Message: Considering Going Anal Only After My Daughter Told Me About the Lifestyle
AnalOnlyMom: When my daughter first shared her decision to engage the Anal Only lifestyle while choosing to remain a vaginal virgin, my initial reaction was a mix of concern and curiosity. As a mother, my instinct is always to protect and guide, but I’ve learned that supporting her means respecting her autonomy and choices, even if they are different from what I might have expected or chosen for myself. She’s an adult now, and I admire her confidence in making a choice that aligns with her personal values and desires.
As I listened to her explain her decision, I couldn’t help but reflect on my own experiences and choices. I realized that her decision had sparked a curiosity in me—one I hadn’t anticipated. I found myself wondering about the motivations behind her choice and the experiences she might be having. It wasn’t just about the specifics of her sexual activities but also about the underlying reasons and feelings she had.
Her choice led me to think about my own perceptions and experiences with sexuality. I started to explore the idea of what it would mean for me to consider something similar. Not that I’m planning to make any drastic changes in my life, but her choice made me more introspective about my own desires and boundaries. It’s fascinating how learning about someone else’s journey can prompt a deeper exploration of our own.
Supporting my daughter has also opened up a space for us to have more honest and open conversations about sex and intimacy. We talk about her experiences and the reasons behind her choices, and through these conversations, I’ve come to appreciate her decision even more. It’s helped me realize that being open to new ideas and perspectives, even those that challenge my own, can lead to a greater understanding of both my daughter and myself.
Thanks for sharing! I think it’s great that you were able to reflect and get inspired to consider anal only in your own life based on her decision and explanation. You say you aren’t planning to make drastic changes but also that you’re considering AO for yourself. I highly encourage embracing anal only and making the transition as soon as you can—at least to try it at first, before committing long term if you enjoy it! Is there anything holding you back?
I hope you’ve given Anal Only a try.
My mother and sister are both Anal Only and have been for a few years now and my niece is showing the first signs of curiosity so I guess all things anal run deep in my family, it may be the same for yours.
Continue to support your daughter in being a vaginal virgin, that’s a special thing.
Linda, do you think that vaginal virginity is something special cause most girls still use their pussies to make love? Or having hymen in vagina is something very feminine?
Hi Nina, the hymen isn’t important as many women may not be born with one or it may be ruptured without vaginal penetration.
It’s a woman or girl taking the decision for her anus to be her primary recreational sexual organ that’s important, this is currently publicly transgressive. Remaining a vaginal virgin is the biggest commitment to the Anal Only Lifestyle that a woman can make.
Linda, so do you think women and girls should be encouraged to Anal Only? How would you argue to them that it is better than using your vagina?
Do you think only Mothers and Sisters should convince girls or should schools also be used to promote the anus as better than the vagina?
Nina, I’m an Anal Only advocate so yes I believe that women and girls should be encouraged along that path.
I would argue from my own personal experience of having more enjoyable sex but also more intimate sex, I’ve never felt more in love and emotionally connected to my husband since doing Anal Only with him.
Schools should absolutely be teaching that anal sex is a completely normal sex act and should be included in any sex education curriculum.
Anecdotally half of high school students have had experience with anal sex, so they’re doing it anyway the least we can do is give them the information and tools so they can do it safely and enjoy the experience.
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Anal sex is stigmatize negatively since girls connect the ass with poop. Girls must grow up learning straight about the true nature and main use of their asshole. Anal only pornography should be fully endorsed to teach the natural use of the asshole.
That’s right, girls grow up associating the anus with poop, they should be taught how to clean their butts properly for anal sex, and girls should know that anal sex is the best method of contraception