Message: Pussy Denial?
This message was originally posted to the Anal Only Bdsmlr blog, and is being cross-posted here.
ripebabylady: What’s your opinion on Pussy denial? Do you think it’s important in an anal only relatioship?
I think that it’s dependent on each person’s individual interpretation of anal only.
For some, anal only primarily means no vaginal sex, and mixing some external vaginal or clitoral stimulation, or even fingering or use of a toy vaginally, is okay so long as they don’t have vaginal intercourse. That’s the fundamental defining element of being anal only, so as far as I’m concerned, people can call themselves anal only if that’s the case.
For others, they want to have nothing to do with their pussy or clit, and only think it’s acceptable if they deny it completely. This is also anal only, but more advanced and with more options. It’s what works better for some people.
Ultimately, it’s up to each person to decide what works best for them within the framework of anal only!
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