Announcing this year’s upcoming No Pussy November challenge! One of the best ways to experience the realities and benefits of the anal only lifestyle is to challenge yourself to go anal only without any vaginal sex for an entire month. It’s enough time to immerse yourself in the lifestyle and work past any early difficulties, without being a scary up-front commitment to dive straight into long-term anal only. Countless anal only couples and individuals got their start with No Pussy November or with a similar month-long challenge.

The rules are simple: from November 1 to 30, you will not engage in vaginal intercourse. Any further restrictions beyond that are up to you—whether you include clitoral stimulation, for example, depends on your own preferences and needs. Many choose not to in the hopes of achieving pure anal only pleasure and orgasms, others prefer the combination of anal and clit stimulation.

For those of us already anal only, there’s no need to feel left out: if there’s some new twist on the anal only lifestyle that you are curious to try, this is the perfect opportunity to explore it! Consider adding clitoral denial, ass to mouth, wider or deeper anal stretching, double anal, long term plug wear, orgasm denial, physical chastity, anal only tattoos (whether temporary or permanent), clit numbing, or anything else that might interest you into the mix as your personal challenge for the month.

So, get your ideas ready and start talking to your partner to get them on board! If you’re single, you can still participate as well—when masturbating, keep it strictly anal only, and when hooking up, just tell them that you’re participating in No Pussy November and are only doing anal and oral. Don’t forget to share your plans and ideas with us.

Questions and requests for advice are also always welcome at any time.

It’s been a great summer and now many months since I first came to you.

No, we are not anal only yet, but I can see it as possible one day. It could happen any day or be a few years off but I feel very positive about our chances.

But when I compare where we were to where we are now, I wouldn’t have believed the progress if you had asked me at the start of the year.

Sure I’d prefer not to be doing her pussy at all, but for all the anal we have now it’s a small price to pay, so the advice I’d continue to give all your followers here is to BE PATIENT. Give her time and space to find her own preferences and she will.

Sex continues to be fantastic and I believe she loves all the anal fun we have as much as I do. Like I said before I don’t make any demands so she’s much more willing and as a benefit always relaxed about it. I can’t stress how much difference that’s making to her enjoyment, comfort and how long or often we have sex.

She’s still hanging on to some vaginal out of habit I guess and I’m ok with that. I know everybody is different but this has worked for us. Some might be uncomfortable even with minimal vaginal but I think it’s important to keep in mind the long term goal.

I’ll continue to submit more in the future so you know where we are at.

Thank you for following up, that’s great to hear! Maybe during one of the upcoming anal only challenge months—No Pussy November or Anal Only April—you could see if she’d be willing to try exploring just anal for a month and see how she feels about vaginal after that. Many who try anal only for a month or two lose any hesitations they had about the idea before that and want to commit to it full time after.

Anonymous: First of all I love your blog so much! I’ve always loved anal and have recently realized that I want to live an anal only lifestyle. I am married and my husband understands I love anal and is willing to give it, but if he fingers or fucks me, he always does it in my vagina before my ass. How do I tell him that i don’t just like anal, but that i want to completely reject my vagina as my sexual organ? I think he knows i prefer anal, but not that I wish for it to be my only way to receive pleasure.

Thank you for the kind words.

I’d just start talking with him more about it and telling him what you want and prefer and need. If he fingers your pussy, tell him “I want you to play with my ass instead.” If he fucks your pussy, tell him “put it in my ass”. You don’t have to necessarily frame things in a manner that make him feel bad about doing things you don’t enjoy compared to anal, but telling him how much more you prefer anal and that you want to just do anal and oral all the time and how good it is when he plays with and fucks your ass can help to make it clear. You can also ask him to try going anal only for a month with you and see how you both like it. No Pussy November 2018, our annual fall anal only challenge month, is just a few months away!

Anonymous: Will you be encouraging your followers to participate in anal only august this year? I definitely wanna give it a go but im scared!

Since we do No Pussy November every year, and August is comparatively close to November, as of this year we switched to promoting Anal Only April instead of August. That said, everyone is encouraged to go anal only at any time of the year, it’s just that we actively promote the challenge during April and November. If you do try it in August, or any other time, be sure to share your experiences just the same!

naughtygirlxx69: Hey, maybe you should do another anal only month in June. Call it Just Butt June ?? Ps I love cock in my ass. Best fucking feeling ??

At present, there are two “official” anal only challenge months each year: Anal Only April and No Pussy November. These are (roughly) spaced out throughout the year, at times that are conducive to a lot of people participating. (And they coincide with good naming opportunities…) We probably won’t be adding any other officially promoted months life that at this time.

However! Those months are just occasional promotions to encourage people to try going anal only, with the ultimate goal of people choosing to go anal only on their own and stay that way long term, well beyond and outside of those months. So if you’re interested in going anal only, just go for it! When it’s already something you want for yourself, a month or longer commitment at first is a great way to get started and stick with it long enough to get into the habit and develop a sustainable anal only routine. And if by the end of the month you’re still loving it, just keep going. Be sure to post about it and share your experiences to help inspire other people to do the same!

You’re right, anal is the best feeling in the world. You should enjoy it as much as you possibly can.

No Pussy November 2017 has officially come to an end, but that doesn’t mean the fun has to be over!

If you participated this year and made it through the month and enjoyed being anal only, why not commit to staying that way indefinitely? It doesn’t have to be a permanent commitment, just keep going and see where it takes you. Most people find it just keeps getting better the more you stay anal only.

If you missed No Pussy November this year, don’t worry! Just because we celebrate this particular month more publicly, any month is a good month to try becoming anal only! If the idea interests you, get your partner on board any time of the year and declare pussy off limits for a period of time to really focus on anal and try out the anal only lifestyle. Several weeks works as a starting point for some people, but a month is usually best as a real introduction to full time anal only, and some find it takes several months to really stick. Whatever you end up doing, if you have a desire to become anal only, give it a try with a short term commitment and see how it works for you before making a long term commitment.

Anonymous: I just saw your post about No Pussy November and I want to try it. I really like anal a lot and it makes me cum so good. I don’t know why I never thought about trying anal only before, it just seemed like I was supposed to keep doing vaginal too, I guess. Thanks for making me look at things differently! I’m going to tell my boyfriend I want to try going anal only for a month and see where things go from there.

I’m glad to have inspired you to try going anal only and hopefully discover it’s exactly what you really want! I think there are many out there in the same boat, who prefer anal but don’t really consider the idea of becoming anal only, just because it’s not the norm. Good luck and have fun!

Anonymous: Yay! I showed my boyfriend your posts about No Pussy November and all the people trying going anal only this month and he agreed we should try it too! The idea of him only using my ass and mouth and both of us ignoring my pussy just makes me so wet and happy, I’m so excited we’re going to finally do it. We decided that we’ll ignore it completely, including my clit, and I can only cum from anal. (Which I can do easily, thank god!) This is going to be a great month (and hopefully more)!

That’s awesome, thanks for sharing! It’s great that you’re both into it and want to try it—you’re both going to be in for a great time! I definitely encourage just sticking with it and staying anal only if you’re still enjoying it and having a good time at the end of the month.

Keep us updated!

Anonymous: I want to do Anal only November but I don’t know a lot about anal prep. Like I know how anal works and have done it before but I would like to know what you think all the steps of prep should be.

I highly recommend participating in No Pussy November!

Everyone has different needs and preferences for preparation before anal. Some will want to clean out beforehand, others don’t much need to, as the rectum is generally empty except right before going to the bathroom. If you plan to, I recommend just using a small amount of warm water to only flush any residue out of the rectum and not get the water deeper into the colon. Repeat a couple times with just a small bit of water. It should only take several minutes. If you use more water and get into deeper enema territory, you risk causing a bigger mess rather than just cleaning up a little bit.

As for warmup, wearing a butt plug for a while before having sex can be an excellent and enjoyable way to do so, especially if you already have anal experience. A bit of dildoing can do the trick as well. If you’re less experienced, you may want to work through more of a gradient from something small like a single finger, then add fingers as you feel comfortable doing so, working up through the sizes.

If you have any other or more specific questions, feel free to ask!

datoneguysgirl: I told Alpha about No Pussy November

…I may regret this.