crownjules69: My partner really loves anal, she actually prefers it. The only reason we don’t do it every time is because of hygiene. She says she always wants it in the ass though, she just doesn’t know what to do. I was wondering if you have any non-obvious tips?

A balanced, low-fat, high fiber diet along with occasional douching as needed is all most people need. It can become a standard part of your daily routine without too much effort or commitment if you want the many benefits of being anal only. It’s well worth it.

If you have more specific questions about hygiene/cleanliness, I can try to answer more specifically.

Anonymous: so usually I use gloves when I get off but I’m out of them, would it be fine to just use my bare hands if there might be some poop involved? sorry if this is a dumb question hah

If things get messy you can always just wash up after. It’s not a big deal.

Anonymous: My wife and I have been moving more into the AO territory. (We both give and receive. ?) However, occasionally we’ve noticed that our diets (and daily activities?) can affect the amount of pleasure as well as “unwanted visitors”. What are some good habits to get into food or otherwise, that you’ve noticed help with the AO lifestyle? How much prep goes into each time?

A generally balanced diet that’s relatively low fat and relatively high fiber, along with a good exercise routine, can really help establish a natural baseline for cleanliness. From there, light douching/rectal flushing with warm water as needed. Not much cleaning effort should be generally needed once you establish a good routine.

Anonymous: As a female going anal only, I was wondering about enemas. I bought a bulb and will be using that. Is there anything to make an enema sexier? Or just accept it’s part of the lifestyle?

Congratulations on going anal only, first! That’s always a great decision.

Not everyone finds enemas/douching to be necessary, and many people primarily control cleanliness through simple dietary control (a low-fat, low-sugar balanced diet with a healthy amount of fiber does wonders for natural cleanliness) and getting to know their daily digestive routine to know the best times of day to have sex.

For those who do or who want to make extra sure, a small douching is all that you really need, just enough warm water to flush out the rectum without going deeper, repeated a couple times. Done after going to the bathroom each day, you rarely need more, and it can just take a few minutes. So in that sense, it can just be a quick, easy and routine part of the lifestyle. Some see it as another form of warmup, getting clean and starting to relax before play/sex.

There are those who really enjoy enemas as a form of sexual play in and of itself, but that usually involves longer and deeper enemas, which get into cleaning out the colon well beyond the rectum, and aren’t generally as good to do quite as often as it can disrupt the natural balance of the intestinal flora, whereas a simple rectal flush doesn’t do that.

Anonymous: hi! my bf has asked me to eat him out, and i’m interested in it, but scared of what it may smell and taste like :”) any tips? how should i go about this?

That’s great that he wants you to try this and that you’re willing to do it!

Take a shower together first and wash each other with soap so you know he’s clean there. Then, just go for it. Licking a clean ass just tastes like skin, pretty much, with a bit of a musky, salty, slightly bitter smell/taste at times. It can be very nice. I’m sure you’ll both enjoy it a lot, especially once you see how much pleasure it can give him.

If you wanted to, you could try it on yourself first to know what to expect—after a shower of your own, rub your asshole with your fingers for a bit and then suck on them. You might even discover in the process that ass to mouth with his cock from your ass is something you’d like to start doing regularly!

Anonymous: so i have question: how to make sure i have no poo in my ass before i do anal sex??

For the most part, especially if you have a pretty balanced diet, unless you are doing it right before you need to go to the bathroom, you won’t. The rectum stays pretty empty most of the time. So, start by going to the bathroom. If you want to clean further than that, get a small enema bulb/douche and squirt a little bit of warm water into your rectum, hold it a moment, and release into a toilet, repeated several times until the water consistently comes out clean, and you should be pretty good to go. It does not take much water, and you do not want to overdo it and go deeper than the rectum generally for most anal play/sex.

Anonymous: What happened if I enject water in her ass?

That’s called douching, or an enema. You can flush out the rectum, and beyond, with water, to clean it before other sex or anal play. Some people do enema play as its own form of stimulation because they enjoy it.

For cleaning before sex, you usually don’t want to use too much water, just enough to clean out the rectum only, repeated several times. If you get water deeper into the colon, it will often “activate” the colon and speed the movement of its contents, causing a bigger mess and requiring a longer period of repeated deeper enemas to flush everything out until the water consistently comes out clear.

Deep enemas are often recommended to not be done too frequently to avoid a loss of important intestinal flora that are part of the digestive process. A simple rectal flush, on the other hand, is fine to do.

nana020810: It turns me on watching a large black dick pounding some innocent ass. I enjoy anal with my fiancée and I really get into bad girl need to be dominated mode. The problem is not being able to tell when it’s “okay” to do it or if it will get messy. He will instantly stop if he sees anything. Are there any ways to prep or do you have suggestions because I would love to do anal only or at least to try. Thanks!

Start with a balanced, high-fiber diet and go to the bathroom before having sex. If that’s not clean enough for you, try a small enema bulb with warm water after going to the bathroom—just a few small flushes should clean out the rectum enough to have sex. You don’t want to overdo it and get too much water in at a time, so lean towards a smaller amount multiple times in a row.

You definitely should go anal only, it sounds like you’d love it!

k-azile: What is a good way to clean your anus before having anal sex? I’d like to be semi clean before my fiance enters. I know it’s impossible to be 100% and I’m okay with that. I’d just like to know a routine or product. Thank you.

A balanced diet, daily play, knowing your daily digestive routine, and going to the bathroom before having sex are good places to start. If you want to achieve more than just that can provide, try a small warm water flush with an enema bulb after going to the bathroom—not much water, just a small squirt or two.

harzerkoenig: Hey there! I just wanted to thank you for your awesome blog, please keep the content! And I really appreciate your ask inbox, especially your answers on it. My gf and me did anal quite often but recently, she is really concerned about not being clean, even if she’d gone to the loo before. She thinks there is still smth in there (but there isn’t). My knowledge and experience in anal doesn’t seem to convince her, so for anal only april is unfortunately no way. Thank you for your time!

Thanks for the kind words, glad you enjoy the blog.

Was there any particular incident that prompted her to grow concerned about anal cleanliness? A messy session, or something that made her feel bad or ashamed? Something must have caused a change of attitude.

Perhaps trying to talk about it more openly and ask her directly what caused her to become worried about not being clean enough for anal, or even if there’s something more to it than that and she’s using it as a cover. (Don’t be accusatory, just try to figure out what her real concerns are.)

Some women find anal a lot of pressure because they feel obligated to always stay perfectly clean, but that’s of course impossible to always be 100% clean over an extended period of time, even if it’s almost always the case. Adopting a realistic attitude and both recognizing that occasionally it might get a little messy (just like all forms of sex, really…) and that that’s not a big deal can relieve a lot of that pressure to be perfectly clean always and make things more fun.