It’s hard to believe that it’s been nearly seven years since our first No Pussy November anal only challenge! Inspired by the idea that the best way to decide if going anal only is the right thing for you is to try it for at least a month, No Pussy November started as a month where many different people pledged to spend up to a month without vaginal sex, focusing just on anal sex, and shared their experiences.

Since then, with the growth of the Anal Only Lifestyle community across multiple platforms and with many people years into committed anal only relationships, it’s expanded to also be an annual celebration of anal sex and anal only for those who are already living in the lifestyle, and an opportunity for them to try new and different things.

So whether you’re new to the idea of anal only, have tried it before but would like to try it again, or are actively anal only and want to try something new, it’s time to start thinking about it and making plans with your partners to spend the entire month of November anal only or to introduce something new—clitoral denial, vaginal chastity, long term butt plug wear, a daily anal sex routine, bigger toy play or even more advanced things like anal fisting or double anal—into your anal only routine.

Be sure to share with us your ideas and goals for the month!

Anonymous: When is the next anal only challenge you’re going to do? I want to try going anal only with my gf but I think she would be more willing to try it if we were doing it along with a lot of other people.

We now officially do Anal Only April and No Pussy November each year, both of which run for the entire month.

Anal only challenges can be done at any time on your own, but as you say, some people find comfort in doing them alongside a larger group of people, so waiting until April could be your best bet in that scenario. If she does show interest in doing it sooner, though, you can always suggest trying it on your own anyway.

goodlilsubbygirl: So what’s your punishment if you fail anal only November??

bisexualattentionwhore: I’ll have to be anal only through December too. But who knows maybe I’ll do that anyway ?

goodlilsubbygirl: Maybe you should just stay anal only through January ??

So I made it all November with out touching my clit and for some stupid reason I used it and now I feel really depressed ashamed and guilty for using it and now I’m almost completely turned off by sex right now and I need some encouragement and advice like should I just force myself to do anal masturbation and try and get turned on again which I can orgasm from just anal also a vaginal virgin ?any ways please help ?

So it’s actually really common for someone to feel bad or depressed and have a huge arousal crash when giving in to vaginal or clitoral stimulation after a long anal only streak. This likely has to do with a combination of factors, including the breaking of a streak and a long-term goal, and the fact that clitoral orgasms already have arousal-dampening and depressive effects for a lot of women, and so a big one after a long period without them is going to amplify that effect far more.

Don’t feel too bad about it. Try to get yourself back into anal play in the next few days and your arousal will start to grow again. Remember how you felt after a clitoral orgasm the next time you feel like you might want one, and you can use this experience to build an even stronger anal only foundation for the next time around. Expect that it will probably happen again—it can take multiple cycles of building a streak of anal only and then giving in to old habits, but weakening those habits more each time, but it ultimately gets easier with practice.

Anonymous: I didn’t send you any messages earlier in the month but I did No Pussy November all month on my own (I’m single). I wore a plug part of the day every day, masturbated with my dildo at least once daily and sometimes more, and only orgasmed from anal. I had a lot of fun! I’ve always been able to cum from anal so it was easy to just not use my clit to masturbate. I think I’m going to just keep going with it, it is a fun way to masturbate. Might be hard to explain when I meet a guy, though!

I’m glad to hear it was a good experience for you and that you’re going to stay anal only! That’s the whole point of No Pussy November, encouraging people to try anal only for themselves to see how it actually works for them in their life, rather than just a fantasy or a fun idea. A lot of people think that it wouldn’t work well for them until they actually try it and see that, in fact, it’s great and they want more. So, always good to see more people having that experience!

As you say, though, it’s definitely easier to decide to become anal only on your own and commit to it in your solo life than it is when trying to incorporate it with new partners as well. You could take different approaches depending on how serious you are about being anal only going forward. You can always stay anal only on your own and have that be your thing for yourself, while being more flexible with partners and trying to shift things to more anal or anal mostly/only over time, or just be up front about what you want and tell them that you prefer anal and don’t want to do vaginal, and seek partners who share the same preference for anal. There are certainly men out there who want the same, even if not everyone does, and for the right guy, finding someone like you would be their lucky day!

No Pussy November 2018 has officially come to a close! Thanks to everyone who has participated and shared their stories and experiences both publicly and privately. Feel free to continue sharing, send us your conclusions, let us know if you’ve decided to stop or continue staying anal only, etc. Tumblr has disabled NSFW tag search, so we can no longer search for terms like “no pussy november” to find posts made on the subject—please share with us via an ask or chat if you make such posts.

If you didn’t get a chance to participate in No Pussy November this year but would like to try going anal only, why not give it a try anyway? Whether you start out for a few days, a week, a month, or more, it doesn’t have to be November or April during our official challenge months to try going anal only. You can, and should, do it at any point!

So I’ve gone all this month so far with out touching my clit and I’m able to orgasm from anal, think I should just keep going strictly anal only or should I phase my clit in and use it a little more? And am I still considered a vaginal virgin if I have only fingered my pussy once?

Congratulations on being anal only and going without touching your clit all month! If you’re able to orgasm from anal and you’ve gone this long without clitoral stimulation, why not try to keep going and see how long you can go without it? There’s nothing inherently wrong with clitoral stimulation, of course, and if you really want to keep doing it, by all means go ahead, but if you enjoy not doing it and only orgasming from anal, I’d suggest that you continue to build on your month-long streak so far and see where it takes you.

Vaginal virginity most commonly refers to not having had vaginal intercourse with a partner, so yes, you are a vaginal virgin if you’ve only fingered yourself vaginally. Is remaining a vaginal virgin and being anal only long-term something that interests you?

Anonymous: So Daddy used his pussy before the end of no pussy November. It was amazing but im disappointed for not making it to the end. Sad to say he doesn’t want to do anal only anymore. What can I do to change his mind??

What are his reasons for not wanting to continue with anal only? With a specific idea of his reasoning, there might be different approaches you can take, but in a general sense, you can back away from it a little bit for a while but still maintain a strong anal focus and positivity, wear plugs, play with your ass, tell him how hot it makes you and how sexy you feel when he fucks your ass, etc., and see if he wants to try anal only again in the future. Some people dive straight into it and it sticks, others ease into it very gradually over time, and others yet cycle back and forth for a while before settling one way or the other.

Anonymous: Sadly I don’t think we will stay anal only this month has been awesome, finding out I love anal more than anything else, the amazing orgasms, Ahh oh well; I’m going to keep following to hopefully be able to keep up the dream 🙁 I will continue my solo play and get it when I can. Hubs just loves the vagina too much. Thank you all for your lovely posts.

I’m sorry to hear that he doesn’t want it as much as you do, but don’t give up hope for it just yet. Not everyone gets there immediately, but it can still be possible to gradually move towards anal only over time. Try to come up with a compromise with him where you incorporate anal into your routine together even still doing vaginal. You can be completely anal only with your solo play, and get as much anal with him as you can. Some end up “anal always” where they still do vaginal but always (or usually) at least end sex with anal. Others go back to vaginal but then do anal on a regular interval as well, or intermittently go back to a period of anal only, whether for a week at a time, or another month a few times a year. Over time, who knows? He might come around.

Good luck!

Anonymous: Anal is my favorite thing, it feels amazing every time. My boyfriend hasnt fucked my pussy in almost 2 months and i could care less if he ever does again. His friend and his girlfriend wanna try it out too, so they asked us for pointers, and i hope she likes being an anal slut as much as i do.

It really is the best thing ever. You should tell him that you want to commit to being anal only with him and make it official if you haven’t already. (It is No Pussy November, after all! The perfect time for an anal only commitment.)

It’s a really positive thing for anal-loving women and anal only women to help their friends do anal and go anal only themselves, because that direct connection and trust can really help people open up to the idea of doing anal and have a good experience, countering the myths and bad experiences that are still somewhat pervasive in the world. Do your best, make sure they’re both well-informed and ready for anal together, and I’m sure she’ll have an awesome first experience and want to keep doing anal more and more after.