dragonstout: What do you think is better for a long term anal only lifestyle? using lubrication products like KY etc. vs. dry penetration with maybe spit and pre-cum and an actual load to the anus. Lol asking expert tier questions

Lube is clearly better, because in general, going without lube is going to cause damage and pain. Spit works fine as lube for some people, but isn’t going to work for everyone. But you’ve got to have some sort of lubrication for it to even work well. How much and what type varies from person to person.

ironlion8: Is baby oil a good lube for anal? What would you recommend to a first time couple?

I would not suggest baby oil, no. Try a water based lube or silicone lube (don’t use silicone lubes with silicone sex toys, however—it will ruin them). A lot of people do like coconut oil.