asked me for advice on going anal only with him as a gift! I told her to wear her plug more often to relax and to just tell him she wanted be anal only with him, and she did it. He was totally down with the idea (of course) and they’re going to try it until his birthday in May to start with. I told her she should make it permanent for his birthday if she has had a good time up until then. She said, “that’s the idea”, lol.
So I’m really proud and had to share, it feels really good to help another girl with anal only too, I can see why you do it!
Wow, that’s such great news! Thanks for sharing.
You’re right, it is incredibly rewarding and enjoyable to help people make the transition to the anal only lifestyle, and I encourage it for everyone who has the opportunity to do so. Open up to your friends and loved ones about how much you enjoy and prefer anal, how you’re anal only, and how you’re happy to help anyone else with anal play, anal sex, and going anal only themselves. Encourage they do an anal only challenge either by themselves or with a partner (a month is a good length of time to start with and extend it from there). If they’re just getting started, advise them on anal toys and anal play, how to get started with anal sex, and how to enjoy anal penetration without pain or discomfort.
If we all work together to encourage other people to explore anal pleasure and embrace anal only, more people will try it for themselves and many of those people will find that they, too enjoy anal sex more than vaginal and find a lot of benefits in being anal only.
In the end, that’s the purpose of this blog: sharing other people’s experiences and general advice in order to provide the inspiration and encouragement to explore going anal only for yourself, to find out if you like it.
