Message: My First Anal Only Woman
Tim: I am a 30 something man and I have met a woman in her 70s, we have been enjoying each others company a lot and I asked her if she would like to make love. She said yes and was very forward about how she prefers to primarily have anal sex, she is the first woman I’ve ever encountered like this.
All the advice I have read online about anal sex is targeted towards much younger women, what considerations are there for having anal sex with a woman her age?
Congratulations on meeting an anal only woman who is very clear and up front about her preference and intention. Generally the same advice will apply, but since she knows what she likes and wants and prefers, I would also encourage checking with her about what she needs from you to ensure her enjoyment and safety. If she actively engages in anal sex, she probably has a good ability to relax her anus for you.
I have to say, the Anal Only Lifestyle has been a real game changer for me. My girlfriend and I, we both love it – the lack of pressure to perform, the ease with which I can bring her to orgasm, the feeling of connectedness that anal sex fosters.
She jokes that anal sex keeps her feeling young and fit, the truth is being in bed with her afterwards she makes me feel incredible as well.
Here’s to a lot more anal sex.