Leading a fulfilling and satisfying sexual lifestyle is an integral part of one’s overall well-being. For those of us in the anal only community, our sexual journeys often require unique considerations, especially with maintaining a balance between our lifestyle and the multitude of other responsibilities we face in our daily lives.

The anal only and double anal only lifestyles can be time-consuming and demanding due to their inherent physical challenges. However, with careful planning, effective communication, and proper care, one can enjoy this exhilarating lifestyle without compromising other aspects of life. Here are some strategies to consider:

Set Clear Goals and Priorities

Just like any other life project, achieving success in the anal only lifestyle starts with setting clear goals and priorities. Do you want to reach a certain level of anal stretching? Achieve double anal penetration regularly or stay strictly double anal only? Are you aiming to remove clitoral stimulation entirely from your sexual routine? Define your anal only goals, set clear and realistic timelines for them, and make them a priority in your schedule.

But remember, these goals should not override your daily responsibilities. Work, family commitments, health routines, social obligations—these all form the different aspects of your life that need attention as well. Being clear about your priorities helps you dedicate adequate time to each area without neglecting the others.

Manage Your Time Effectively

Time management is crucial in maintaining a balance between your anal only lifestyle and other responsibilities. Dedicate specific time slots for your anal only practices, whether it’s solo play, with a partner, or a more social anal only activity. Keeping a regular schedule can help in minimizing any potential conflicts between your anal practices and your everyday duties.

You could also combine your anal only lifestyle with other routine activities. For instance, wearing a butt plug during the day is a passive way of practicing anal stretching without needing to set aside extra time. This method can be a great way to maintain your anal only practice without it interfering with your daily routine.

Communication is Key

Open communication with your partner, family, and close friends can be beneficial in balancing your anal only lifestyle. This does not mean you have to disclose every aspect of your lifestyle to everyone. Rather, communicating your needs and requirements in order to set aside time for sexual activities, can foster understanding and support from those around you.

If you’re in a relationship, discussing your anal only lifestyle and the time it entails can lead to shared schedules and mutual understanding. This openness can help manage expectations and reduce potential conflicts, creating a more harmonious balance between your sexual activities and other shared responsibilities.

Physical and Mental Health

Maintaining your physical and mental health is vital for a balanced anal only lifestyle. This means eating a balanced diet, exercising regularly, and getting enough rest. Anal activities, particularly double anal, can be physically demanding. It requires a healthy body for a safe and satisfying experience.

On a psychological level, a healthy mental state enables you to enjoy your anal only activities more fully and deal with any challenges that may arise. Moreover, a balanced lifestyle supports overall mental well-being.

Resilience and Adaptability

Life is unpredictable, and we all face unexpected responsibilities at times. Balancing your anal only lifestyle with other duties requires resilience and adaptability. There will be days where you may not be able to dedicate as much time to your anal only activities as you’d like. That’s perfectly okay. Don’t beat yourself up over it. Instead, focus on adapting your schedule and finding ways to include your anal only lifestyle into your adjusted routine.

Professional Help and Support

Finally, don’t shy away from seeking professional help when needed. Whether it’s talking to a sex therapist, joining an anal only support group, or attending workshops and seminars, professional resources can provide the advice and support you need in your journey.

Balancing the anal only lifestyle with other responsibilities can be a challenging feat. But remember, this journey is about personal fulfillment and satisfaction. Keep your well-being as your top priority and enjoy the journey at your own pace. With the right balance, you can enjoy the pleasures of the anal only lifestyle while effectively managing your daily responsibilities.

We’re often asked why couples should consider adopting an anal only lifestyle. Today, we’ll explore the various reasons that are leading more and more real life couples to take the leap into the anal only world.

Firstly, what is the anal only lifestyle? Simply put, it’s a commitment to focus sexual activity primarily around anal sex. This means leaving traditional vaginal sex behind, and embracing anal penetration as the primary form of intimacy.

Now, let’s explore why everyday couples might consider this switch.

1. Heightened Pleasure: Both men and women have reported experiencing heightened pleasure through anal sex. For men, the tightness and unique sensations provide an unparalleled sexual experience. Women, on the other hand, can have more intense orgasms due to the number of nerve endings in the anal region, as well as the indirect stimulation of deep internal pleasure zones.
2. Increased Intimacy: Anal sex requires a higher level of trust and communication between partners. This can lead to increased intimacy and a stronger bond. It’s about mutual respect, open dialogue, and a shared commitment to explore new boundaries.
3. Enhanced Male Control: With vaginal sex, there is a certain level of restraint required of men to ensure their partners are comfortable. With anal sex, after appropriate preparation and communication, there can be a greater degree of freedom and control, which many men find empowering and arousing.
4. Novelty and Excitement: Anal only brings a certain novelty and freshness to a couple’s sex life. It’s a whole new world of exploration and pleasure that can bring excitement back into a relationship.
5. Effective Contraception: Anal sex provides a natural method of contraception, allowing couples to engage in spontaneous sex without the worry of an unwanted pregnancy. This, however, doesn’t remove the need for protection against STDs.

Making the switch to the anal only lifestyle is a journey, one that requires mutual understanding, patience, and care. Starting slow with lots of lube and gradually increasing comfort with anal play is key to a positive transition.

As with any major change, it’s vital to keep an open mind, communicate honestly, and prioritize your partner’s comfort and pleasure. Remember, the goal is to enrich your shared sexual experience, bringing you closer together as a couple.

So, why not give it a try? The anal only lifestyle may just be the exciting change you and your partner have been searching for. Stay adventurous, and enjoy the journey!

Vaginal sex is, even still, often considered by many to be the default form of sexual intimacy. However, it is not universally enjoyable or even possible for everyone. A variety of medical conditions can make vaginal sex uncomfortable, painful, or even impossible. These include conditions such as vaginismus, endometriosis, pelvic inflammatory disease, and many others. The anal only lifestyle, wherein vaginal sex is set aside in favor of anal sex, provides a feasible and satisfying alternative for those dealing with such health issues.

Before delving into the benefits of the anal only lifestyle, it’s crucial to dispel some misconceptions about anal sex. Contrary to prevalent myths, when performed correctly — that is, with ample preparation, communication, lubrication, and consensual agreement between partners — anal sex can be safe, pleasurable, and free of pain.

For individuals with conditions like vaginismus, which involves involuntary muscle spasms in the pelvic floor muscles that can make vaginal sex extremely painful, the anal only lifestyle can be a lifeline. It offers an avenue for sexual expression and pleasure that avoids triggering the distressing symptoms associated with their condition. Instead of feeling left out or incapable of enjoying sexual activity, adopting the anal only lifestyle can provide a sense of normalcy and fulfillment.

Even for conditions that aren’t directly related to the vagina, such as interstitial cystitis, where sexual activity can trigger discomfort or pain, the anal only lifestyle can provide a solution. By focusing on anal sex, these individuals can enjoy sexual pleasure without the fear of triggering their symptoms.

The anal only lifestyle also offers benefits to those experiencing menopausal symptoms, such as vaginal dryness or thinning of vaginal tissues. These changes can make vaginal sex uncomfortable or painful. By adopting the anal only lifestyle, women can continue to enjoy active sex lives without resorting to hormone therapies or other medical interventions.

Furthermore, individuals who have undergone hysterectomies or other gynecological surgeries may find the anal only lifestyle a viable option. This lifestyle allows them to reclaim their sexual lives post-surgery without the need for further medical intervention or risk to their health.

Of course, the anal only lifestyle is not just about avoiding pain or discomfort. It also offers a range of potential pleasures. Many individuals find that anal sex offers a unique and deeply satisfying form of sexual stimulation. In fact, with the right techniques, many people find they can achieve orgasm solely through anal sex.

Adopting the anal only lifestyle is also not without its potential challenges. There’s often a learning curve involved, particularly for those new to anal sex. Patience, communication, and plenty of lubrication are essential. But with time and practice, many individuals find that the rewards far outweigh the initial effort.

While we have long-celebrated Anal Only April and No Pussy November, we are now going to be supplementing those with monthly challenges designed to attract more engagement with the anal only lifestyle and push those already practicing anal only to go further in their own lifestyle.

It’s time to launch into Jumpstart July! This month, we’re challenging you to step up your anal game and reach new heights of pleasure. This challenge is designed to give your anal only journey a powerful boost, whether you’re a newbie or a veteran.

If you’re new to the anal only lifestyle, now’s the time to dive in! Begin by discussing the plan with your partner, or if you’re riding solo, get your toys ready and set your intention for a month of anal exploration. It can start with simple anal play and gradually increase to more intense experiences, such as using larger toys, trying anal sex for the first time, or committing to a month of anal only.

For those already in the anal only lifestyle, Jumpstart July offers a perfect opportunity to level up your anal activities!

Consider stepping up your butt plug routine. If you’re not yet wearing a butt plug daily, this is the month to commit. Try wearing your plug for longer durations or even aim to stay plugged the entire day! If you’re comfortable with your current plug, why not explore larger sizes or different shapes for new sensations?

Feel like pushing boundaries further? Double anal could be your next venture. Experiment with your partner and a toy, two partners, or even two toys. The double sensation could be the jumpstart your anal play routine needs!

This July, we’re also introducing the advanced challenge of “Fathom the Depths.” This is for those who are ready to explore deep anal play. With the right tools and caution, deep anal can bring about extraordinary pleasure.

Remember, everyone’s journey is different, and the goal is to explore, experiment and enjoy. Keep things safe, consensual, and pleasure-focused. Share your experiences with the community, ask your questions, offer advice and let’s keep the discussion going!

Are you ready for Jumpstart July? Let us know your plans!