Message: Anal Only Dating Site?
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Anonymous: I wonder if there is an anal only dating site?
There are some spam/bot-filled ones out there that claim to be anal dating sites, but I wouldn’t expect much from them. Dating based entirely around a specific sexual concept isn’t generally going to go all that well. Rather, look for someone you like in a general sense and who is sexually open-minded, and discuss becoming anal only with her or just explore anal together without any commitments at first, make it really pleasurable for her and make her feel sexy about it, and if she likes it, she’ll probably want to do more, and from there you can ease naturally towards anal only together.
The majority of anal only relationships evolve naturally in that manner. Others have luck identifying early on as being anal only and wanting an anal only relationship, with varying levels of success. Being up front works great for some, and getting to know someone a bit more first works better for others.
The original version of this post on Tumblr received the following response:
bukkakegirlblog: As with most kinks, an anal only relationship works better on paper than in practice. I love anal sex, and I have a lot of it, but I also like to eat burritos, and sometimes the two ought not to mix, if you catch my drift. Anal only is, in my mind, a fine goal, but my pussy is fun to fuck too. I promise you won’t be disappointed by it.
To which the following rebuttal was made:
I’ll have to respectfully disagree, as evidenced by the many people out there actively living an anal only lifestyle. Now, that doesn’t mean that it’s necessarily for everyone, and that’s totally fine! But there are those of us out there who love it enough to make it work. Sure, it might sometimes be challenging in somewhat different ways compared to other forms of sex, but it can absolutely be worth it, and in general there’s less of an impact to sexual spontaneity than one might suspect.
I totally understand if it might be a fantasy for some people that they aren’t interested in making a reality, but to generalize and say that being anal only works better on paper than in practice isn’t really correct for everyone.
Furthermore, there are a lot of anal only enthusiasts out there who have no interest in vaginal sex. We would be disappointed by pussy, not out of any fault of your own or in a way that should be interpreted as critical of your pussy, but by the simple fact that we aren’t attracted to pussy or interested in fucking it and do find it a disappointment in comparison to anal. Again, not trying to suggest that your opinion is personally invalid, just that it doesn’t apply to everyone, particularly those who are anal only enthusiasts.
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