Message: Time to Reduce Touching My Clit
reguara: I do not have vaginal penetration since 2016. But i still touch my clit a lot. I feel now it is time to reduce that. I was wondering if stop masturbating While having my Ass fucked is a good start. Or you rather suggest another approach?
Congratulations for deciding to take the next step and work to stop using your clit.
If you often touch your clit outside of anal masturbation or sex, you could start by only allowing yourself clitoral stimulation while receiving anal penetration of some sort.
If you already only stimulate your clit during anal or you’d rather dive in with something a little more focused, I’d suggest warming up with light anal stimulation—rimming or external anal massage—rather than using your clit, and start practicing focusing on the sensations and pleasure points you can find from anal stimulation rather than distracting yourself and drowning them out with your clit. Focus on what feels good with anal and pursue pleasure and orgasms with anal only.
Starting out if you find yourself near an orgasm but unable to get over the edge, try a small amount of clitoral stimulation at the very end—just a light touch or two—to push yourself closer to the edge, but try to actually get over the edge with your ass. The more you do it, try to rely on your clit less. If you can already cum from anal, you should avoid using your clit in this situation.
Sometimes during the transition you might not reach orgasm. It’s a process of getting to that point, and it’s good to recognize that it’s okay to not orgasm every time while you’re working on moving away from your clit, and the increased arousal of having sex without an orgasm at the end can help make it more likely to figure out how to achieve more consistently in the future.
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