Anonymous: My boyfriend and I have been together since high school and up until now I’ve only ever given him blowjobs but recently he told me he really wants to try doing anal. I’ve read a lot about anal since then and I’m a little nervous to take it up my butt but I also really want to impress him by doing a good job, so I was wondering if you could give me any advice on how I can give him the best experience possible and make sure it’s as pleasurable as possible for him? Thanks!

Thanks for the message, I’m glad to hear that you’re considering starting to do anal and go anal only with your boyfriend. I’d encourage starting by reading through the Guide to Anal Sex and the Anal Only Lifestyle and having him read it too. This will establish a good foundation for preparing for anal sex and calming any fears you might have.

You’ll likely need to train for a bit before you do it the first time, and using butt plugs and other toys will help a lot, as well as introducing practices like fingering and rimming. Once you do start having anal sex you may not be able to do it more than once or twice a week at first, but with practice you absolutely can start doing it daily or more frequently if you want.

I highly encourage adopting it wholeheartedly and pursuing it from the perspective of mutual pleasure, and focusing purely on anal without vaginal, staying anal only and a vaginal virgin, because the pleasure is so much superior and vaginal virginity is something special and beautiful.

Welcome to the 11th annual No Pussy November! It’s that time of the year again where we challenge everyone to forego vaginal sex entirely and fully embrace the benefits and pleasures of the anal only lifestyle.

Whether you’re new to the anal only lifestyle or a long-standing devotee, No Pussy November offers a unique opportunity to explore or strengthen your commitment to the anal only path and explore new levels of pleasure and intimacy.

For newcomers to the lifestyle, this month is a great opportunity to try out anal sex and masturbation as your exclusive sexual activities. Commit to daily anal stimulation, either by yourself or with a partner, and see how your body responds. You may just find that it’s an enjoyable and satisfying change!

For our experienced anal only followers, we challenge you to push your boundaries even further. Are you regularly wearing your butt plug? Maybe it’s time to upsize or try to wear it for longer periods. Have you tried double anal yet? This might be the perfect opportunity to introduce this more intense pleasure into your routine.

We’re also continuing our advanced challenge from last year: Double Anal Only November. For those of you who are up to the challenge, try to incorporate double anal in every sexual encounter this month, either with two partners, a partner and a toy, or two toys if you’re playing solo.

So, who’s with us for No Pussy November this year? Let us know what your plans are, and keep us updated with your progress.